to be in a murderous mood now that

[Zebra33]

my hubby woke me up from my slumber to make him sandwiches for work????? I have a 10 week old who is still up twice in the night and a 3 year old who also gets up in the night who tend to. I could just pack up and leave now!!!!

As usual I give an opinion and it turns into but Junglist but Junglist.
Report away

Oh I say!

Dear dear dear.

It's just that everyone is talking about slightly different things.

There are equal relationships where both parties are happy with the division of labour and try to do nice things for each other.

And then there is what angry junglist is talking about which is a general culture of male dominance, evidenced on a daily basis in the serving of men by women, which does indeed create a culture within which women are treated badly. Of course making someone a sandwich does not mean you are an abused wife, which is NOT what junglist said, but a general arrangement of servitude is a sympton of a wider attitude and therefore to be avoided.

Thank God someone gets it.
Don't see how it was so difficult to understand TBH

Junglist, I apologise. for spelling omlette wrong

lighten up

There there

It's omelette.
Why are you apologising? Wasn't my comment worse?

Heavens to Betsey Junglist, was that really necessary?! And if you're still this angry about men after your relationship (I assume now in the past?) then I am terribly sorry, but there's a limit to which you should lash out at others innit.

See, Junglist has a point..are you all now going to go on about her brief and unfortunate outburst?

Let us move on. Surely it is more important to foster love and understanding?

your comment ? water off a ducks back
I can take it

Headbanger, people on here insult for fun and complain when they get it back. I don't really have limits when I'm insulted, I pretty much say what I like.
In 3 words, she started it

Nah Hully, I agree with Junglist to a certain extent (I'm afraid I suffer from slight lack of sympathy with women who serially date abusive men) I'm just a bit worried about her blood pressure!

Fuck off

She was referring to a general attitude. I can see that it does sound regrettably personal. Junglist, do you think you could refrain from the personal in order to make your points more effectively? Otherwise people get defensive and then they don't listen.

It is beginning to seem to me that you lot want to fight. This is not something I can understand. Isn't it better to seek harmony and understanding? Really?

Look, someone just report me will you, I have to leave the thread I've got work to do.

Yes Hully it is. I'm going to start humming 'Bridge Over Troubled Water'.

Oh now you're just showing off.

Well done Headbanger.

No one wants to report you, Jungy, we want you to feel the love and relax. Let us seek understanding and peace.

junglist1 you can report your own post

And no I didn't want people to respond. Why would I, I'm talking about my experiences so where's the debate? I was there, I know, you don't, that's that. You misunderstood the point and started blathering on about equal relationships If you're in an equal relationship in what way am I talking about you?

junglist

make us a butty before you go