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to be a bit miffed at the 'Mother at the school gates'

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Bigmouthstrikesagain · 13/06/2010 10:03

this weeks Guardian weekend had a 'What I'm really thinking' column written by a mother apperntly disappointed in other mother's lack of attention to their personal appearence. I don't know why it has bothered me so much (maybe it is my hideous hangover after a rare night out but the open disgust she displays in her (anonymous) piece is frankly unsisterly and horrible.

I do not always look glam at pick up - I never wear tracksuits, being of the opinion that they should only be worn if you are doing exercise of some sort. But in the morning particularly I am lucky if I have brushed my hair and not just gathered it in a messy ponytail and I never bother with make up - I save make up for 'going out'. I think pedicures are for people with too much money and time on their hands but as long as feet are relatively clean that is fine.

I see fathers picking up their kids and they are wearing no make up, have messy eyebrows and a distinct lack of stylish clothing but that is ok with our anonymous contributor I am sure. Is it a wife and mothers duty to look nice so they don't show up their children and their husband still wants to sleep with them!? Ick

Sorry I had too get that off my chest - I feel better now (and the Ibuprofen is kicking in as well) Thank you.

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Cortina · 16/06/2010 14:27

It isn't our school Pagwatch it's one I pass every day on my commute. Elle Mcpherson would feel overweight, rather ugly and under groomed I can tell you .

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 16/06/2010 14:29

how do you know they get changed if you just pass them every day?

Cortina · 16/06/2010 14:31

My friend has a child there and says that's what happens, not sure if true for certain but they certainly look uber groomed from glimpses!

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 16/06/2010 14:34

oh I see, just wondered..

pagwatch · 16/06/2010 14:36

at poor old Elle McP

But that is still weird though isn't it, Cortina?

I am what I would call well dressed though others may use ruder expressions
I wear good quality designers and i mostly waer dresses and skirt but I don't get changed after I dress in the morning.
The point is that i spend money on clothes I feel comfortable in - so why would I change?

Are you sure they go home and change or are you assuming..

( only asking in case people think I change out of my morning school run dress/clothing when i get home and that I am therefore weird? OK . weirder )

Cortina · 16/06/2010 14:44

Not certain, but I think from what friend says that they all feel they are in competition with each other, guess it depends on what the day has in store?

I saw a photo in the press this week of Victoria Beckham going to a climbing wall playground thingy with her kids. She was in a tight, cleavage revealing dress and 6 inch suede heels. Not very practical or comfortable unless the nanny was going to do the running around, probably was on reflection. These are the sort of outfits I have glimpsed. I guess they might get home and put on some lower heels for starters or at least have some in the car or something?

I simply can't imagine thinking along those lines. How can you drive in 6 inch suede heels, must have driving shoes I'd guess.

pagwatch · 16/06/2010 14:49

must have driving shoes I'd guess'

or a driver ...

pagwatch · 16/06/2010 14:50

thanks C
I don't do tight or revealing so really Not Weird

Cortina · 16/06/2010 14:51

Yes, I think some do according to friend. How the other half live .

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