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i think my baby is dead

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Titania · 06/06/2005 13:08

i started bleeding with lots of clots and had pain this morning. Am just waiting for doctor to ring me back. I have just passed something that looks like it could have been 'it' (sorry if TMI) Have had 3 miscarriages before and it feels like deja vu again. DH is miles away and can't get home.

Am totally gutted.

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Toothache · 06/06/2005 13:10

Titania -

TrophyWife · 06/06/2005 13:11

am so sorry for you,

noddyholder · 06/06/2005 13:11

so sorry

Hausfrau · 06/06/2005 13:12

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Gobbledigook · 06/06/2005 13:12
Sad
RTKangaMummy · 06/06/2005 13:13

SadSadSad

cadbury · 06/06/2005 13:14

Oh T!
Thinking of you

LGJ · 06/06/2005 13:14

Titania

I don't know what to say.

beansmum · 06/06/2005 13:14

oh no

Windermere · 06/06/2005 13:14

Take care

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Titania · 06/06/2005 13:32

doc says that it sounds like baby has died........that theres nothing they can do anyway.......and because ive had 3 miscarriages before i am probably the best judge....but it sounds like i have passed 'it'.........to take paracetamol and rest..............sigh....

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sweetmonkey · 06/06/2005 13:34

how far along were you ?i didnt realise you were pg. so sorry for yr loss. have you told yr partner

Thomcat · 06/06/2005 13:34

Oh God, babes, I don't know what to say to you. i'm so, so, sorry.
How far along were you, is there no chance of a scan or some real medical support of some kind other than some decrepid old GP?

huggybear · 06/06/2005 13:42

[[[[[[hugs]]]]]]

Nemo1977 · 06/06/2005 13:44

Titania i can completely empathise having had 3mcs myself...take care of yourself and take it easy

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Titania · 06/06/2005 13:50

i dont know how far i was.........

i know a lot of you probably think it was for the best, but i wanted this baby.....i wanted to be able to hold it in my arms, not sitting on the toilet crying for it as it disappears from me...

it had really given me something so focus on. I was feeling so positive about it....

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lunavix · 06/06/2005 13:53

So sorry hun xx

LGJ · 06/06/2005 13:56

T

Focus on yourself, and grieve for your baby, do not worry what other people think.

LGJ

MarsLady · 06/06/2005 13:57

I'm sorry

sweetmonkey · 06/06/2005 13:57

Have you told yr dp? can't he get bac kto be with you? no one thinks bad things towards you!!!

jessicasmummy · 06/06/2005 13:59

T

Thinking of you hun. Really sorry.

alison222 · 06/06/2005 14:00

So sorry for you.

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Titania · 06/06/2005 14:01

have told DH....he is an hour and a half away. his boss wont bring him home and we have no money for him to get home on his own.....

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Lonelymum · 06/06/2005 14:30

Oh goodness Titania, I had no idea you were pregnant even! I am so sorry. I guess you know the symptoms better than anyone if you have been through this before, but can you get it checked out first? I thought I lost No 4 but it turned out I was losing an undeveloped twin I never knew I was carrying instead. Don't want to raise your hopes, but I hope you get it checked out.

LGJ · 06/06/2005 14:31

Do you mean he has asked his boss and his boss has refused that is monsterous [sp]

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