to tell dp that I want to become celibate for a year.

[snottyslimeclock]

I have always been a Christian and have become a much more committed one in recent months. I have decided that I no longer want to be involved in a relationship that involves sex outside of marriage.

This is not about me pressurising dp into getting married , we are doing so next year and it is very much a joint decision. It is not because I do not want to have sex with him, we have a lot of sex and often. My heart still flips when he enters the room and I often chase him around the bedroom.
I would like to think that if dp asked me I would agree even if I found it difficult, but it is a big ask - although not a permanent one.

I am a regular before the trollhunters start to gird their loins.

PLease note my name is snottyslimeclock because dd has been making one and it is in front of me. This is not a comment on dp's hygiene.

People don't need a marriage certificate to love one another!

Bloss, where in genesis ?

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I think that alexpolismum's grandmother was a wise old lady.
I never see the point, unless you start by insisting on saving sex until marriage-you can't turn the clock back. It is all a bit late and difficult to justify to someone who doesn't feel the same.

This thread makes me want to jump DH's bones when he walks in the door today!