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How old were you when you lost your virginity?

269 replies

TrillianAstra · 15/04/2009 16:51

I got the idea from NetMums of all places. I blame this thread and BigBellasBeerBelly.

I'll start. I was 16 1/2.

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screamingabdab · 15/04/2009 18:56

Muppets Set in Italy, now I come to think of it . Liv Tyler, Jeremy Irons, gorgeous, sensual etc etc

expat I have always wondered if a good first time gives you a confidence boost, whereas a crap first time (or first year ) sets you back a bit

vonny67 · 15/04/2009 18:57

I was 25. It was with DH who was then 28, and had been shagging around since he was 15.

lottiebunny · 15/04/2009 18:57

The day after my 18th birthday. I regret it so much now. I was DP's first and I wish it had been mutual.

QuantitativeMeasure · 15/04/2009 18:58
  1. In my friends parents bed. Boy was 16

It looked like a massacre had occured in there afterwards.

ahfeckit · 15/04/2009 19:01

19, with ex boyfriend, in his parents' house at the time. was a v good experience from what I remember considering we were both virgins!

verygreenlawn · 15/04/2009 19:04

Not going to answer this question for myself as a few people know me - but a friend lost hers upstairs at her boyfriend's mum's house while they thought she was out. When she arrived home earlier than expected, they pulled their clothes on quickly and bolted downstairs to watch TV with her, hoping to look normal.

All was fine, until about 15 minutes later when they noticed the dog was sat in the corner of the room on his beanbag, with his nose in my friend's knickers.

juneybean · 15/04/2009 19:05

I was 16

Homebird8 · 15/04/2009 19:11

19

fulltimeworkingmum · 15/04/2009 19:14

20 - a complete anti-climax in every sense of the word (for me anyway!) I still married him though and had seven more years of shit sex. It's all so much better second time around, particularly as my second marriage has brought me my babies.

mumof2andabit · 15/04/2009 19:20

16 with my now dh on his parents living room floor when they were all upstairs asleep!!! Too classy for words.

Oh and painful!!!!!! Not anymore tho

cikecaka · 15/04/2009 19:26

I was 25. Lost it to DH,I was pregnant within 3 months .

racmac · 15/04/2009 19:31

Just turned 15 when we sneaked into the day rooms whilst at boarding school!

OracleInaCoracle · 15/04/2009 19:35

18, it was the first time for both of us and we are still v good friends.

morningpaper · 15/04/2009 19:39

goodness, all those netmums laydees were off shagging at 13

bit worrying eh

Pannacotta · 15/04/2009 19:40

I was 17, he was 27 so was ok, though was a bit too pissed to remember much...

mrsdisorganised · 15/04/2009 19:44

15 with my now DH.

angrypixie · 15/04/2009 19:45

16, all planned by me with 'serious' first boyfriend. I went to fp clinic, got myself on the pill, and 'gave myself to him' for his 18th birthday.

It was quite painful, v fumbly but a lurve thing!

HecatesTwopenceworth · 15/04/2009 19:52

Are you asking if you were unreasonable to lose it at that age?

Notice how I'm not answering the question?

ChasingSquirrels · 15/04/2009 19:55

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herbietea · 15/04/2009 19:55

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ItsMargotBeaurEGGarde · 15/04/2009 19:57

I was 17, with a spanish student who was living in our house. If my mum found that out even now she'd be

After that I had a gay boyfriend, we were 18, and we didn't do 'it' although I wanted to! I didn't twig that he was gay either. Thick aren't I?

SexyDomesticatedDad · 15/04/2009 20:01

After a super nice session last week DW said she couldn't believe w ehad not done it for so long when at Uni, we met there and for about 3 1/2 years we did everything but the actual itself! On my final graduation night we booked into a hotel and in famous words from Rita, Sue and Bob too - "I thought I were great!" but lots of practise does make it better over the years. DW was my one and only so maybe we have been doing something right or neither of us knows any better?

Hulababy · 15/04/2009 20:02

17y, with now-DH who was aso 17y.

HecatesTwopenceworth · 15/04/2009 20:02

aw, that's so sweet, SDD.

kormachameleon · 15/04/2009 20:05

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