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in asking our upstairs neighbour to move their pram?

344 replies

KG100 · 27/09/2009 16:19

Our upstairs neighbours share a communal hall way with us and have been using it to store their pram since their son was born. We were quite sympathetic for the first six months or so. After that we politely mentioned it was a problem for us as it was blocking the hallway but they said they had nowhere else to store it.

We let it rest but for the last few months it's been getting slightly wearing as he is now 20 months old and there is no sign of them moving on to a fold up model. We raised it couple of times over the summer, basically asking how much longer they would need it and they were non-committal.

So we asked them if they would mind us storing our bikes there occasionally. They said they wouldn't object and so on Thursday night my husband moved the bikes up in anticipation of going for a bike ride or two over the weekend.

We made sure they could still get their pram in and out but they still went completely berserk. She knocked on the door to ask me to move them and lost it when I said "no - we had agreed this up front". Her husband has also got quite angry and stated that they should have extra rights over the hallway than us.

I can't believe the way they are acting (stomping round upstairs, shouting at me and my husband when we've seen them, even though the bikes are now back in our flat) but not having children I can't judge whether it is really is an ordeal to either get a fold up pram, as we have asked, or alternatively build a shed and store their pram in the front yard. I'm sure all my nephew and nieces (six of them) were using fold up buggies by this age but they insist that they are not suitable for a 20 month old. Am I being really unreasonable? When should they be able to move on to a fold up model? And what does everyone else do when their kids get to this kind of age?

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AvrilH · 29/09/2009 22:10

yanbu

amtooyoungforthis · 29/09/2009 22:12

I think you start an updated thread and put the picture up in the first post, I think all people saying give some slack will be changing their minds now

DandyLioness · 29/09/2009 22:12

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scottishmummy · 29/09/2009 22:14

having lived in scottish tenements that were considerably larger hall.your neighbours were so at it

scottishmummy · 29/09/2009 22:16

pramgate and cramped space photos

citybranch · 29/09/2009 22:20

gasp - have been following this and it is a lot worse than i thought! Would have put up with this a week, max!

bratley · 29/09/2009 22:22

Been reading this on and off since you started it on Sunday and now feel I have to join in after seeing the photo!
What an absolute piss take! Can't believe anyone would think it's ok to leave a pram like that in a hallway like that
I agree with others, can't understand how you've been so nice about it for so long!

Can you wait a bit longer? Give it to the local kids to push their Guy Fawkes around in on bonfire night!
Can you get your hands on some of your neighbours clothes to 'donate' to the kids for their Guy, too!?

Necky buggers.

DandyLioness · 29/09/2009 22:26

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Heated · 29/09/2009 22:29

Blimey! They really have being taking the mick.

Maybe link this to Bounty, someone will recognise their communal hallway.

scottishmummy · 29/09/2009 22:37

nope dont do that you have legitimate complaint.dont turn into torch carrying neighbours

Stayingsunnygirl · 29/09/2009 23:34

Try this huge pram in tiny hall picture.

I've just read this thread all the way through - the last time I glanced at it, it was only 1 page long!! You've been more than patient, to put up with that for so long - and the fact that his mum bought it is no excuse, frankly - she must have visited the flat or at least know that they live in a first floor flat, so why would she buy them a pram that's so big and difficult to get upstairs.

Unless she hates her dil - but that's a whole other set of threads.....

StayFrosty · 29/09/2009 23:50

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mumzy · 30/09/2009 06:57

What a horrible situation for you and YANBU. I'd reason with them once more to move the pram and if you both can't come to some compromise I'd photocopy and send them the agreement about usage of the commual areas. I don't think you can let this one go as in a years time they'll want to store their dc trikes/bikes, scooters etc there as well.

lobsters · 30/09/2009 07:03

They should be grateful they don't live in Bournemouth, there was something on the local news last night that if you leave a pram in a communal stairwell (presumably of council flats, only saw the headlines), then the pram gets siezed and you have to pay £50 to get it back

LifeOfKate · 30/09/2009 07:38

Christ, that's a bit snug

I wouldn't have wanted that stood in the hallway of my own house, never mind inconveniencing neighbours with it...

diddl · 30/09/2009 07:51

I had something that size & never changed to a smaller buggy.

Even folded & on it´s side it still takes up a fair bit of room.

But not impossible to get upstairs!

I wouldn´t have let them keep it in the hall at all!!

arabicabean · 30/09/2009 08:00

I've found this thread captivating!
That is a monster of a pram for your hallway, and you have been SO patient for putting up with it.
But I think that you have set a precedent with your neighbours for accepting unreasonable behaviour. Human nature being what it is, I expect there will be more to come from these delightful people.

TwoManyFallsAndYouGetABadScore · 30/09/2009 08:04

OMG, you have the patience of a saint to have put up with that outside your door for 20 months.

I haven't read the whole thread but they are being so unreasonable.

Cluckyagain · 30/09/2009 08:11

....hmmmm - fire regs come to mind...but then I am extremely sad!

ErnestTheBavarian · 30/09/2009 08:29

You def need to make sure they stick to it and get rid within the week. What if she gets pg and has 2nd dc, then you're back to square one with new baby, can't manage with stairs and baby. No, you need blanket ban on anything in hallway.

They sound absolutely awful. Poor you for having to live under people like that.

And OMG at the picture. You must let us know when it's gone. Be firm.

20 months you've put up with that?

diddl · 30/09/2009 08:53

TBH, that hall looks too small to store anything in!

BoffinMum · 30/09/2009 08:54

They're shit neighbours.
Best thing to do is move IMO. I did when this happened to me.

BoffinMum · 30/09/2009 08:55

Have you told the landlord/freeholder, by the way??

scottishmummy · 30/09/2009 09:00

remove pram stored in hall because of fire risk so there is precedence

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