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How old were you when you lost your virginity?

269 replies

TrillianAstra · 15/04/2009 16:51

I got the idea from NetMums of all places. I blame this thread and BigBellasBeerBelly.

I'll start. I was 16 1/2.

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Portoeufino · 15/04/2009 18:34

15.9 with a boy guy I'd been seeing for a few months. He said he had done it before, but as he didn't really seem to know exactly where to put it, I wonder.....We were in a tent in my friend's back garden. I was very sensible and went and got the pill. My dd is not allowed out unchaperoned until she is 21

thesockmonsterofdoom · 15/04/2009 18:35

at least it wasnt farm foods car park

mummyloveslucy · 15/04/2009 18:35

I'm just the same as "differentID".
We've also been together 11 years, married 6.

MuppetsMuggle · 15/04/2009 18:38

Screaming I used to be a checkout supervisor and once got caught by the store manager whilst having alot of fun with the grocery dept manager and it was well worth it, only issue was we were monday morning meetings discussion

MuffinToptheMule · 15/04/2009 18:38

8 - child abuse. Don't know if I should count that.

If not counting the above, with DP aged 18.

expatinscotland · 15/04/2009 18:39

He was 23.

Bicnod · 15/04/2009 18:39

16, with first serious boyfriend - we were both virgins so looking back on the whole experience is quite hilarious now

we're still friends. no regrets - it was as good as a first time could possibly be i reckon.

screamingabdab · 15/04/2009 18:41

Muppets - so that's what's meant by Waitrose "partners"

RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion · 15/04/2009 18:42

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screamingabdab · 15/04/2009 18:42

Muffintop Bloody hell

MuppetsMuggle · 15/04/2009 18:42

LOL - My DP knows about that, and dislikes it when the manager and I talk - DP says smiles alot when talks to me and has the look in his eyes hehe!!

salvadory · 15/04/2009 18:45

16 and not very memorable until his mum came in and announced 'I think you'd better stop that right now don't you?'
Totally and utterly excruiciating but she didn't tell my mum for which I am forever thankful.
I only saw him once more as I didn't want to face his mother.
From what I can remember (a looong time ago)he was quite good at it,had a very big willy and was also a virgin.

expatinscotland · 15/04/2009 18:47

Oh, my first couldn't have been any better!

He was sexy, experienced and French.

He was living in his mother's house for the summer whilst his flat was fitted out (the family ran a farm together).

Well, I happened to be living in his mother's house, too, as her foreign exchange student .

The house was hold and he had one of those rooms that has an anteroom attached to it.

Well, he's been dropping all these lascivious comments and hints and one night after a luscious dinner and wine I got ready for bed, in my pretty cotton nightgown, and decided, 'What the hell?! Bet he's good,' and knocked on his door once his mother had gone to bed.

He opened the door and smiled this cheeky grin and said, 'Come in. I was wondering when you'd come.'

And he made me feel right at home. In every way .

MuppetsMuggle · 15/04/2009 18:49

Expat good for you

screamingabdab · 15/04/2009 18:49

expatinscotland sorry- have you fallen asleep and woken up in a Nancy Friday book ?

Stop it!. You are making us jealous

expatinscotland · 15/04/2009 18:50

His best friend offered to deflower me as well, but I think what gave JP the advantage was sheer proximity.

MuppetsMuggle · 15/04/2009 18:50

proximity is a good thing too LOL

expatinscotland · 15/04/2009 18:50

He provided me with an excellent French vocabulary, too.

OrmIrian · 15/04/2009 18:51
  1. With a 32 yr old
screamingabdab · 15/04/2009 18:51

Ooh, I know - it's the plot of "Stealing Beauty"

expatinscotland · 15/04/2009 18:51

His mother, although a staunch Protestant, was nonetheless very practical.

In other words, she probably knew damn well what we were getting up to.

MuppetsMuggle · 15/04/2009 18:53

Screaming - Stealing Beauty??

Expat - at least his mother let you get on with it

Meglet · 15/04/2009 18:54

bamboo don't worry I was 22 too

expatinscotland · 15/04/2009 18:54

He was fun. I'm glad it was him, he was so open about peoples' bodies, he gave me a lot of confidence.

expatinscotland · 15/04/2009 18:55

She made me go and get the Pill. Of course, not that I objected, for obvious reasons.

Made things easier for me and JP, anyways.