To want to say what I really feel hear goes?anyone else care to share

[mummybegood]

Fil & Mil no I dont want you phoning me everyday and checking up on the kids telling me what best for my children and no I dont want you to just tell me your coming over now without asking its not convient.
I really need to grow a backbone and say how I feel to people but in a nice way instead of being walked over like I do aibu.

Dear certain U6 students

I don't know how to say this in any other way: I have tried being reasonable and logical and calm but it's clearly not working so here goes:

YOU WILL NOT GET AN A GRADE JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT ONE. If you want a good grade, get off your lazy fucking arses and work for it! The world does not owe you anything and your smug sense of entitlement makes me rage inside.

so people who post on here and have fb accounts dont have 'real' friends then curryfreak? how did you come to that conclusion einstein?

Not the hottest chilli in the currypot are you dear

To my ex 'best' friend: 'e mailing me and telling me that you no longer felt you could 'deal' with my mental breakdown when I was slap bang in the middle of it and patronisingly saying I was 'in denial' about my drinking was probably the most hurtful thing anyone has ever done to me. I wish I hadn't wasted three years of my life dropping everything when you 'needed' me in the midst of your pathetic little traumas. Added to which I really don't think it was very nice of you to tell other friends that I was manipulative and nasty when I was actually very unwell. As someone who professed to have had alcohol problems and mental health issues yourself, I will never understand how you could have been so vile. I would like you to know that I have been 'dry' since last January, have got an amazing job now and am extremely happy. Unlike you, whose mummy has put everything in your spoiled little lap, we have used our own money and seriously hard work to purchase our house cars and lifestyle. I wish I could say I wish you no ill, but actually I do.'

DEAR INTERNET FORUM POSTER CURRY PERSON.....just cos i spend time posting on facebook and MN does not mean i have no RL friends, It does however mean that i can keep in contact with these RL friends when there is just no time to actually meet up! it take minutes to post on FB and MN and atleast shows i still care and think of my RL friends, i have minutes to post between hoovering, cooking, working, studying, shopping, looking after DCs....i dont have hours to meet up every day and drink coffee!

Did I hit a nerve vinegartits?

Some of these posts are so sad.
The OP said "To want to say what I really feel..." I really feel so damn lucky that I have grown up with relatively few problems, I love the fact that I get on very well with my family, my 2 sisters are quite literally my best friends. My DS is such a polite, smart, funny, beautiful little boy. My DD is an absolute angel and I dont care if she wakes in the night for a feed, she is only 7 weeks old for christs sake and no she wont need to be weaned earlier!
I feel so lucky to have a wonderful husband that put up with my depression and drinking problems when we were first married. He is quite literally my life.

I havent wrote these things to be smug. I really do feel those things. Im most likely still in my postnatal blissed out hormones phase, so ask me in a few months time when DD is teething, DS has grown bored of his new sister and DH is doing loads of overtime and im sick of being cooped up in home all day!!

curryfreak what's wrong with facebook?

To those who slag off facebook, get over yourselves.

I am BORED. Bored of worrying about money, bored of trying new things to get my business making money again,bored of tying myself up in knots about what people want/don't want when they come here. Bored of worrying about leaky roofs and peeling paint and blocked gutters.

But most of all I am bored with trying to pretend to all my staff and customers that I am the most enthusiastic and motivated person here.

Dear best friend of 10 years, fiance, brother et al,

As I have you on facebook you are only imaginary friends, curryfreak says so.

Note to self... Must leave message to all my friends on facebook informing them that I am not real... I am in fact a robot.

Why dont you go and play with your real friends dear

good one bonkerz and kaloki

Although I appreciate it's neccesary I really hate the fact that you have to prep me for every pregnancy announcement from your friends. It doesn't stop it from hurting, and knowing that people are talking about how to handle me makes it all so much worse.

stop popping in whenever it suits you & staying for four hours at a time , even when i am in the middle of dishing up dinner , & have me chasing around after your dd while you relax .

elmofan...
do I know you?
DD is lovely really...

lancelottie .

Dsis. I would never admit it in public, but was very sad you told everyone about my son's premature arrival on (I'm tempted not to say it) Facebook. I love FB and it's great, but

To my friend:

Stop comparing your life to other people's. Stop saying 'If only I had...'. You think that everyone else's problems are easy and you have such a hard life. You don't. You have an easy life, but you find it easier to moan about how unfortunate you are than address any of your many issues. Take some responsibility for your own happiness.

Oh, and by the way. I appreciate that I am never allowed to moan about anything in my life because I am so lucky compared to you. But you know what? it's not that easy having two small children and an evening job. In fact, my love, YOU COULDN'T COPE WITH MY LIFE, YOU MOANER.

You know, I do feel better!

Parents of kids I mind pick up time is pick up time not time to sit your fat arse on my sofa and tell me the woes of your "hard" day at the office where you do a shitty job that I used to do and could still do with my hands tied behind my back and who are you trying to kid? You havnt lost 4 pounds let along 4 stone you fat slob. DH please please please stop coming in from work and moaning at the noise the kids make after 15mins. WE have 4 and yes they make a noise but I listen to it a lot longer than you and I also work. Maybe from home but IT is a job and no it doesnt mean that I get paid for doing housework. THAT happens later when my working day has finished BUT I dont get to just sit and do sweet FA for the rest of the evening like you do. And yes it does bother me when you book a Saturday off work so you can go out with BIL and nephew and not spend it with your own DC.
PIL yes it does piss me off when XMAS and BIRTHDAY pressies are not here for my kids on their BIRTHDAYS and Xmas. sort it out!!!!!!
God I feel so much better now!

Oh and girl from school who I havn`t seen for 20 years but swapped an email or 2 with via FB STOP contacting my hubby and friends who you dont know and asking them for my number. You have a fucking nerve. If I wanted to get in contact again I would e-mail you. Leave alone you freaky stalker!!!

Thank-you....

The reason I walk and live and breathe is because for some reason, you managed to get me to listen and do what was best.

I never ever forget, and though the last few years have been a nightmare that I wouldn't have believed possible, there is always something at the back of it all that reminds me that there is so so much to live for.

And on my darkest, loneliest and saddest days, it will always be the thing that kicks me in the butt and finds another reason, however small, to keep on keeping on. It is like swimming up from deep deep water and hitting the surface and taking big gulps of air, it gets heady
but it is always the best breath of the day.

If it seems that in 17 or so years I have not done anything extraordinary with the chance that I got, then forgive me. I am not or ever was, an extraordinary girl, I won't climb mountains, or swim the channel (well....who knows on that!), but in my quiet way, I try to do justice to the amazing opportunity that I believe being on this gorgeous planet really is.

So in the mizzly rain, chilly and grey, I saw the sun peep through the clouds briefly and bathe the hill tops for a moment in a pale golden glow...and that was good enough for me.

I will paint and sing, I will run and cycle, I will cry and laugh, I will always love, but I will never forget..

Thank-you

Best friend's boyfriend: it's sad that you feel threatened enough by our longstanding friendship to act the twat toward us both during the first weekend we've spent together in ages. You looked like a big, sulky child. It's not sexy so if you want to hang onto her (and you should), get your shit together and start taking an interest in her life outside the narrow sphere of your influence.

Dear Curryfreak
You haven't posted your usual malicious bile recently.
it's been really lovely without it.
So go and annoy someone else.
Hobnobs

DS1 - get your head out of your butt and realise that I am a real person and deserving of some respect, if only as another human being. Your DW is a lovely girl but does have her faults, as we all do. I am proud of the young man that you have become and would just like the odd acknowledgement of the role I played - please have a bit more consideration for my feelings!

DS3 - just go to college and finish your course!!

DD - hormones suck! I do understand, honestly! Please just try not to answer everything that is said to you in such a stroppy manner. You are only 10 and I'm already dreading the teenage hell that is to come.

DS4 - clean your teeth!

DS3 - why did you take your own life? WHY?!?

To you all - I love you all so much and have only ever done my best for you. I appreciate that it is anadequate at times but I have tried to be a good mother. I will continue attempting to do so.