Ladies - feels a bit inappropriate posting so soon after Justa's loss but here goes...
I have an AIBU for you all - noone else to ask. And I no longer have any idea if I am reasonable or not, I'm just such a huge mass of bitterness most of the time.
My closest local mum friend is 12 weeks pg - til she got pg we saw each other a couple of times a week and she was there for alot of the termination stuff, or for the aftermath anyway as in we had a lot of coffees and she listened a lot. She had IVF just afterwards and when she started treatment she sort of withdrew from me, fair enough I suppose, who wants to be reminded of what can happen. Plus Xmas took up time etc.
Anyway lasat night I got a text - presumably sent to several - telling me all about her 12 week scan and how the baby was sucking it's thumb and how much you could see. AS you can all imagine I was really upset - am struggling a bit at the moment as started IVF injex so am really anxious about that, plus my due date is under 6 weeks away and am dreading it. All this she knows. I don't need to hear about people's 12 weeks scans by text message, catching me unawares and plunging me back to mine - esp as I'd seen her the day before and she hadn't mentioned she was having it. I think she could have waited and told me in person - or at least sent a more sensitive text to me not a generic one.
So AIBU - I really have no way of judging but I'm quite angry. Well very angry. Certainly angry enough to post and ask if it's justified....
I know it's always going to happen, but it's still only 3 months ago and I'm still raw...
Sorry for the self obsessed post by the way, hope everyone is having a restful weekend.