To want to say what I really feel hear goes?anyone else care to share

[mummybegood]

Fil & Mil no I dont want you phoning me everyday and checking up on the kids telling me what best for my children and no I dont want you to just tell me your coming over now without asking its not convient.
I really need to grow a backbone and say how I feel to people but in a nice way instead of being walked over like I do aibu.

After reading all these, I find that I have nothing to complain about.

Not really.

S - What are you a YoYo?Either leave him or don't.He is a knob but then so are you.Why is it not ok for him to go out but it is for you?Constantly leaving to go to your mothers is irratating.He will not leave as he knows you will be back.

M - Your children do not have problems, they are the problem.

P - Your daughter is not 'lively and spirited' she is a spoilt brat who has worked out stropping will get her what she wants.And if she speaks to mine like that again I will wash out her mouth with soap.

Youngest child - STOP LICKING MY SHIN

Dear mum of dd's friend; please clean your house, it's revolting and it's why my kids don't play with yours anymore..... and stop treating your newborn like a toy and try actually giving her some love and affection. Being a young mum doesn't give you the right to behave like an 8 year old girl playing 'mummies and daddies' with her dolls. You're an unpleasant, gossipy, childish person and my heart breaks for your neglected kids as they haven't got a chance in hell with a mother like you

Dear parents; no dd is not the best grandchild you have, she's not cleverer and prettier and more fabulous than her brothers... to be perfectly honest she's the exact opposite of all those things. ds1 adores ye and gives ye so much more love yet ye openly favour her and upset him so badly and soon it'll be the same with ds2 as he'll start to notice that she's loved more than him

dp's family; you utter fucking selfish horrible knobs....... get your heads out of your arses and show a fucking interest. BOL.... you have two nephews you've never even met and a niece you haven't since since her christening..... you do remember being godfather right? I know it was an inconvenience to you and all but you did fucking agree to do it so maybe you could SHOW A FUCKING INTEREST YOU ARSE.... your friends won't fall off the face of the earth if you miss one night out with them to visit you family, your niece and nephews don't even know who you are fgs! And FOL..... you drunk old git..... you've wasted your entire life and phychologically damaged your own kids with your abuse and drunken ranting.... if you set foot in my house drunk one more time i'll kick you into next week you arsehole and dp won't be inclined to stop me after everything you've done to him!

dear DS,
please try and feed with your mouth, not your fingernails. my nipples are not amused, even if your dad is.

dear sis1,
yes I'm tired, I have a 4 month old. expecting me to visit you when he was 10 weeks old so you could meet him was beyond selfish. especially since you have spent the last 4 months driving up and down the country for your new dull boyfriend - 1 day trip to meet your nephew would not have killed you. and bleating on about how hard your life is because you only get 2 days off a week does not endear you to anyone. it's called being an adult. oh, and by not coming to my wedding, you are making yourself look foolish, not me. 7 months notice is fine, stop your bloody whinging. and stop telling me I have PND because your nasty accusations made me cry. and if you mention weaning DS off the breast soon so he doesn't get spoilt ONE MORE TIME i'm going to spray you in the face with my milk.

dear dsis2 and dbro - get a job. that's how you make money. seriously, mum and dad are not made of money. you're 22 and 20, grow up a bit. and dsis2 - you are a very talented artist, yes, but until you sell a piece of work, you're not really running your own business, are you?

(and breathe)

Thought this would be a nice thread to get everything of our chest. I've been reading all the threads and laughed,cried some of them has really touched me and our very sad sometimes it helps to share a thought,problem I hope I helped only sorry I cant put it all right thank you everyone .xx

Stop messing about wasting time and clean your house you messy parent. Why should your kids have to be embarrassed by your laziness?

to my 'friend':
I know everyone needs to let off steam in their work, but why the fug did you train to be a teacher if you hate children so much? You can't pick and choose just the 'good' ones, so get over it. My child is one of the annoying ones with SEN who mess up your results and need extra help. You blame the parents...well how can we continue to have a friendship with attitudes like this? Oh but of course, you're not talking about children like ds, just those 'other' children. Get some empathy. And god forbid, when your dc starts school that she has a problem....

Cousin. I will never forgive you for saying NO to me & my little girl attending your wedding.
I tried to get a sitter organised for your wedding; i managed to get one for DS but couldn't for DD 2 at that time.

You are my age, we grew up together, I saw you every day and out of all the cousins (many) your wedding was the one I most wanted to attend-to see you'd finally settled down with a nice man.

I spoke to you the day before the wedding and I tried to make out I was cool with it being as it was YOUR DAY.

When I was finally forced to attended the evening doo by the family, you came up to me and said 'Sorry, I couldn't have any old fucker turing up at my wedding'

Let me tell you, I'm not any old fucker, I loved you and that hurt SO much I spent that day in a haze on my own as ALL our family were at your f**king wedding.

When my mum linked both our arms at a family birthday a couple of years ago in an attempt to heal the rift, I could have smacked you in the mouth.

I will never be your cousin again and to the family who keep bloody suggesting you as a friend on facebook, STOP!

ooh i do enjoy these threads

dear mumn

I now realise that you are a narcisist and that youre behaviour is not normal. I am enjoying keeping you at arms length because it makes my life a much easier ride.
You are possibly the most selfish person ive ever met. I will never tell you this but I will never forgive you for the way you treated my father through his illness, and yes I do blame you, and yes you are lonely now after dreaming of being alone for so long, and yes you did have it really good and now youre in the shit!

Thankfully my dh and dcs are beautiful and well rounded and I will never EVER become you

to my father.
Go and look up Unconditional love.
Now, if you can tell me what your grandchildren are called, their birth dates and one, just one, simple fact about them - favourtie food/colour anything then I might consider getting back in touch with you. Is that a bit tricky, given you haven't bothered to see them in 12 years? Let's try an easier question, shall we?
My favourtie colour? Fave book? Food? Music? Anything??
Ah thought not.
Oh. And let's not forget, it wasn't ME who emigrated to another country and didn't tell YOU, now was it? so don't get all martyrd with the ''my daughter never contacts me' crap. Your decision.
Now please don't ring me again. I have a life. And,a perfectly lovely step dad.
you are surplus to requirements. off you fuck.

Damn. That felt GOOD!

MollyRoger 'off you fuck' Love that!

Dear sexy work collegue, please noticed me and ask me out so we can begin to have rampant sex on a regular basis (even if i am 10 years older than you)

DEAR MUM....I miss you, nearly 5 years now and it still hurts.

DEAR DH.....I work too...what gives you more right to have lie ins than me? Im feeling neglected and low right now and you are failing to support me yet you expect support!

DEAR BOSS....i need that £300 that was put in the work account back in OCT, its MY money not yours and I NEED IT please GIVE IT BACK.

DEAR DCs...i feel like im failing you, im working, studying and trying to do everything and feel like im failing miserably, i promise to address this balance and spend more time with you!

Dear ex, father of my daughter

Why, why, why did you never develop a conscience and help me with our child, why did I allow you to get away with the £20 a month CSA 'awarded' me as you convinced them you earned so little when I know you were wealthy, why didn't I seek legal help, when I was living in that tower block, scared, alone, working full-time with our little girl in a lovely nursery, she was fine and I kept the facade going, but struggling forever and still am now and house on its way to being repossessed, climbed out of the sink estate, it was tough, have such a demanding job but underneath I'm in bits, why did you believe it was ok not to help in any way

Everyone who has a facebook,- get a life and some real friends!

fuckoff curryfreak

Dear FIL. Stop making those bloody crazy frog type noises at DS to get his attention. He's a baby not a frigging horse.

Dear MIL. If DS cries when you're holding him, he's hungry or tired like I said. He's not "rejecting" you FFS. He's only 4 months old, Christ alive!

Dear Mum, I will never bring my DS to visit you for the simple reason that your fuckwit husband is a violent angry man. Look at your hand, you're missing part of your finger because of him. My half brother and sister are messed up because of you not leaving him. Also my sister has (I suspect) fetal alcohol syndrome because of you.

Dear Mum's husband, I hate you. You're a violent coward.

Wow that felt good

people who slag off facebook can all go fuck themselves.
(and have you thought that people talk to their real friends on facebook? Moron)

Dm - your life isn't how u want it I kno but it's not my fault. And no you can't hijack mine. It maybe your dream to live next door to us but it isn't ours. You can't do everything yourself, this isn't your fault but you need to accept it. Living on your own isn't healthy, safe or clean, your cleanliness is the reason we don't offer to let you hold the baby as much as you'd like. Also stop phoning and leaving a great long pause before saying 'it's me' I have ab iPhone I know it's you.

One more thing STOP commenting on everything I put on facebook I'm not putting stuff up for your enjoyment.

Mil it's fabulous you live in Canada with your wife and sil and have made your new lives there but don't forget you have a son back here and 3 grandchildren.

Dh I want a car, I don't care if it is more than we can afford i'm fed up of the bloody buses.

Cor blimey that's good

Ah, but royalty, I have some real friends. That's why I dont spend all my time posting on here!

dear xprick get a job and start talking some finacial resposibility for your son, oh and 'my gf has dumped me' is not a good excuse to stop seeing your son at weekends, arsehole