to be in a murderous mood now that

[Zebra33]

my hubby woke me up from my slumber to make him sandwiches for work????? I have a 10 week old who is still up twice in the night and a 3 year old who also gets up in the night who tend to. I could just pack up and leave now!!!!

Hully what's up with you today

"When you're weeee-heeee-areeeeeeee....."

Hully dear, remember when I said MN was getting a tad tetchy of late?

Well

Will report myself then. Can't come back to a load of shocked faces and insults. It ends up taking too much time replying to it all

Nothing. I just think that there is no need for fussing and fighting and we would all be happier (and so would the world) if we strived for understanding and harmony. Surely we can all talk together in a calm and loving manner until we reach a place of understanding?

I don't see the point in shouting at each other and being unpleasant. It is counterproductive and upsetting.

'the world is just a great big onion'

I dont know Hully. I like a good barney on a thursday morning

We could all reach an understanding. Now. But by this evening, someone will come onto the thread and kick off again.
So to sum up, nobody is a c* I'm not thick, and you spell OMELETTE like that

You know, I sort of hope the day comes when I feel justified in typing

'fuck off you bunch of cunts'

I imagine when meant, it's extremely satisfying.

It is degrading when it's all one sided SE. Which is the women I was talking about

My pal's favourite insult is to call someone a 'spare cunt'. You know. So useless you're not even the MAIN one.

Although maybe we should reclaim it, from the feminist perspective. Seems a bit of a shame it should be the 'worst' word in the lingo. Let's all start conversations with 'Oh me dear old cunt, not seen you in years'. That sort of thing.

There. Understanding. Isn't that lovely?

(OldMac - it's Weds, peace and love day)

You don't want to do that TinyApe. You want to embrace and share. Did you forget?

Brilliant idea headbanger.
I suggest you start a thread to come up with a new worst word, and to begin a campaign to rebrand 'cunt'

Are you quite new you two? We've had lots of those, they never quite work out...

Know what Mac, I simply don't have the balls cunt for it. Too much of a newbie. Sunday School too recent and vivid a memory. You do it. I hand over copyright of my genius

x post with Hulls. Bit new yar. Tend to stay within the confines of my home-thread, as it were.

It's definitely not something to rush into..

Yes, tis hump day peace all round day.
I am feeling the love now.

Cucumber sandwich anyone?

Okay, OP, on the off chance your husband isn't an abusive bastard, could you suggest he goes on an Anger Management course, or something? Because throwing a tantrum, as he did with the sandwiches (throwing them in the bin? FFS, that's unacceptable!) is not how adults deal with arguments, and he should be modelling actual proper adult behaviour for your children. Particularly the three year old.

Personality transplant might be more useful. What he did had nothing to do with anger getting out of hand. It was cold, and the text saying Zebra's reaction was uncalled-for indicates an element of self-righteousness that is very worrying.

Zebra, don't be tempted to let this slide even though you're tired and confrontation may not appeal to you, and even though your H will certainly prefer not to discuss this. You'll have to push back really hard against this person.

Ok, so zebra... have you had Stern Words with him yet?