Active discussions

Please or to access all these features

Talk
AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Original poster

How old were you when you lost your virginity?

269 replies

TrillianAstra · 15/04/2009 16:51

I got the idea from NetMums of all places. I blame this thread and BigBellasBeerBelly.

I'll start. I was 16 1/2.

OP posts:
FairLadyOfMuslinCloth · 15/04/2009 20:18

I was just over 18...stupid one-night-stand....completely wasn't worth it...but I just wanted it out of the way, I suppose...
hmmm

alicecrail · 15/04/2009 20:24

15 I had been going out with this lad who didn't want to do more than snog, dumped him. Couple of weeks later ended up with a mate of his! In a single bed with his mum downstairs - was possibly the most boring 2mins of my life But had to then get ribbed for it for next 6 months at school as my "friend" told my entire english class (which he was in as well) The shame!

stillenacht · 15/04/2009 20:24

16

stillenacht · 15/04/2009 20:27

with my DH who was also 16...

isn't it interesting how many of us have stayed with 'childhood sweethearts'.

BarcodeZebra · 15/04/2009 20:31

19 and it hurt. And I'm a bloke.

CMOTdibbler · 15/04/2009 20:31
  1. Not great.
Original poster
TrillianAstra · 15/04/2009 20:35

Hecate I've already apologised for this being in the wrong place

So don't be mean!

OP posts:
MuppetsMuggle · 15/04/2009 20:37

Ahh thanks Screaming

HecatesTwopenceworth · 15/04/2009 20:41

I'm not mean.

I'm just not as funny as I think I am.

Original poster
TrillianAstra · 15/04/2009 20:46

Sorry should have done

OP posts:
Jojay · 15/04/2009 20:49
  1. It was bad.

And it wasn't DH

dietstartstomorrow · 15/04/2009 20:54

20, and I felt old

Wallace · 15/04/2009 20:55

just turned 16. I didn't even really like the guy very much

LaDiDaDi · 15/04/2009 20:58
  1. It was fine; we'd done lots of other stuff first and we were both v. keen (his first time too).

I got married to him at 21 and then left him a couple of years later.

I have since doubled the number of people I have had sex with .

Claire2009 · 15/04/2009 21:00

Officially 14 but messed about from 10..

Claire2009 · 15/04/2009 21:02

14, he was 13. Met up with him again recently and erm....had some fun he's def improved in the 10 years...

hatesponge · 15/04/2009 21:04

I was 24.

He was 44

He was also sort of my boss at work

The deed was done in a four poster bed (the first and last time I have ever been in one!)

He was my first proper love, but dumped me and left me broken hearted after a few months telling me I should find someone my own age

BecauseImWorthIt · 15/04/2009 21:06
  1. At university, with bf who had been keen for some months (although very manfully respecting my desire not to).

A bit of an anticlimax! But we stayed together for almost 2 years, so he got me off to a good start, so to speak!

skramble · 15/04/2009 21:09

15

I was in love and been going with him for a while, was nice and cosy for a first time, I know I was lucky, ok no fireworks for me but OK and not traumatic, I hope my daughter waits until she is older but if her experience was similar I would be Ok with that, just maybe if she was 18 or 28 perhaps .

sockmonkey · 15/04/2009 21:09

20 - on my wedding night with DH. I'm a good girl

ByThePowerOfGreyskull · 15/04/2009 21:10

at 11 - not my choice - he was in his 60's

the first time I had sex out of choice I was 19 - he was a random bloke i worked with at my part time job.

Washersaurus · 15/04/2009 21:11

11 - I didn't really understand what I was doing (my friend's older brother took advantage of my innocence). I didn't have sex again until I was 16

AnyFucker · 15/04/2009 21:11

greyskull

KaiserSosay · 15/04/2009 21:11

15

knickers0nmahead · 15/04/2009 21:12
  1. And boy did I pay for that!
Swipe left for the next trending thread