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Update on Rindercella's DH (No. 2)

845 replies

Portoeufino · 12/04/2011 16:25

The other thread has reached 1000 posts, so I hope no-one minds that I started a new one......Hoping R is home with you now!

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bumpybecky · 13/04/2011 22:30

I'm so very, very sorry :(

wishing you and your girls much love and strength xx

CarnivalBizarre · 13/04/2011 22:31

I'm so sorry for your loss Rinders Sad I have lurked on your thread, silently spurring you all on - I'm glad your beautiful husband made it home to spend his last hours with you sweetheart

Wishing you and your family love and strength for the times ahead

Sleep well Richard

You are all in my thoughts

xxx

Shoesytwoesy · 13/04/2011 22:34

so very sorry for you loss

hidinginthecupboard · 13/04/2011 22:36

I am so sorry, you and your family are in my thoughts. x

Pingpong · 13/04/2011 22:38

I'm so sorry to hear your news Rinders. I'm glad Richard made it home to be with his family and that his passing seemed peaceful but it is a shock none the less so I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling right now.

TheNewStig · 13/04/2011 22:40

Sorry for your loss :(

singersgirl · 13/04/2011 22:45

So sorry.

ilovesprouts · 13/04/2011 22:49

:( sorry for your loss rinders ,much love to you all x

PictureThis · 13/04/2011 22:52

Oh I am so sorry to hear this. Take comfort from the fact that the last sounds he heard would have been of his family, the people he loved most in the world and who loved him with equal measure right back. Much love to you and the children xxxx

LemonEmmaP · 13/04/2011 22:54

So sorry to read this news, Rinders. Yet so glad that Richard was able to make it home to be with his family. To be surrounded by such love when he died will hopefully bring you some comfort in the years to come. Your story has touched me, and you are in my thoughts.

Lovethesea · 13/04/2011 22:54

I have been lurking and thinking of you all. So sorry for your immeasurable loss.x

bibbitybobbityhat · 13/04/2011 22:56

Just adding my very sincere condolences. Thinking of you all.

thaigreencurry · 13/04/2011 22:57

I'm so sorry.

StopTalkingAndEatYourDinner · 13/04/2011 23:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling. Sending you strength x

marriednotdead · 13/04/2011 23:08

My sincerest condolences for you and your family. I too had checked in to see how you were getting on, and I'm sorry to see that Richard's final home stay was so short Sad

I hope that all the love and tears from everyone on here can give you a little comfort and strength (((hugs)))

hootiemcboob · 13/04/2011 23:10

So very sorry for your loss.

nannycheechee · 13/04/2011 23:16

I am so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family x

Emmanana · 13/04/2011 23:22

You can shed tears that he is gone
or you can smile because he has lived.

You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back
or you can open your eyes and see all he's left.

Your heart can be empty because you can't see him
or you can be full of the love you shared.

Rinders, I am so sorry. What a testament of Richard's love for you all that he willed himself to have strength until the time that you were all around him, in his own home.
xxx

I hope you don't mind me donating a small amount of money in his name to someone who is running in the London Marathon for a childrens cancer charity, and he has kindly let us donate to his fund already in memory of Edgars little boy, who recently died.

The runner in question is the OH of a regular MN, who would like to preserve her privacy, but if anyone would like to donate, the link is here

catclarks · 13/04/2011 23:29

Rinders, so sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you and your gorgeous girls x

FebreezeYourJeans · 13/04/2011 23:32

He hung on in there to come home to his family. It mattered, and he died a beloved man.

I send you my heartfelt sympathies and I wish you strength to face the days ahead; dignity, love and courage you have in abundance x x x

CocktailQueen · 13/04/2011 23:32

I'm so sorry. Adding my thoughts and prayers to those of everyone else who has posted already. Hugs to you all.

SolosEggSpoonentiallyShrinking · 13/04/2011 23:40

So very sorry for your loss Rinders; God bless you all and rest in peace Richard.x

HairyToedHobbit · 13/04/2011 23:50

So sorry for your loss xx

GoodEggBadEgg · 13/04/2011 23:52

I'm so very sorry Rinders.

What strength Richard had to hold on to be home with his family; what amazing strength and dignity you have shown throughout this awful time.

Will continue to be thinking of you and your family xxx

KnickersOnOnesHead · 13/04/2011 23:54

So sorry. I have no words :(