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How old were you when you lost your virginity?

269 replies

TrillianAstra · 15/04/2009 16:51

I got the idea from NetMums of all places. I blame this thread and BigBellasBeerBelly.

I'll start. I was 16 1/2.

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vaRIAtyisthespiceoflife · 15/04/2009 17:38

please read sheg as SHAG

(maybe that's why it was crap, we were doing something else?)

mrsmaidamess · 15/04/2009 17:38
  1. On the floor at dh's parents house. With no protection, WHAT A FOOL!!!
ChippingIn · 15/04/2009 17:40

16 - 'was that it' here too... but with lots of practice it did get better... however, after him it got MUCH better

We were babysitting, did it in their spare room where I stayed a lot, so felt like 'my' room.

(thesockmonster - why did you do it with him if you thought he was ugly? Did you just want to 'get it out of the way' LOL Feel free not to answer!!).

Simplysally · 15/04/2009 17:43

I was on my period at the time so the next morning I had to clean the wall next to the bed where it had splattered .

Obviously years before my Mooncup days .

screamingabdab · 15/04/2009 17:44

17 (he was 23 and I loved him)

Would not go in properly

Quote: "I've never had this problem before"

Never got much better (with him)

everGreensleeves · 15/04/2009 17:45

fuck me sally, there's an image I could happily have done without

screamingabdab · 15/04/2009 17:45

lol vaRIA

Simplysally · 15/04/2009 17:45

sorry .

Totally gross looking back.

thesockmonsterofdoom · 15/04/2009 17:46

Chipping, i thought I was really ugly as well, didnt realise until much later how fantastically gorgeous I am.

psychomum5 · 15/04/2009 17:50

and DD1 is 15 now, and I look at her and think....... no, too young too young.

DD1 hopefully will not be as stoopid as her mum, nor as foolish over chat-up lines.

Ewe · 15/04/2009 17:50

15 here and was actually not too bad considering we were both virgins.

Flibbertyjibbet · 15/04/2009 17:51

Which seems to be much younger than most on here, perhaps I need to get over to netmums

It was a real 'is that it' moment. We'd been going out 12 months, did it that time and went out another 6 months without bothering again (well he wanted to I just didn't see the point!!).

In some woods (blurgh), no foreplay no nothing, and in JANUARY fgs so it was bloody freezing.

In fact I didn't bother again till I was 20 so 15 hardly counts does it!!

Hassled · 15/04/2009 17:51
  1. A month before my 16th birthday. With a youth my brother referred to constantly as Neaderthal Man.
Hassled · 15/04/2009 17:52

*Neanderthal

DisasterEggs · 15/04/2009 17:53

i was 15 he was 30. at the time it was good. now i think it was a bit wrong.

Celery · 15/04/2009 17:53

I was 20, with my first boyfriend, who is now my husband ( for many many years ). In a hotel room in Brighton. My first thought was, yes! I've finally done it!! It was pretty good, and then got much better, before getting pretty crappy again. sigh.

FourArms · 15/04/2009 17:54

At 17.5 (nearly 18) to then BF, now DH. I tried a few times with previous BF, but he could never get it in. Turned out years later that (contrary to his insistence at the time) he was a virgin too. So DH has been my one and only. ?

TrillianAstra · 15/04/2009 17:54

A youth? A youth? You did it with a youth?

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screamingabdab · 15/04/2009 17:56

I am my DHs one-and-only, though he did practice a lot with a previous girlfriend who wouldn't "go all the way".

I have a lot to thank her for!

(slightly weird and disconcerting thought)

thesockmonsterofdoom · 15/04/2009 17:58

I still feel sick you gits.

CassORole · 15/04/2009 17:58

On my 16th birthday. Wish I'd waited longer because it was rubbish and the guy I was with (for four years) was an utter git who broke my heart to bits when I was 19.

Hassled · 15/04/2009 17:58

He was indeed a youth, as in the same age as me. We were youths together in lurve. But only he was neanderthal.

ChippingIn · 15/04/2009 17:58

Thesockmonster - at least you now know you are gorgeous!!

My first was no great shakes to look at either, but he loved me and he

ChippingIn · 15/04/2009 18:02

not sure what happened there....

... he loved me and he understood me. I was going through a rough patch and he was there for me. He didn't push me into sex, he waited a long time!! (although as with most blokes he was constantly hopeful ) He was 21 (I was 16).

ScorpiowithabigS · 15/04/2009 18:03

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