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How old were you when you lost your virginity?

269 replies

TrillianAstra · 15/04/2009 16:51

I got the idea from NetMums of all places. I blame this thread and BigBellasBeerBelly.

I'll start. I was 16 1/2.

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screamingabdab · 15/04/2009 22:49

Waited ? - I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 16

PinkTulips · 15/04/2009 22:50

a month after my 16th birthday.

although i was well up for it, had just broken up with a bf with whom i'd been planning on having sex the incident in question was not entirely voluntary on my part... shithead i was kissing in the nightclub offered to walk (paraletically drunk) me out and pulled me into a back alley

dp claims he was 14

DivamakesKimchi · 15/04/2009 22:54

I was so old all of you will have heart attack
Some people probably get granny at that age

gigglewitch · 15/04/2009 22:55

17 - nearly 18

NancysGarden · 15/04/2009 23:03

how old kimchi? go on tell us...

Mumcentreplus · 15/04/2009 23:12

come on I was 25!..lol...we did everything else but penetrative sex...spill..

Plonker · 15/04/2009 23:12

Was a few weeks before my 18th birthday. He was 30.

Was all a bit ...meh

And it bloody hurt

Saltire · 15/04/2009 23:14
  1. He was 33
Chellesgirl · 15/04/2009 23:25

15 in a park, near a stream (and it was raining) it was that wetn muddy the ex nearly fell in. I was shit scared but sort of knew we were going to do it that night. my mum sent out my uncle to look for me as i was 2hrs late coming home. I heard my uncles phone go off nearby, we jumped on our bikes and I rode home.(past my fuming uncle who was shouting) my mum asked me what I was doing, then she took one look at the mud on my jeans and in my hair, then my undone zip and said 'Oh no you didnt' i was like 'We did' and she was like and aked the dreaded question 'did you use protection' and I said yes!
So she went to bed!
The next day I went to my uncles (he was at work) and I spok to my immature aunty who giggled and CONGRATULATED me! (idiot) and then asked me the dreaded queation and I replied No. So she marched me to the chemist (where my mum works) and made me get the morning after pill. To my mums horror!!!!!!!!!!

Oh dear how I wish I could forget it!

ThumbelinaTrumple · 15/04/2009 23:26

17

Chellesgirl · 15/04/2009 23:27

btw...i would have got the morning after pill anyway but from a clinic later that day...i just think my aunty wanted to embarrass me...

sayithowitis · 15/04/2009 23:38

me: 18
him: 23
Both virgins:

Must have been at least ok as we have been married over 26 years now. Never been anyone else for either of us.

Chellesgirl · 15/04/2009 23:47

My DP was 18 when he lost his... for a boy in his era (hes 29) now, i thought that was really respectable....but the fact he did it with an older girl and had a one night stand at hers, was really not! And his mother would kill him if she knew as the girl was his mums colleague!

Mspontipine · 16/04/2009 00:48

15

TheLadyEvenstar · 16/04/2009 00:54

16 on my then bf's 19th birthday in a lock up so romantic.....we split up 8 months later when he broke my heart. He got in touch with me a few years back to see if i wanted to "hook up"
errrrrr no thanks wasn't that memorable

twinsetandpearls · 16/04/2009 00:56

20 and it was too someone I loved and wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

TheLadyEvenstar · 16/04/2009 00:57

Twinset, I wanted to spend my life with him too lol he bought me a ring and everything....then told me with his work and football practice he didn't have time for a relationship grrrrrrrrrrr

I was totally heartbroken

TinkerBellesMumandFiFi2 · 16/04/2009 00:57

I was 21, he was 23 and we were married. It took us until Tuesday (half of my honeymoon spent as a virgin) because he had problems. I got so fed up I dragged him off to Ann Summers and stocked up on things I thought would help. It did fortunately, I was ready to kill him! We started as we went on and I think part of our downfall was when I was complaining one day and he said "Well I don't know, do I? I've not done it before" which made it sound like I had. Fortunately for me I got rid of him and don't have that problem anymore.

twinsetandpearls · 16/04/2009 00:58

That first heartbreak is the worst.

TheLadyEvenstar · 16/04/2009 01:00

Twin sure was!!
I made sure next one ended up with the broken heart....after 5 years together

thumbwitch · 16/04/2009 01:00

17 - bit crap really. Mind you I stayed with the bloke for 11 years - it did improve!

IneedAbetterNickname · 16/04/2009 01:11

I was 16 1/2 he was 21, both virgins 8 1/2 years, one diamond ring, and 2 gorgeous children later we are still together

lowrib · 16/04/2009 01:46

14, with my lovely 1st love (BF of 3 months). His dad guessed what we were up to and gave us a -i- -hope-you're- -using- -condoms- "we just want to know you're safe" chat

Thought "is that it"

My parents didn't suss I was having regular sex till they practically caught me in bed with my next BF, a year and a half later.

RugMuncher · 16/04/2009 01:50

Nearly 15

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TrillianAstra · 16/04/2009 09:02

at how many didn't exactly choose their first time (the first time physically at least)

at embarrassment with parents

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