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This is a thread for anyone who has lost a child or been affected by the loss of a child no matter how big or small or how recent or long ago. We understand.

In memory of the light of my life, Lucia, and all of our little ones taken too soon. x

Makes total sense Shelley xxxxxxxxx

Thats good then. I'm glad your ok. I must make sure im sored for ds to go preschool tomorrow or i may get the spanish inquisition(sp)

Morning all xx

shabs Hope you are feeling a bit better this morning. The menapause is horrible but you will come through it eventually. I remember a few years ago I was talking to my neurologist (I have an auto immune condition which affects my eyes, it flares up every few years) and said to him 'apart from my eyes I am getting hot flushes all the time' he said 'oh poor you' I nearly floored him! I started a flare up 3 days before Richard died but it is getting better now, I have to take steroids which have side effects, puffy face being the worst, I think life is so unfair when everything happens at once. There I go rambling again. You are not an old bag never think that you are so supportive to us all. take care xx

Ah Shabbs... you are an ould bag... but you're our ould bag and we love you lotses You know i loves you really babes x

Hope everyone today is as ok as they can be?

Morning PMSL @ Dee xxx

I think Im 'through' the menopause - no periods for over 2 years TMI??? But the mood swings are monumental

Right....off to prise Tom out of his pit We set off for school at 8.10 LOL - told him he is going even if its just in his boxers!!!

Morning all.
How is everyone im going to have a coffee before doing this dishes. DS stayin for lunch at preschool so i've got time to get a new tattoo. My mums gunna kill me lmao

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ROFL Sassy - I had a moment when you said down South [doh] xx

How is everyone. I'm feeling better now and please with my new artwork lmao

ARGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! I hate packing for just the three of us

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Morning. I'm ok went out and had quite a few drinks last night. Just waiting on mum and dad bringing ds back them im off to the doctors. Think i need a drink to deal with that.

hey there.. remember me??

I havent been around because Ross is being really difficult at the moment. Everything is a major issue .. major meltdowns at every turn and I am not coping well with it

This is not the place to gripe about a boisterous opinionated 5 year old so I have just been lurking and thinking of you all

Morning girls xx

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Bit of a waste of time really. Just been told to go back if the pain gets worse or i start bleeding againn and i dont need an Anti D injection unless i have a D and C.

Hey FM, how are you? I have one of them myself - aren't they fun? If you ever need a natter you can catch me on FB - heat bubbs.

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That is true/ I was only bothered about seeing if i needed anti D so worth it for that

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Sassy as the time rolls on - the acute anguish changes into a deep longing to see our precious children again. BUT the early raw feeling is atrocious. Stick with it my friend, we will all help you and you, in return, help us....you remind us how we felt in those early days...and , I personally, realise that I am getting there. Its a real double edged sword....I cant believe I am where I am now, and I feel for you and all the newly bereaved mums on here.

Your precious, precious girl may not be physically here but she is all around you at all times.....she loves you and you love her...that is a bond that cannot be broken xxx

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