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Update on Rindercella's DH (No. 2)

845 replies

Portoeufino · 12/04/2011 16:25

The other thread has reached 1000 posts, so I hope no-one minds that I started a new one......Hoping R is home with you now!

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GollyHolightly · 13/04/2011 19:28

Rinders, I've been following your story for a long while but hadn't posted on your threads until now.

I'm so sorry that you only had a short time at home with him. You should be very proud of yourself that you made it happen that he came home.

Take care and be kind to yourself. xx

mice · 13/04/2011 19:28

So sorry, sending love to you all xx

SoupDragon · 13/04/2011 19:30

Oh, Rinders, how terribly sad :( but, equally, how wonderful that he made it home and died surrounded by familiarity and love.

x

sybilfaulty · 13/04/2011 19:38

Dear Rinders, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I am glad, though, that Richard was at home where he wanted to be, with his wife and lovely children around him.

Sending all of you my love. God bless.

5inthebed · 13/04/2011 19:38

:( I am so sorry Rinders. I am glad he was able to come home and was surrounded by his family when he passed.

Thinking of you all x

NotaMopsa · 13/04/2011 19:39

You did so well to bring him home so quickly Rinders.
No wise words but lots of love to you all and for Richard x

Sparkles23 · 13/04/2011 19:39

Rinders, I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of your lovely husband, I have followed your story and think you are amazing. No words seem right at this awful time but I just want you to know that my thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time. Wishing you and your family lots of love and strength x

therugratref · 13/04/2011 19:41

So sorry to hear Richard has lost his battle, wishing you the strength to endure this tough time.xxx

cjel · 13/04/2011 19:45

God Bless you all and give you more and more strength. Love to you allxx

aleene · 13/04/2011 19:47

I'm so sorry Sad I am glad it was peaceful for him.

BitOfFunnyBunny · 13/04/2011 19:48

So sorry that this happened Rinders- it just isn't fair. Much love to you and your family- you are all in my thoughts x

berryfreeze · 13/04/2011 19:49

I am so sorry Rindercella Sad

Greenshadow · 13/04/2011 19:53

What can I add to all the above.
I am so so sorry. I'm so glad he got home and you were all together.
thinking and praying for you all.

blinks · 13/04/2011 19:53

my thoughts are with you... i hope you're getting lots of support. x

onlyjoking9329 · 13/04/2011 19:53

So very very sorry that Richard has died, I'm glad that you were able to get him home and that he was surrounded by people he loved, it sounds as thou he was pain free and peaceful when he died.
I hope you are surrounded by people to look after you and your lovely girls.

hoxtonchick · 13/04/2011 19:55

so very sorry for all of you rindercella

stressheaderic · 13/04/2011 19:55

Don't know what to say, other than another MNetter thinking of you and your family on this, the saddest of days x

Sariska · 13/04/2011 19:56

Oh Rinders Sad. How I wish you'd had longer. How I wish this hadn't happened at all. But all power to you for fixing Richard's return home so he could be there, where he belonged, with you and all 3 children when the time came.

Thinking of you - and one of many who is ready to listen, here or on the PN thread, whenever you need it.

Much love.

BecauseImWoeufIt · 13/04/2011 19:58

I'm so glad that you were all together at the end, but so sorry that it had to be the end.

All my love to you and your family.
x

rowyourboat · 13/04/2011 20:01

Another lurker here. Rinders, I'm so very sorry for your loss, there are no words. I have read your threads from the beginning and your love and strength throughout have been an inspiration. Life just seems so unfair sometimes. Thinking of you and all your family right now. God bless.

twolittlemonkeys · 13/04/2011 20:07

I am so so sorry for your loss. I am glad you were able to spend time together and that he was with you all at home when he passed away. Wishing you loads of love and strength for the coming weeks, months, years and hope that you will be able to cherish the memories of your happy times together. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Look after yourself x

archfiend · 13/04/2011 20:07

Yet another lurker, I am so very sorry for your loss Sad. Thinking of you all. x

Buda · 13/04/2011 20:08

Oh Rinders. I am so so sorry. I really thought you would have some more time now he was home. How sad and unfair.

God bless you, your girls and your DSS and of course Richard. You poor love. x

UrsulaBuffay · 13/04/2011 20:10

I've lit a candle here and thoughts are with you and the girls x

WearegoingonaKwazihunt · 13/04/2011 20:12

Another who has followed your thread and just wanted to say how sorry I am.
xx