to think there's a case for complying with a DH's sexual fantasy,even if you're NOT really up for it?

[WashwithCare]

Had lunch with some friends today, and this was the discussion.

20 years ago, I would have said NO WAY - sex should be totally mutual, pleasurable to both etc...

However, now I'm not so sure. My mate's H has hinted he would like to try X. My mate is OMG - NO!

However, she says she is still thinking about it... DH has been her love for 10 years. He has supported her. Never minded having virtually no sex for 2 years after a difficult birth and PND. Told her she was gorgeous and supported her fully every day....

So she is pondering whether he "deserves" X for super good behaviour - and because (we know he is the most faithful H ever) he is not going to get it ever, less she relents!

So I started off saying NO WAY - but as she spoke perhaps think her position isn't that unreasonable... But I am huge and hormonal... so what do I know!

*Can't

By expatinscotland Sat 23-Jan-10 21:52:26
that is so much better than going to a restaurant with no underwear and then taking it up the butt!

yorkshire puddings.

Doesn't it depend on the restaurant though?

snap, tether!

there are restaurants that have anal sex on the menu, too?!

wonders never cease!

miss, would you like the brown gravy or the white gravy with that?

I think you are over-optimistic about mussels being smut free - seafood in general is not. I have heard about a very unpleasant mishap that was the result of agitating a lobster.

Wonders how many DH's/DP's will on the back of this thread strike lucky - find chocolate mousse on the menu tonight.

Now feeling horny, but not that horny, off to find the guinea pigs.

Can I suggest "mussell porn" and the investigation thereof as suitable material for MNTV?

I'd love to see that video!

Shitting crikey, you're right, Milly

ANAL mussel porn!

Wonder how many beets it takes for your pee to be pink Had mega beet soup for dinner with 5 beets and not a even a blush...

Lots of beets. It also makes your poo pink if you eat enough over a long enough period...

Can I add that in to my MNTV request?

Anal mussel porn with pink excrement.

Tentacle porn is very popular in Japan.

Google 'Genki Genki' for a whole range of disturbing videos along these lines.

Possibly including mussels, but you need a stronger stomach than I possess in order to examine the entire Genki Genki website to verify the truth of this.

One up the bum, no harm done.

Personally, I think she should give it a whirl. He obviously had a bit of a Dom fantasy going on there - it could be quite hot..... I think the ass shagging is the least of it (remind her to take the lube as this is the classic mistake with beginnners) I do think it is important to indulge one's partner, and to be indulged too so I cannot see the problem. I have read a few times on MumsNet the aversion to anal sex and I just don't understand the problem to be honest. However, I would also suggest she gets herself a strap on and gives him a dose of his own medicine. Perhaps I am too liberal?

dittany - that lobster is photoshopped you nana. The claws on her right boob are nowhere near the nipple. Honestly

wish I hadn't googled Genki Genki

How romantic wanting to bugger your wife.

well that sums it up for me TBH

I find this a bizarre fantasy

I can understand pretty much anything else but this I just do not get

Having said that, if it was christmases and birthdays then I would probably bargain

Dittany, we were all joking and talking about made up porn. The lobster thing is an urban myth - you can google lobster urban myth to find it. It is like the hitchiker whose fingers are found in a car door. It would not be funny if it was true!

Likewise the lego porn is pretend.

I do think real porn is a problem, and have discussed it on serious threads, but this is a thread about a pretend scenario.

Hadn't noticed the white socks, dittany

"Likewise the lego porn is pretend."

As opposed to real Lego porn, Milly?

OMG!

That Genki shit is unbelievable.

SomeGuy wins for porn-topic-you'd-never-heard-of.

Although that might not be the case. Is SolidGold around?

but what if it were HER fantasy? because that actually sounds quite attractive to me!!

As for the lobster - dittany P M S L Come ON!!!! i didnt see the pic, is there a link?? photoshopped lobster claws near boobies - thats TAME!! I LIKE nipple clamps, i like pegs on my nipples - i dont know why i like it, but i do!!! I like bondage and i like to be lightly whipped - my DP has indulged me because he loves me - however its really not his cup of tea. But he did at least try.

Morning paper - lots of people like anal sex. I used to, gone off it lately so we don't do it because you have to want it or it hurts.

We are all different.

I would indulge DPs sexual fantasies of course i would. UNLESS it was soemthing i felt really uncomfortable about - so WASH WITH CARE - your friend wasnt being unreasonable about the anal but she could have at least indulged him about the other stuff.

My favourite restuarant trick with DP it to go to the toilets, remove my panties, sit back down and give them to DP - he loves that (not) lol