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Update on Rindercella's DH (No. 2)

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Portoeufino · 12/04/2011 16:25

The other thread has reached 1000 posts, so I hope no-one minds that I started a new one......Hoping R is home with you now!

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kingprawntikka · 14/04/2011 18:09

I am so so very sorry you are going through this. I'm glad Richard made it home and you had that time together.

MrsDmamee · 14/04/2011 18:23

you and your family where in my thoughts when I woke this morning...sending you lots of strength for the coming days.

What a lovely way for your Dear Husband Richard to pass away...peacefully and comfortable in his own home with the sounds of his family seeping into his thoughts as he drifted away.

Do whatever you need to to get through this time and I hope you have plenty of love and support in RL.

verytellytubby · 14/04/2011 18:56

Sending lots of love. Your bravery and love shines through.

Vev · 14/04/2011 19:09

So sorry for your loss. His last days spent close with his family, in his own home, was a lovely way for him to spend his last days. Take care.

BlueyDragon · 14/04/2011 19:41

Rinders, I'm so sorry to hear that Richard finally lost the battle. It sounds as though you made his last hours very peaceful. Thoughts and prayers and love for you and your family.

I'm running the London Marathon for Cancer Research Uk and I'm carrying a roll of honour with me of those I know who've fought this hideous disease. I hope you don't mind if I add Richard.

BlueyDragon · 14/04/2011 19:43

Rinders, I'm so sorry to hear that Richard finally lost the battle. It sounds as though you made his last hours very peaceful. Thoughts and prayers and love for you and your family.

I'm running the London Marathon for Cancer Research Uk and I'm carrying a roll of honour with me of those I know who've fought this hideous disease. I hope you don't mind if I add Richard.

nogginthenog · 14/04/2011 21:01

Oh no, so soon after he returned home. I was hoping you'd have some more time together in your own home again. I am so desperately sorry that wasn't to be. What a brave person you are, and how much you loved him.

HumphreyCobbler · 14/04/2011 21:07

I am so sorry for your loss.

shabbapinkfrog · 14/04/2011 21:13

I am truly sorry to hear such sad news. Words cant help - I know that. Just wanted you to know that you, and your family, are in my thoughts and that I am sending my love to you.

xxxxxxxxxx

BerryLellow · 14/04/2011 21:16

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful husband. Wishing you peace and strength, and to your family too. x

whimsy · 14/04/2011 21:27

I'm so sorry for your loss, Rinders. You are all in my thoughts x

Northernlurker · 14/04/2011 22:08

Rindercella - thinking of you, dss and the girls tonight.

iskra · 14/04/2011 22:27

Rindercella, so sorry for your terrible loss. May he rest in peace. Thinking of you & all your family.

PacificDogwood · 14/04/2011 22:50

Thinking of you.
Hope you get some sleep tonight.
xx.

Thingumy · 14/04/2011 23:08

Adding my love and thoughts too.

xx

MilkNoSugarPlease · 14/04/2011 23:28

So very, very sorry Rinders xxxx

triplets · 14/04/2011 23:33

Dear Rinders......words seem to be not enough, may you find the strength to go on and may you find peace in your heart. xx

faverolles · 14/04/2011 23:40

I'm so sorry xxx

AitchTwoOh · 14/04/2011 23:44

rinders i am so terribly sorry. have been away and only just seen your post. love to you.

DegreesCelcius · 15/04/2011 08:04

So pleased that Richard was without pain and passed so peacefully with his loving family around him. He wanted to be at home.

Sending my heartfelt sympathies to you and your wonderful family. x

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Portoeufino · 15/04/2011 08:07

How are things today, Rinders? Hope you are getting lots of help and support to do the things that need to be done, and to keep you and the dcs looked after. xxxx

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CharlotteBronteSaurus · 15/04/2011 08:10

I am so sorry for your loss, but glad that you had those precious moments together at home. Thinking of you all x

womma · 15/04/2011 08:59

Yet another lurker here, who has never posted. My heart sank to the soles of my feet when I realised your thread had moved to Bereavement...

What an amazing amount of courage you've shown, I'm full of admiration for you. And I'm so, so, so sorry that your Richard has gone but thankful you were all together at home and he was peaceful, with his children and you with him, I can't think of a better way to leave this life.

We are all here to support you, even if some of us don't make our presence felt by posting. There are so many amazing people who do post and give support, I always felt that there was nothing for me to add. But we all care about you and your family and will continue to do so for as long as you need us to. xxxx

youretheoneformefatty · 15/04/2011 09:18

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. X

fivegomadinthelambingshed · 15/04/2011 09:31

Rinders, I am so sorry about your loss, I am so glad that his last hours were with you and his children at home and peaceful.