to not want to be the only one who does the dinner everynight!

[Hai1988]

Basicly as i said above, even on DH days off and holidays I am always the one who does it!
and y does he always want feeding when ive just sat down or in the middle of something!!
ITS like having 2 4 year olds in the house sometimes

Does ne one else have this problem, living wit a man who still thinks its the stone age and women cook and man works {shock]

BTW i found out on a recent holiday with the fil that he has these same views on life so ive worked out where its come from {angry]

TheBoss, many people treat their maids appallingly, almost as sub-human. I don't agree with that at all. I am glad you are 'spoiling' the market, as it were.

Singapore

Lucky you - great place! Have been flitting over rather regularly recently!

My Mum was the same - respect for your seniors was paramount in our household when I was growing up. Plus, quite frankly, its hard to look down on someone who is so obviously talented, bright and go-getting. It makes me cringe when I hear what some of the expat brats around here say to the home help - really truly shocking. Sub-human is a very apt description. And where my father grew up, its even worse (locals rather than expats treating maids as close to slaves).

Gosh - have taken this thread off at a bit of a tangent - apologies!