came up to oldham and found my mum daed. there for at least a couple of weeks. house a state. i just looked through the window my son andhis GF were with us.
we ere in a crash on friday coming up - the poor GF has had her fill.
i had to give my BIL money for air frsheners. the police went in with masks.
the wholething is just horrific. as an only child its all down to me. and i can't seem to read simple documents. BH weekend isn't helping. mum had money in lots of different accounts, i can't find her funeral policy and she told me she had one. she has shares for fucks sake.
never sent my kids a birthday card. she set up 3 accounts un beknownst to me and had been putting money in. so that did mi head in, bibbin all o'er place, nothing is sinking in.
my dh has to come up and bring the kids, he's neer driven on a motorway and my car is a bit knacked.
i am relying on people to put me up and although i wouldn'rt rather be anywhere else in the world than at my cousins, she has two small children and no matter how many times they say it doesn't matter and don't worry i must be in the way. but my cous and my BIL have been good.
there is lots of fincancial stuff to sort out.
no doubt i'll be asking you.
the terrible thing when there is ( relatively) a sum of money to be had, nice people suddenly get nasty. we will see.
my in laws are being very helpful and have moved the bed outside and done horrible things to save me from facing them. but my dh is going to come up and at that point i think i will be coming back to you as a body of opinion - not emotionally, family or financially swayed.
i am living in a house with a four year old and a toddler.