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Email from friend about my baby's name

259 replies

toolonglurking · 27/03/2018 18:53

I've just had DD, she is a whole 5 days old and we thought we'd picked a good name, but I've just received an email from a family friend saying that it's a terrible name.
Please tell me straight, is Ophelia Elizabeth Cole a horrible name?

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Spanneroo · 27/03/2018 18:54

Nope. The name is fine. Your friend is a horrible person though.

delilabell · 27/03/2018 18:54

No its beautiful. I HATE that people feel they can butt in about names.
Also so weak to email

DancingLedge · 27/03/2018 18:55

No it's not, it's lovely.

And congratulationsFlowers

DairyisClosed · 27/03/2018 18:55

Do you know about the connotations of Ophelia?

rainbowruthie · 27/03/2018 18:55

I think it is a beautiful name and your 'family friend' is bloody rude, who asked for her opinion anyway

PlayingForKittens · 27/03/2018 18:55

Of course it isn't. How dare someone tell you her name is horrid! Even if you don't like the name someone picked you keep it to yourself. It isn't like you named her She-Devil Satanic Spawn.

IAmBreakmasterCylinder · 27/03/2018 18:56

That is an awful thing to do to a friend, especially a friend with a brand new baby.

It’s abgreat name and if you love it, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks.

The ‘friend’ is an arse.

Congratulatuons Flowers

isawahatonce · 27/03/2018 18:56

how strange of her, it's a lovely name

IAmWonkoTheSane · 27/03/2018 18:56

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AlbertaSimmons · 27/03/2018 18:56

what a horrible thing to do. It's a nice name, but Ophelia Cole isn't easy to say aloud.

Hooleywhipper · 27/03/2018 18:56

She’s a friend you say....
Congratulations what a beautiful name.

3luckystars · 27/03/2018 18:56

She is not your friend.

Best wishes with your new baby.

user1498549192 · 27/03/2018 18:57

It's a lovely name. And even if your friend hates it she not be ashamed of herself for being so rude, especially at a time when your hormones are all over the place and you're emotionally fragile.

Congratulations on your beautiful squishy little newborn Flowers

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 27/03/2018 18:57

Lovely name. Tell her to butt out and it’s none of her business. You haven’t asked her for her opinion, and you don’t care what it is.

Tartyflette · 27/03/2018 18:59

It's a nice name -- quite long first and middle names but the short surname means it flows well and ends on a strong sounding note.
Many congrats -- and your friend is an arse.

Petalflowers · 27/03/2018 19:01

How rude!

Lovely name.

Petalflowers · 27/03/2018 19:01

And congratulations!

Hobnobsarenotfordunking · 27/03/2018 19:03

The name isn’t to my taste but if you like it then there is nothing wrong with it. Totally rude to butt in to someone else’s business like that.

Longdistance · 27/03/2018 19:03

Email your ‘friend’ and tell them to Foxtrot Oscar!

whoareyoukidding · 27/03/2018 19:03

Congratulations, and your 'friend' can do one.

SparklyMagpie · 27/03/2018 19:04

I thought nothing of it (thought it was lovely) until a PP said something that made me say it out loud and I'm wondering if that's what the "friend" was implying

But ignore her OP

MrsSkeffington · 27/03/2018 19:05

My daughter is called Ophelia! Tell her to fuck off

Pindlesandneedles · 27/03/2018 19:05

Congratulations, what a beautiful name. Your friend is either really odd, really horrible or you have unwittingly given your DD the name she wanted to give her child and she’s trying to put you off it?? I really hope you can ignore her comments. Enjoy all the lovely newborn cuddles!

SweepTheHalls · 27/03/2018 19:07

On paper, lovely, until said out loud..... I'm a freshest right and you should change it....

Greenglassteacup · 27/03/2018 19:08

Beautiful name, tell your ‘friend’ to jog on. Congratulations Flowers