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in asking our upstairs neighbour to move their pram?

344 replies

KG100 · 27/09/2009 16:19

Our upstairs neighbours share a communal hall way with us and have been using it to store their pram since their son was born. We were quite sympathetic for the first six months or so. After that we politely mentioned it was a problem for us as it was blocking the hallway but they said they had nowhere else to store it.

We let it rest but for the last few months it's been getting slightly wearing as he is now 20 months old and there is no sign of them moving on to a fold up model. We raised it couple of times over the summer, basically asking how much longer they would need it and they were non-committal.

So we asked them if they would mind us storing our bikes there occasionally. They said they wouldn't object and so on Thursday night my husband moved the bikes up in anticipation of going for a bike ride or two over the weekend.

We made sure they could still get their pram in and out but they still went completely berserk. She knocked on the door to ask me to move them and lost it when I said "no - we had agreed this up front". Her husband has also got quite angry and stated that they should have extra rights over the hallway than us.

I can't believe the way they are acting (stomping round upstairs, shouting at me and my husband when we've seen them, even though the bikes are now back in our flat) but not having children I can't judge whether it is really is an ordeal to either get a fold up pram, as we have asked, or alternatively build a shed and store their pram in the front yard. I'm sure all my nephew and nieces (six of them) were using fold up buggies by this age but they insist that they are not suitable for a 20 month old. Am I being really unreasonable? When should they be able to move on to a fold up model? And what does everyone else do when their kids get to this kind of age?

OP posts:
CarGirl · 29/09/2009 16:09

no if it had been a bugaboo you would have taken upstairs!

needacupoftea · 29/09/2009 16:14

Maybe you should buy an uber large second hand pram and store it in the hall too - you could use it to keep wellies and umberellas in - keeping a massive pram in the hall is clearly okay by them and I think that it could be excellent extra storage! p.s. my dd was in a foldable macalaren when she was 4 months.

LifeOfKate · 29/09/2009 19:53

I have to say, this has been one of my favourite mn threads, for its gripping nature. I even had to text DH at work this morning to tell him it really does fold, he is as gripped by developments as I am!

pixsix · 29/09/2009 20:08

Love this thread too! Please post the picture.

Horton · 29/09/2009 20:34

I have also loved this thread. I would love to see the picture!

GrendelsMum · 29/09/2009 21:02

Ooh, yes please - I'd really like to see the pram and the hallway. And the bikes. And the vomit stains on the pram.

KG100 · 29/09/2009 21:38

OK, not that I've all night trying to work this or anything but here goes. You can now judge for yourselves!

[http://img121.imageshack.us/img121/2448/pram.jpg The amazing folding pram in its unfolded state]

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KG100 · 29/09/2009 21:43

Now, let me be fair and try to explain how this works. The door you see is the door to the house. To your right is our front door to the flat and behind you is their front door.

They do usually try to push it to one side so you can walk past it (except for when we have fat friends come round and they do have to turn side on!)

The worst place they can (and very often do) leave it is were the photo is taken from and is basically straight outside our front door. So you open the door in the morning and walk into The Pram.

So there you go.

Too far away to capture the sick stains though I'm afraid.

OP posts:
scottishmummy · 29/09/2009 21:43

link doesn't work try this page gosh you do have a small hall

anonacfr · 29/09/2009 21:44

You are kidding.... That is ridiculous!!!
You put up with that for TWENTY MONTHS? And they went away for a whole month and left it like that? WTF????

That is just plain rude.

scottishmummy · 29/09/2009 21:46

jesus wept that is tight space.your neighbours are chancers

Lucky13 · 29/09/2009 21:49

OMG - i had visions of it sticking out slightly from under the stairs or something, but not actually in a normal sized hall!!!!

Sorry but that is beyond a joke - poor you!

EggyChick · 29/09/2009 21:50

Lovely floor

JustAnotherManicMummy · 29/09/2009 21:51

They leave it right outside your door?

KG100 have you ever considered that your neighbours may be trying to kill you?

RipMacWinkle · 29/09/2009 21:51

Agree with the others. 20 months?!

Look at the proportion of the hall it takes up!

Sheesh. I'd have lost the head long, long before now.

chegirl · 29/09/2009 21:52

Put it out by the bins.

Bloody cheek.

smallorange · 29/09/2009 21:54

bloody hell! I can't believe they thought it was okay to leave it there! I leave my buggy in communal hallway but it's the size of a football field compared to yours.

amtooyoungforthis · 29/09/2009 21:55

I have been following this and I didn't think you were BU in the first place but seeing the photo...omg these people have been taking the piss

I hope you manage to get them to remove it, how have you lived with that outside you front door!!??

norktasticninja · 29/09/2009 21:56

That is utterly ridiculous

I bet it can be folded, you need the pram huns, here.

paranoidandconfused · 29/09/2009 21:59

omg YANBU!!!

lucky1979 · 29/09/2009 22:00

Am with everyone else, I can't believe how cheeky they've been! Assumed that it was at least a more square hall with stairs and so on.

I take back any rational, calming suggestions I may have made, if they haven't got rid of it in a week, set fire to the bloody thing.

scottishmummy · 29/09/2009 22:01

bumpin pram in cramped hall

spicemonster · 29/09/2009 22:01

Oh my good god, that is far, far worse than I had even begun to imagine! I used to have a pram like that. I kept it in my flat and kept it folded and even then it was a pita.

They are total nobbers and you have been far, far too nice for too long

CarGirl · 29/09/2009 22:05

I am so glad I encouraged you to show us!!!

I thought the hall would have a slightly squarer area.

vickiadele · 29/09/2009 22:10

My son was in a fold up when he was 6 months old, YANBU

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