AIBU to think that teenage mums should be given a break.

[Daisy15]

People are forever ranting on at me for having dd too young as if i don't already know it. Just wish i could shut them up ... any suggestions on how to do that?

Thanks

shamefully i did say that to make me sound less slaggy nappy sorry.

shamefully i did say that to make me sound less slaggy nappy sorry.

My mother had me when she was young and I have partied with her and still do. Not only is she my mother, but also my best friend. I'm 33.
Just so glad she is nothing like moondog.

why would her being born in august make you sound less slaggy?

I've partied with my mum.

In fact, I was partying with her a couple of months ago.

I'm nearly 40.

She's 69.

Twas fun

Because then i would of had her at a later date. And also it would mean i gave birth at 16.

The OP asked a question. Fair enough to get an honest answer.

but you said on a few threads she was born in aug.

how could you have given birth at 16 if you are only still 15

but on one thread you said you fell pregnant at 14 and had her in august and you were now 15..

Something doesn't add up here... previous posts sound like they're from someone who is far older than 15/16....

here

sorry this is very similar to ChristopherEthan, anyone else think so?

Dc;s name isn't ethan is it?

moondog - i agree with what you are saying but sometimes there are contraception failures and sometimes your dp is an arse and leaves you on your own so you can't work until your child is much older. this can happen at 16 or 36. do you really think they don't deserve support from the state?

OK OK, i'm a liar . I got so caught up in lying to making it look like i wasn't THAT YOUNG that i just rambled on and on and then just different stories came up about DD, but honestly she does mean the absolute Earth to me. I'm freaking 16 [turned 16 in aug] and baby was born 23June.

mamazon that was my first thought as soon as she said she was 15. and i told myself off for being so unreasonable and that i can't start judging every 15 year old who comes on here after the EC episode.

but that meant you were 15 when you fell pregnant, why on earth would you say you were 14???!! why??

BTW I was 18 when I had Ds1.

daisy if you didn't want to seem so young why would you lie about your age making yourself younger? doesn't make sense!

So DD is 6 months and you are now 16?!

Why didnt you just say so ya daft bugger

It doiesnt make any difference at the end of the day you are a mum regardless of your age aslong as you are taking care of your DD it doesnt matter.

daisy15, My mum was horrified when my sister had my nephew at 16 (I was horrified too) and horrified again when I had my DS at 40 years. By the time my sister was 18 years she was married with another nephew. They were on benefits, maybe the first couple of years, then my BIL got his act together and supported them all with my sister working part-time when she could. I think they have now paid their dues. I now have a nephew who is now 21 yrs who was my first childminder at 17 years. He is one of most caring relatives my DS has. Life throws you around a bit. But you've got to learn my mistakes and not keep making the same ones.

Trollery aside, can I ask you if you have any plans to support your child financially and when these plans might come to fruition?

im sorry but this is wayyy too much like teh EC stuff.

a bit of probing and its "oh ok i was lying about that but..."

i think you need to go away, and decide on the persona you want to use here.

Oh, I'm tired, whats going on? I have fake tans on my hands which I haven't washed off, do we know what's going on now?

look just forget about it... i'm stupid, i just wanted to live like someone else. And yeah that sounds dead childish but i just hate the life im leading now. I don't suppose anyone will feel as awful as me.

she said on a different thread she plans to go to uni.