to think there's a case for complying with a DH's sexual fantasy,even if you're NOT really up for it?

[WashwithCare]

Had lunch with some friends today, and this was the discussion.

20 years ago, I would have said NO WAY - sex should be totally mutual, pleasurable to both etc...

However, now I'm not so sure. My mate's H has hinted he would like to try X. My mate is OMG - NO!

However, she says she is still thinking about it... DH has been her love for 10 years. He has supported her. Never minded having virtually no sex for 2 years after a difficult birth and PND. Told her she was gorgeous and supported her fully every day....

So she is pondering whether he "deserves" X for super good behaviour - and because (we know he is the most faithful H ever) he is not going to get it ever, less she relents!

So I started off saying NO WAY - but as she spoke perhaps think her position isn't that unreasonable... But I am huge and hormonal... so what do I know!

Saturday bum sex threads are so 2009, dahlinks!

'but what if it were HER fantasy? because that actually sounds quite attractive to me!!'

No offense, but so was giving a guy a BJ in exchange for a Big Mac meal .

And now I know:
Anal sex is pretty vanilla compared to GENKI! GENKI!

[oh, the horror! the horror!]

2006 more like

no dittany you are right - i could never perform sexual stuff with anyone with such skanky white socks!!!

Even without my glasses on i can see its a plastic lobster - and actually, i cant believe i even got sucked into that - FFS, only DEAD lobsters are pink!! hahahahahahah Aren't they? oh dear i think i should go to bed.

Why is it depressing, it looks like a couple having a laugh sexually - i think its funny

Not anymore expat - ive changed my ways - im a vegetarian!!!

Googles 'white socks porn'.

genki ??? WTF??

'im a vegetarian!!! '

tries not to read too much into this statement and 'i've gone off anal sex' . . .

'GENKI GENKI!'

Sounds like a musical...

that genki site is beyond awful < scrubs eyeballs wth bleach >

someguy, will you please bog off with your little snippets of horror to google

your large penis website you posted the other day stole 2 fucking hours from my life !

Can we have a thread where people talk openly about their sexual fantasies?? can we??? Shall i start.............???

'Can we have a thread where people talk openly about their sexual fantasies??'

No. Because people like me and AnyFucker will always go on there to encourage people to take the piss (not literally) out of it .

Start a new thread in chat LEM, then it will be deleted later.

Or get sidetracked .

eel porn?

Large penis website you say?

link???

OH MY GOD!!!! I honestly thought i had seen it all!! WHATTTTTT???????? I thoguht i was unshockable - well, im shocked!!! im never eating sushi again I actually feel sick!!

nah, not starting a thread now, that genki stuff has put me right off - there is no amount of money in the WORLD that would make me do that!! Im going to have nightmares

That Genki shit was pretty rough tbh

grumpy...just google "lpsg"...you will find it

'tis an eyeopener kneetrembler

I think the Genki illustrates an important point. People start off having strange sex because they think it will be enjoyable as it is in a porn film. But that is a silly thing to do, because you could end up wearing an octopus as a hat.

lem...that genki shit really coshed your libido, didn't it ?

tbh, I found the strangulation stuff more disturbing

a dead fish ain't gonna hurt you, is it ?

someguy...you are one sick fucker

what is pegging?