pinkminx, they say that engaging is one of those very early signs that everything is literally headed in the right direction. From what I've read once the baby starts to engage labour usually starts 2-4 weeks later. That would be a bit early. I'm probably just getting my hopes up though because that really just applies to first babies. Second time around everything is so stretched out they have room to pop in and out. Ho hum.
As for the portrait, we did some pics of my whole upper body and face but we did quite a few with just the belly with DH's hands on it or with DS resting his head on the bump. Can't wait to see how they turn out. Will definitely post some if you guys are interested.
Nova, have to admit that I'm very impressed that you're still doing the deed! We did with DS but this time around I'm just too tired and there's less opportunity with a three year old running around. I remember I had to 'hide' the bump too. Not a great mood enhancer when the baby starts kicking right in the middle of it either!
Beks, I thought I would go to the first class and see if they're worthwhile. I'd like to meet some other moms and it'll be nice to have some time to really think about this pregnancy. It's so rare that I have a chance to let it all sink in. I'll definitely pass on my dates. A good anaesthetist makes all the difference! I had a great guy when I had DS and he kept me really calm and told me what was happening. So nice.
I've been very lucky and have so far been spared any swelling. Now that I've said that I'll probably blow up this afternoon! I didn't swell much with DS though so I'm hoping it'll be the same this time. I could even wear my ring until a week or so before my due date.
Chacha, I'm glad I'm not the only one getting my bags packed. I'm going to buy some dark PJs for the hospital this weekend and some new slippers. I remember someone recommending dark PJs when I was pregnant with DS and it was very good advice. There's so much leaking going on and it doesn't show as much on dark colours. As for your MIL, I think I would feel the same. Every little decision is so special, especially the first time around. Saying that, I would still take the nappies because you will need what feels like thousands of them and even if the brand your MIL bought isn't the one you choose it could still be good to have them for back up. This time around my MIL has learned not to buy anything without us choosing it. This was after she bought DS so many outfits that we disliked and he never wore. MY mother still does whatever she wants though so I guess it'll never be perfect.
Our move has stalled a little. Nothing serious, just a little hitch further down the chain. Looks like we won't be moving until 7 Oct now. That's just a month from my due date but I'm hoping nesting instinct will kick in and carry me through it all. Fingers crossed!