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What would the Left call the Right, if the small boat people were white?

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Blondiebeachbabe · 29/09/2026 13:19

I'll start by saying, I am very anti open boarders, and I am horrified that so many illegal immigrants are arriving every day. But for me, it has absolutely nothing to do with skin colour, it is more to do with :

ONE) They have no documentation, and we have no idea if they have criminal backgrounds

TWO) They tend to come from cultures where women are not respected

THREE) They often come from places where rape is not a crime

FOUR) They cannot work, and it is costing Millions to house, feed and clothe them

FIVE) We are granting asylum to some people who should never get it - like the Hamas bodyguard we heard of yesterday

Lots of valid reasons I feel, however, for me, it has nothing to do with skin colour. If I had to be locked in a room overnight with a white man from a backward culture, or a black man from the UK, I would choose the latter, every single time.

It isn't colour, it's culture

But I see that people on the Far Left just scream "Racist" to anyone who opposes illegal immigration. What would they scream, if all the small boats were full of white men? And would people still march for England?

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storyinside · 29/09/2026 20:18

LuckyHazelFox · 29/09/2026 20:08

Especially women. Why gaslight other women into saying they are racist rather than be an advocate against all rapists. It's just virtuous point scoring by women far from being interested in addressing a common problem.

It's not that 'some women' or 'the left' are supporting rape in any shape or form! This retort literally does my head in. Some people just simply do not buy the premise 'Afghan = probably a sex offender.' They know that this is a totally stupid way to think; that propensity to rape is far more nuanced and complex than 'culture;' and they see straight through the cynical 'Reform' propaganda campaign that incites threads like this. Because while people are frothing about immigrants 'raping our women' far greater dangers are hiding in plain sight.

LuckyHazelFox · 29/09/2026 20:19

CountBinfaceForPM · 29/09/2026 20:14

The combined effort to avoid answering the question is rather disappointing but maybe not surprising.

You haven't posed a question, you've made an assumption. You're saying men you don't like don't have women's welfare at heart.

JasmineMac · 29/09/2026 20:21

Most people who consider themselves left leaning have the savvy to recognise genuine nuance, and don't call people who have concerns about border control racist.
Indeed, I don't encounter these discussions in real life. I rather suspect that the left versus right 'battle' is largely an online pursuit, and is being fought exclusively online by the most insufferable from both sides of the political divide.

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 29/09/2026 20:22

We already know what that certain group (not ‘the left’, I’m left economically) would call it if the boat people were white because they did it when there were complaints about the mass migration of Polish and Romanians etc given us by the treacherous idiot Blair. Racists, same as now. As if people and land don’t go together and have done since even hunter gatherer times let alone farming times. As if it’s perfectly normal for a million people a year to turn up in a fully settled and very overpopulated country (it is not).

And why should Europeans not welcome other Europeans with at least some shared cultural understanding more than a bunch of people from the other side of the world with no cultural understanding nor even basic connection to our environment, especially when those people on the other side of the world with very different cultural ideas conflict so massively with our own, and have no intention of integrating.

People do not have automatic rights to rock up to other countries on the other side of the world and be welcomed and given everything under the sun. This is true now, a hundred years ago, a thousand years ago. I’m sick of the stupidity, double dealing and gaslighting.

washingmysocks · 29/09/2026 20:22

Can’t be bothered to quote everyone but wow, I can’t believe people are still comparing people’s levels of ‘civilisation’. And yes, that’s really f-ing racist.

and yes the situation in HK is a direct result of British colonialism. Within our lifetimes (or mine, anyway!)!! Not many generations ago, as people like to parrot. At least this one the government kind of took some responsibility for the fallout.

EasternStandard · 29/09/2026 20:23

storyinside · 29/09/2026 20:18

It's not that 'some women' or 'the left' are supporting rape in any shape or form! This retort literally does my head in. Some people just simply do not buy the premise 'Afghan = probably a sex offender.' They know that this is a totally stupid way to think; that propensity to rape is far more nuanced and complex than 'culture;' and they see straight through the cynical 'Reform' propaganda campaign that incites threads like this. Because while people are frothing about immigrants 'raping our women' far greater dangers are hiding in plain sight.

Usually the line is men are vetted, but since you acknowledge that’s not the case it makes it more reasonable to change the system.

KnorRoar · 29/09/2026 20:24

storyinside · 29/09/2026 20:06

If there were any credible stats about Pakistani or Afghan men being more prolific, on average, for sexual offences IN THE UK, then posters on here would be all over it.

Data sets from Sweden etc are largely irrelevant because it's a different society and different demographics. The UK is a much larger population, with far more social and economic inequality and multiculturalism is far more deeply entrenched. Also, for every study supposedly proving 'x,' there will be ten other studies claiming to prove the exact opposite, or a different variation.

Single studies from other countries are essentially meaningless. We could all google 'find me a study to prove x,y,z' now.

The 'Fact' is that there is no overwhelming evidence that any race of people are more predisposed to being rapists than any other. Individual studies or newspaper articles are not empirical truths. They are... individual studies, and you need to compare and contrast a wide spectrum of studies to establish anything approximating to 'fact.'

The fact is, nobody knows.

I think there is some MOJ data there that's been collated.

So you blatantly ignore the Swedish data then? That's it's not relevant and doesn't show anything then?

Data from the other Nordic nations and Germany tell a similar story.

LuckyHazelFox · 29/09/2026 20:27

Groans at the inevitable introduction of British colonialism. We've moved on and women can independently form judgements outside of what men got up to in wars.

Clavinova · 29/09/2026 20:30

Timeforachange26 · 29/09/2026 20:04

But even they keep going back to Ukraine for holidays and dental treatment. If someone goes back they shouldn't be allowed back in as obviously safe enough to go there

A valid point.

As an aside, I read that the EU has extended temporary protection status granted to Ukrainians until 4 March 2028, but restricted new applications from military-age men, aged 23 to 60.

washingmysocks · 29/09/2026 20:32

LuckyHazelFox · 29/09/2026 20:27

Groans at the inevitable introduction of British colonialism. We've moved on and women can independently form judgements outside of what men got up to in wars.

Have we? Moved on from thinking we’re superior from the foreigners? This thread suggests otherwise.

Not sure what the impact of colonialism has got to do with women’s ability to make informed judgements… it does have a lot to do with immigration trends, and indeed the history of race rhetoric, though, I’m afraid.

CountBinfaceForPM · 29/09/2026 20:37

LuckyHazelFox · 29/09/2026 20:19

You haven't posed a question, you've made an assumption. You're saying men you don't like don't have women's welfare at heart.

"So you think Robinson, Thomas, Farage and Lowe have women's interests at heart?"

Is a question. The clue is in the ? and in the fact that it can be answered "yes I do" or "no I don't" or something in between.

LuckyHazelFox · 29/09/2026 20:37

washingmysocks · 29/09/2026 20:32

Have we? Moved on from thinking we’re superior from the foreigners? This thread suggests otherwise.

Not sure what the impact of colonialism has got to do with women’s ability to make informed judgements… it does have a lot to do with immigration trends, and indeed the history of race rhetoric, though, I’m afraid.

Who's saying they are superior to foreigners? Colonialism is often used to make ordinary every day people feel guilty. You don't need to be afraid of having your opinion, I'm not.

Clavinova · 29/09/2026 20:39

HappiestSleeping · 29/09/2026 19:50

There are limited data sources as the stats are only just being recorded, however this may help you:
https://migrationobservatory.ox.ac.uk/resources/briefings/migrants-and-crime-in-the-uk/

Also, look at Refuge, Women's Aid, ONS, pretty much every police force and they all agree that in most instances (the high 90 percent) violence against women is perpetrated by someone known to the victim. Often their partner or a relative.

You linked to the Migration Observatory?

Madeleine Sumption, the director of the Migration Observatory, told BBC Radio 4’s More or Less programme that she estimated the conviction rate of sex offences rate to be 14.5 times higher for Afghan nationals.

(raw data)

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 29/09/2026 20:40

The connection with colonialism can go take a running jump.

”We” invaded other countries and stole their resources did we?

Who’s we? The poorer people of Britain are the ones who were disenfranchised first and chucked into factories, on long hours and low pay, and we have been seeing those times return for the last few decades. Our supposed benefit from cheap labour overseas could equally well be read as our screwing over by the making of cheap crap overseas being dumped on local markets - that is becoming equally obvious now. Some of us wanted fair trade over ‘free trade’, so called, with working plebs around the world.

If you want to give compensation then take the Crown Jewels and the aristo’s descendants’ bloody art works, but the land here was never theirs to take or give. By the way, there are very very few places in the world where Europeans rocked up in their millions to places that were already overpopulated by natives.

ColdAsAWitches · 29/09/2026 20:40

EasternStandard · 29/09/2026 19:26

It means you got it wrong about people in power not fleeing.

He was a bodyguard! That's not someone in power. That's someone whose job is to get shot and killed instead of the people that actually have power!

Thelonelyshrew · 29/09/2026 20:41

CaptainMyCaptain · 29/09/2026 13:34

Also by white men. Deport all men?

Exactly. We’ve got enough of our own scum without taking in more!

LuckyHazelFox · 29/09/2026 20:44

Thelonelyshrew · 29/09/2026 20:41

Exactly. We’ve got enough of our own scum without taking in more!

Hear hear.

TheOriginalEmu · 29/09/2026 20:52

moderate · 29/09/2026 15:47

  1. our culture doesn’t respect women. 90+-% of women have been sexual assaulted or harassed.
  2. Our culture may not say rape is legal, but when less than 2% of rape victims get a guilty verdict in court…it’s essentially legal.

Sometimes I wonder whether people like you understand why Reform are gaining ground. Hint: it's because you care more about virtue signalling than protecting values.

So which part of what i said is not true? it’s not virtue signalling to tell the truth about british culture.

EasternStandard · 29/09/2026 20:54

TheOriginalEmu · 29/09/2026 20:52

So which part of what i said is not true? it’s not virtue signalling to tell the truth about british culture.

But where is better?

TheOriginalEmu · 29/09/2026 20:56

EasternStandard · 29/09/2026 15:54

Do you really think that of the culture here, where do you see as better? Or is everywhere on the same level wrt women and girls in your view

Yes, I think that of the culture. Those aren’t my statistics that i dreamed up out of my arse. they are the truth of british culture. I don’t know where is better, I don’t live anywhere else. All i know is that most of the problems in my life and my kids lives are nothing to do with asylum seekers and everything to do with massive corporations who don’t pay their taxes,billionaires who run the world and a culture of toxicity in young men that’s scary as hell.

TheOriginalEmu · 29/09/2026 20:59

EasternStandard · 29/09/2026 20:54

But where is better?

why are you asking me that? what does where is better have to do with the validity of what i said? Maybe nowhere is better…and what? does that make it less true that women are assaulted and harassed here all the time?

HappiestSleeping · 29/09/2026 21:00

Clavinova · 29/09/2026 20:39

You linked to the Migration Observatory?

Madeleine Sumption, the director of the Migration Observatory, told BBC Radio 4’s More or Less programme that she estimated the conviction rate of sex offences rate to be 14.5 times higher for Afghan nationals.

(raw data)

Yes. As always, statistics can be manipulated into the sound bites required at the time. For example, we are all going to die at some point, and many of us eat baked beans. QED baked beans must kill you, eventually.

If you read the article I linked to, the majority of incarcerated men who are not British nationals are actually not Afghan at all. And also, it depends on what the comparison is. The reality is that a staggering amount of men both British and otherwise are never actually convicted of anything. The percentage you reference could be over a sample size of 25 people which would be an additional 3 people.

The question I responded to was about asylum seekers specifically where there is a minimal increase in the percentage (1%), and there are several studies referred to including the migration observatory's own that also state that migrants (not just asylum seekers) have no impact on the stats.

Thus, it is necessary to dip into the data a bit in order to understand it and form an opinion, as opposed to quoting a headline. Otherwise nobody will ever buy baked beans again.

EasternStandard · 29/09/2026 21:01

TheOriginalEmu · 29/09/2026 20:59

why are you asking me that? what does where is better have to do with the validity of what i said? Maybe nowhere is better…and what? does that make it less true that women are assaulted and harassed here all the time?

It’s relevant on this thread given it’s about systems of entry into the country.

storyinside · 29/09/2026 21:14

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 29/09/2026 20:22

We already know what that certain group (not ‘the left’, I’m left economically) would call it if the boat people were white because they did it when there were complaints about the mass migration of Polish and Romanians etc given us by the treacherous idiot Blair. Racists, same as now. As if people and land don’t go together and have done since even hunter gatherer times let alone farming times. As if it’s perfectly normal for a million people a year to turn up in a fully settled and very overpopulated country (it is not).

And why should Europeans not welcome other Europeans with at least some shared cultural understanding more than a bunch of people from the other side of the world with no cultural understanding nor even basic connection to our environment, especially when those people on the other side of the world with very different cultural ideas conflict so massively with our own, and have no intention of integrating.

People do not have automatic rights to rock up to other countries on the other side of the world and be welcomed and given everything under the sun. This is true now, a hundred years ago, a thousand years ago. I’m sick of the stupidity, double dealing and gaslighting.

So you would decry the British Empire then presumably?

storyinside · 29/09/2026 21:23

LuckyHazelFox · 29/09/2026 20:44

Hear hear.

You would love to just straight up call the boat people scum wouldn't you. But you know you'd get banned.