Kellze, I'm sorry you're upset. I hope that you can see that for the most part posters have been trying to offer help and support. Sometimes it's those things are hard to have to hear though, I understand.
I have to say though that I find it quite interesting that last night (before you talked with your partner) you were feeling (understandably) unhappy but open to people's concerns, saying that it had given you lots to think about and made you aware of issues that you definitely had to raise with him.
Now that you've talked about this thread with him (and he has read it himself) you are really angry and defensive, refusing to countenance any suggestion that his behaviour may not have been in your best interests or that the plans for your future - while great for him - may not be ideal for you and children.
I also note that you haven't really been able or willing to answer the questions about how your partner responded to the concerns and worries and how exactly he defended his actions as the right thing to do.
It seems like a further example of his certainty that his behaviour is beyond question and that you are the unreasonable one for even hinting that it might be. This seems worryingly subtle too - I'm not saying that he's an agressive bully who has shouted you down. More that he has smooth talked and evaded and excused (again?) and you seem to have bought it completely (again?).
No-one wants to upset you for kicks, honestly. I've felt a great deal of genuine concern for you and your children on this thread.
I very much hope that this situation works out for you Kellze, and I would be delighted to eat my words in two years time if you resurrected this thread to tell us how wrong we were. Please understand that the advice you have been given has been for the most part well intentioned and born of concern for your welfare.