i think my baby is dead

[Titania]

i started bleeding with lots of clots and had pain this morning. Am just waiting for doctor to ring me back. I have just passed something that looks like it could have been 'it' (sorry if TMI) Have had 3 miscarriages before and it feels like deja vu again. DH is miles away and can't get home.

Am totally gutted.

his boss is 40 and still loves at home with his mum so he has no idea what its like to have a wife and kids around

Titania I'm so sorry you are going through this.

Even if his boss is not a family man he must realise that your dh must have compassionate leave.

Oh, Titania. So sorry that this has happened to you.

I'm sorry to hear what you are going through

Thinking of you xxxx

Titania: I am so very sorry for you. I don't know what to say, but I am thinking of you.
xxxj

So sorry to hear this. It must be horrible for you. Please give yourself time to grieve and I hope that your DH has a chance to grieve as well.

I am very sorry for titania too no one desrves this and I hope she is getting the help she needs but can I just say that I find the wording of the thread title harsh and unnecessary I feel it could have been worded in a less shocking way sorry

just wanna give you a big cuddle honey..thinking about you

Titania, I didn't know you were pregnant. I'm so sorry to hear this.

oh no - sorry to hear XXXXX

quickchange, I'm not sure someone would be thinking straight when they were posting in this situation. Give the poor girl a break.

Oh fgs

Quickchange - if you're going through a miscarriage does it really matter how you word the title of your post? NO. And ffs, don't tell me that's another name change?

please think before you post, i dont think T sat down and thought hmmm..what should i put....the reality of whats happend is far more important..please dont turn this into one of 'those' threads

if she thinks that her baby is dead, what other way could she possibly phrase it? "quickchange"

quickchange

Only a "quickchange" now you are back to being who you normally are how cowardly.

There was a post on here about a week or so ago, where some one posted "Lost "DD/DS" today, now a lot of people presumed the child had wandered, .....some presumed the worst, no one felt obliged to change their name to admonish however gently, the OP.

Oh honey, I'm so so sorry.

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im not sorry quickchange...didnt mean to upset...that was the last thing i wanted to do. sorry

i had to go fetch ds1 from school. there was nobody else to get him. I tried ringing the inlaws but got no reply. am in pain now.

I'm so sorry, Titania. I hope your dh is able to get back soon to give you a hug. xx

Don't you go apologising!!!!

(said in a non-shouty at way)

So sorry to hear this titania.

I find it unbelievable that your gp would not offer you a scan. As Lonelymum says there may be still a chance you have a viable pg however small that possibility seems. Now you have had what sadly appears to be four miscarriages at least they will be able investigate the cause for you.

I presume you must have been quite far on if you passed something recognisable (sorry if TMI)?

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DH said he will ring in sick tomorrow and take me to the hospital.

i dont know how far i was really tbh. havent had a period since february. its just a clot i passed looked like it had something in it....(sorry if tmi)