Fraser's thread for bereaved mummies: Death leaves a heartache no-one can heal - Love leaves a memory no-one can steal

[frasersmummy]

Hello my good friends

Its lovely to be asked to set up our new support tread especially as we head towards our first festive season supporting each other.

I hope Frasers part of the journey is as smooth as Eris, Jack and Matt&Gareths

I'm sending a hug right back at you Frasersmummy.

We will be visiting Cole on Christmas Day, but if you don't want to visit Fraser, then don't. There isn't a rule book for grief, grieving and remembering.

DH and I sometimes make visits to Cole on our own. The strange thing is, when the person who went comes back, the other asks 'how was he? Was he ok?'

Much love to us all and our dear children. And if I don't get on here again before tomorrow, Merry Christmas one and all xxx

Ilike your post made me giggle right out loud cos we do that too...

its not odd at all .. least we dont think it is.

As real life takes over in the next few days I just want you to know that I will be thinking of you all and holding you in my heart

I am soo honoured to have Frasers name on our first every festive thread

I wish you all a very happy and peaceful Xmas

Good night girls - see you in a few hours xx

Good morning all xxx

Good morning TW - morning girls xx

Hiya Everlong.

Cooking and cleaning - but very slowly and with minimum effort!!!

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Hi Girls,

I just wanted to wish you all a very Happy Christmas now in case I don't get on here tomorrow. Thank-you so much for your friendship over the past six months. I wish we could have met in such different circumstances. Best wishes to you all. xxxx

Merry Christmas girls.....I appreciate each and every one of you. May you all find peace and a smile or two. The computer will more than likely be on tomorrow just wanted to send my love to all of you xxxxx

Merry christmas to you all xx

I hope you all manage to find some peace tomorrow and maybe even a smile or two

Love to all of you and of course to all of our beautiful children xxx

merry christmas too girlsxxwish we could be different too but big hugs to you and thanks for getting through this crappy year.
2009 is gonna be better,it cant get worse atmxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Angels

Wanted to leave a song to all our children but didn't want a hymn or a Christmas carol. I adore Robbie Williams and this song always reminds me of my children. I love the live at Knebworth version.

Our children will be sat together tonight - the older ones sat together and talking about Christmases past and the babies playing together. We are only a whisper away from them. They will be proud that we are 'walking together' and remembering them every day.

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have a lovely day tomorrow girls..

merry christmas

merry christmaS girls its quiet her dd is fast asleep but she is 17 so dont get excited now,even dh is asleep still but he prepared alot for today last night,weve been married 25 years and ive never cooked xmas dinner yet,,i have to see to people that come ie tea coffee but he does everything else,but im at work at 7.45pm tonite so taking it easy,son is coming with partner ,and were nipping to see dd1 and the granddaughters laterxxxxxx
merry christmas to a great bunch of ladiesxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Merry Christmas girls.....been up since 7.30am with Tom. Danny, as an extra pressie, bought his friends nintendo ds for tommy. Tommy says its his best pressie!!! Glad I skinned myself to buy him a mini camcorder and camera

Merry Christmas Hazy - its different when our children grow up isin't it?

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Massive hugs Everlong. Very similar in our house. Just me, DH and Tom. Dan, Em and Lewis are coming for their breakfasts in half an hour - so happy faces painted on.

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hope it went well girls all home now and washer has stopped working with my uniform in ,i neeed it tnite

Phew my mum and dad have just gone. Have done 5 full English Breakfasts with all the trimmings and then 5 Roast turkey xmas dinners. All washed up and finally sitting down!!!

Hope you are all ok my friends xx

im feeling crap actualy can i be honest need to vent ,dh dad said hed come and see dd2 this morning never turned up ,rang and ranted he drove past to his mum in hospital,rang him and ranted couldnt you at least ring dh up and told him,dh not happy so went off to jayden on his own,so day ruined why is his family full of arseholes and always peeing him off hed go to moon and back for themxxsorry needed to rant