Fraser's thread for bereaved mummies: Death leaves a heartache no-one can heal - Love leaves a memory no-one can steal

[frasersmummy]

Hello my good friends

Its lovely to be asked to set up our new support tread especially as we head towards our first festive season supporting each other.

I hope Frasers part of the journey is as smooth as Eris, Jack and Matt&Gareths

I feel crap.......
a really stinking cold
have dosed up with ibuprofen
and shaken olbas oil everywhere

Anyone about that i can sneeze and snort over?

Morning girls.....my word - this is a house full of the 'Winter sickness bug' and two chest infections!!

Tom has been sobbing for two days...high temp, barking cough, being sick, the runs etc etc. He's getting better now but I got it on Sunday. Everything hurts - places I didn't know I had hurt!!!

Morning all. Shabs if you remember that thing we discussed a while ago on FB??? the meeting was delayed and happens this afternoon! I will let you know what happens.....................

I am staying away from here if it means I'll catch some horrid bug

Nothing much going on here except the usual hustle and bustle and rush of Christmas.

morning girls all my grandkids are full of snot today middle one is here helping me clean up bless her,x it was our silver anniversary yesterday and we went out gosh i had one glass of wine ,only small and was as red as a berry all nite,

Congratulations Hazy - Its our 31st next March.

xxxx

thats same day as my parents i thinkxare you ready for christmasx

I meant our 31st anniversary next March 18th!! My brain hurts and nothing is working right! Feel so poorly at the moment Hazy that if I am not ready for Christmas I dont care xxxx

Hi all, Shabs no real news to report after my meeting!

hi girls had a letter to tell us to move jaydens things on grave its 2 years tomorrow since we buried him ,am furious bastards where is christmas spirit

I would be furious if I was you Hazy - why dont you contact the vicar and put that to him. These people are supposed to be in charge of 'a house of God' - sorry but in my opinion they talk out of their arses bums.

It makes me so sad. If I can help out in any way PLEASE let me know - I feel poorly enough to have a real rant at some soddin' 'jobsworth.'

No ornaments, teddys etc etc - OMG I am fuming for both of you. Do these Vicars never think what God would say if he came back and walked around this bloody awful world. Do they reckon he would spend time walking around the cemeterys banning familys from expressing their emotions?? I dont think so! As long as our childrens graves are kept tidy I cant see a problem.

It just gets me too angry for words Everlong. xxx

we dont have church there its a cemetry iykwim dd is struggling enough atm and the timing is crap,dd and her friend met up with superintedant arsehole to say we signed paperwork at the time we were wrecked,there is no vicar,if they dont go and back down dd wants to go to papers

I think you should encourage DD to go to the newspapers and please, please get her to call the jobsworth Superintendant Arsehole - total classic Hazy xxxx

everything but his headstone ,he has bears ,an eeyore

so they can cut grass,which we do anywayx if they dont back down i wont be able to stop dd

oh hazy thats soo sad.

its crap that you have to do this at anytime

but why now??? has somebody put something stupid on a grave that has sparked this??

I would call the superintendent and ask for a reason

I couldnt take all Fraser stuff away.. I just couldnt

what would happen if you just ignored it..

there is a risk that they would move it for you .. perhaps you could move what you absolutely couldnt lose and see what they do about the rest..

no nothing stupid has been put on him,someone build wooden bed up on grave nearby and they were made to move,