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Update on Rindercella's DH (No. 2)

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Portoeufino · 12/04/2011 16:25

The other thread has reached 1000 posts, so I hope no-one minds that I started a new one......Hoping R is home with you now!

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RAlover · 15/04/2011 09:36

Yet another lurker here.
I am so pleased that Richard was at home when he passed away, and that it was so peaceful.
My love and thoughts are with you and your family.

morgansmam · 15/04/2011 09:40

Ive been lurking for a while, first message Ive posted. Sorry for your loss Rinders, Ive followed your husbands story for a few months and am sad that it did not have a happy ending. I hope you take comfort from your lovely daughters at this time, and know that Richard lives on in them xx

DaisySteiner · 15/04/2011 09:41

So sorry to hear your news Rinders. xxxx

boosmummie · 15/04/2011 10:02

So sorry to hear of your loss. Love and thoughts to you and your family. xx

legspinner · 15/04/2011 10:26

Very sorry to hear of your loss Rinders, thinking of you all xxx

ClaireDeLoon · 15/04/2011 10:29

So sorry Rindercella xxx

DramaInPyjamas · 15/04/2011 10:35

Hadn't posted before, but I have been following your thread Rinders.

So, so sorry for your loss..
Love to you and your family x

controlpantsandgladrags · 15/04/2011 10:36

Rindercella I am so so sorry. I wish i could find the words to convey just how sorry I am and how much your journey has touched me. Thinking of you XX

Albrecht · 15/04/2011 10:42

I'm very sorry for your loss.

When my dad died it helped to think he was no longer in pain, was no longer suffering, was at peace now. From your threads it sounds like you did a wonderful job of looking after him. Now you need to look after yourself.

Thinking of you and your family x

WorzselMummage · 15/04/2011 11:26

Sorry for your loss Rinders,

RIP Richard xx

cybbo · 15/04/2011 11:41

I'm very sorry for your loss.

noddyholder · 15/04/2011 12:12

Glad you were home together and his passing was so peaceful.Thinking of you Rinders you have been inspiring in your handling of this I am so so sorry Sad x

AmazingDisgrace · 15/04/2011 12:13

So sorry Rinders x

goygoy · 15/04/2011 12:26

Haven't posted before, but have been following your threads. I'm so sorry for your loss Rindercella. xxx

thumbwitch · 15/04/2011 12:51

Ahhh Rinders, so very sorry to hear this. :(
I am so glad that Richard got to go home, to be at home and to have a peaceful passing with all of his nearest and dearest there with him.
Can't believe I missed this - don't know how or why but bless you all and I hope that you find comfort in your girls. Sending you huge amounts of love and strength to get through this - please take care of yourself as well as your girls and PLease remember to ask for help whenever you need it.

You will be busy until the funeral and then after that you may experience a big inrush of emotion - often happens when the initial busy-ness is over. That's when you'll need more support and love from friends and family - ask if you need it.

Biggest of ((hugs)) for you all.
x

ohboob · 15/04/2011 12:52

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you and your family. I'm so pleased he passed peacefully.

FoofffyShmoofffer · 15/04/2011 13:01

Rindercella, another lurker here but wanted to add my condolences. So sorry to hear of your loss xx

Bumperlicioso · 15/04/2011 13:36

Oh goodness Rinders, I'm so sorry. Best wishes to you and your beautiful family xxx

abeautifulbutterfly · 15/04/2011 13:52

So sorry to hear of your cruel loss and wishing you and your beautiful little girls strength and peace in the time ahead of you.

xxx

gilbonzothesecretpsychoduck · 15/04/2011 13:55

I'm so sorry to read this. I've lurked on your other thread admiring how strong and dignified you come across. I'll pray now for that strength and dignity to get you through this awful time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.x

Generallycloudy · 15/04/2011 14:46

Another one who hasn't posted before but has followed your threads.

I'm so so sorry for your loss but also relieved that your wonderful husband's passing was so peaceful.

Wishing you all love and strength xxx

BigFatSpider · 15/04/2011 14:51

Oh, sweetheart - too soon. I'm so very sorry to hear about your darling Richard. I hope that one day you'll be able to take comfort in the fact that you were strong enough to bring him home - he was safe, he was loved, and he was able to let go with you and his precious family around him. I'm so sorry for your darkness - but it has become his light.

Sending love, and strength, and eventual peace xxx

EvaLongoria · 15/04/2011 16:59

I accidentally came across this 2nd thread this morning and decided to read the first thread first. Popped out with my newborn and 3 year old and just sat down and started reading this thread. Was very happe and excited for Rinders that her DH were finally allowed her home. And was totall shocked by her next 2nd post to hear about his passing.

My heart goes out to you and your babies and your family. I am sat here in tears because this thread initially moved me because my brother died of Luekemia when his eldest was 2.5 and baby was 2 months old. This was 5 years ago. And I kept on hoping and praying that Richard will make a turn for the better as I read the thread.

Surprisingly I dont live that far. Please if you need anything, do not hesitate to ask.

But I am very glad that he died peacefully with his loved ones with him.

treesinthebreeze · 15/04/2011 18:26

I'm so sorry to hear your darling Richard is gone. I've been reading your thread for a long time and you sound like such a wonderful family. He was well loved and will be forever i your hearts xxxx

MarzipanNutPie · 15/04/2011 18:33

You, your darling girls and sson and family are in our thoughts.

Rest at peace Richard.