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Where do you think Jewish people come from?

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BlessedIsTheFruit · 23/09/2026 20:07

Antisemitism is at full volume at the moment and I caveat this post with saying that I have absolutely no wish to make Jewish MNers feel uncomfortable but as an an atheist with no connection to Israel this really makes my blood boil.

I see so many SM posts about the Jews having 'colonized' Israel and Judea & Samaria, not having any claim to the land, not being indigenous and of course being 'Europeans settlers'.

They can't answer where they actually come from though so I thought anyone on here who shares their views might be able to give an answer and how they came to that conclusion.

I understand that Jews are an ethnicity with Judaism as their religion. Being Jewish is not a religion. Jews are still today spread out all over the world with the majority living in Israel and the US.

This has come into focus since the UK Government sanctions on Jewish businesses in Judea & Samaria recently with Jewish communities living there classed as 'illegal settlers'.

It's almost as if Jews and Judea have no connection at all.

So AIBU to ask where the Jews originated from if not from there?

I don't feel this belongs on the CITME board as although the war in Gaza has amplified beliefs, this not directly about that.

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Lucyslocket · Yesterday 08:20

ginkhao · Yesterday 07:27

Let's not forget that back in the heady days of the 90s when it felt like a two state solution was achievable, Hamas was blowing up buses and murdering innocent Israeli civilians in order to (successfully) derail it.

The Arabs were offered a two-state solution at least 5 times as I recall.
The turned it down every time, the last time being in 2008.
This is because they don't want a two-state solution. They want a one-state solution and that state isn't Israel.

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Lucyslocket · Yesterday 08:23

CrazyMidget · 23/09/2026 23:04

Why do you say that? Would that not be a good solution? Just because it's never gonna happen, doesn't mean it's not a good idea.

It's been tried 5 times and each time the Arabs rejected it. See my post at 8.20.
That's why I SMH.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 08:24

Lucyslocket · Yesterday 08:20

The Arabs were offered a two-state solution at least 5 times as I recall.
The turned it down every time, the last time being in 2008.
This is because they don't want a two-state solution. They want a one-state solution and that state isn't Israel.

👏 from the river to the sea Palestine will be free. That lovely slogan, laced with intentions for Israel and her people. The dopes lap it up though on their hate marches.

BermudaRhombus · Yesterday 08:26

110APiccadilly · Yesterday 06:33

Ur of the Chaldees is where Abram came from, I believe.

Having got that out of my system, there are (at least) two things which make this a really difficult situation to solve.

Firstly, Jews absolutely need a country. Over a thousand years of history tells us that, for reasons I don't fully understand, almost whenever a country starts to go bad, Jews are among the first to be persecuted. It's not just the Holocaust, it's hundreds of years of discrimination, expulsion and suspicion. So if they are not going to have the country of Israel, where can they have which will be a safe haven?

Secondly, there are people on both sides who think they have a divine right to the land. Some Jews believe God gave it to them. Some Muslims hold the view that any land which has ever been ruled by Muslims must never be allowed to pass out of Muslim control. I am not sure how prevalent those views are, but I suspect their existence (on both sides) is why the two state solution never seems to get off the ground.

Unless the UN or someone (probably the US) wants to get back to colonisation and enforce a two state solution (which will mean both sides hate and attack them and given Israel has a very good military I'm not sure it would even be possible) I think that part of the world will continue to be a brutal mess. I wish there was an answer but I don't think there is.

An intervention of this kind might be the only way to achieve a two state solution in a way that can guarantee the security of both sides, but would rely entirely on US will which is vanishingly unlikely. Israel appears to have strong armed forces, but they would be very weak compared to a US backed intervention combined with economic levers.

SanctusInDistress · Yesterday 08:27

Tribalism linked to religion and race has existed since humans existed. Even monkey colonies have rivalry between them.

The difference is that we are supposed to be the more ‘intelligent’ of the apes, yet we are still throwing stones and spears at each other like we did in prehistoric times. Nothing has changed except that the stones and spears are a little more deadly now.

Lexibletheflexible · Yesterday 08:29

Fgfgfg · Yesterday 08:28

No it's not. Ethiopian Jews have had a difficult time being accepted by some people in Israel due to racism.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-middle-east-32813056

I was going to raise this but I thought it pointless.

ErroltheSwampDragon · Yesterday 08:31

Fgfgfg · Yesterday 08:28

No it's not. Ethiopian Jews have had a difficult time being accepted by some people in Israel due to racism.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-middle-east-32813056

That does not stop it being an ethnoreligion. Denying the ethnicity element is just a way of denying people's heritage and identity.

BermudaRhombus · Yesterday 08:31

SanctusInDistress · Yesterday 08:27

Tribalism linked to religion and race has existed since humans existed. Even monkey colonies have rivalry between them.

The difference is that we are supposed to be the more ‘intelligent’ of the apes, yet we are still throwing stones and spears at each other like we did in prehistoric times. Nothing has changed except that the stones and spears are a little more deadly now.

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In prehistoric times everyone had stones and spears. Nowadays, things are decidedly more ‘asymmetric’.

SanctusInDistress · Yesterday 08:32

BermudaRhombus · Yesterday 08:31

In prehistoric times everyone had stones and spears. Nowadays, things are decidedly more ‘asymmetric’.

I’m sure that ‘my stone is better than your stone’ was a thing too back then.

ginkhao · Yesterday 08:34

Bloodysquirellls · Yesterday 08:00

Thanks that is a very comprehensive explanation of land.

However, nearly all the land was state land and not privately held land and that passed to the state of Israel in 1948 when the brits left.

So do you think we (ie. UK gov) would know where that boundary was and that if they are sanctioning an illegal settlement (the one mentioned in the OP)- it probably is because it’s been illegally taken/ stolen (which ever word you please)?

Because that’s my assumption. The UK gov have a pretty high bar for Israel sanctions.

The problems with the settements in the WB are far deeper than who the land belong to. Creating enclaves of Israeli civil law in the middle of terriroty with millions of Palestinians living effectively under an Israeli military dictatorship (even those in PA areas are affected by Israeli military law) is problematic. Creating settlements in order to stymie a future Palestinian state is problematic. But then add to that a violent extremist messianic minority. And then add to that a far-right Israeli government who are not even enforcing Israeli civil law against the extreme settlers. I think that's been the push for the UK government.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 08:35

SanctusInDistress · Yesterday 08:32

I’m sure that ‘my stone is better than your stone’ was a thing too back then.

Now it's my voice is louder than yours, as proven by Charlotte Church.

Newbutoldfather · Yesterday 08:38

The answer to the question is that it varies.

I am ethnically an Ashkenazi Jew and that is officially an ethnicity and we do have enough genetically in common to suffer from higher percentages of certain genetic disorders. I believe the same is true of Sephardic Jews.

There has been a lot of ‘marrying out’ in the last couple of generations, though, which means that the genetic ‘purity’ is becoming rapidly diluted.

However, I am not sure that this gives me some automatic right to live where my genes originated 2,000+ years ago. After all, do we all get a right to live in Africa because that is where mankind is thought to have originated?!

I do believe that the Jewish homeland in Israel was a reasonable solution after the Holocaust, but it was a compromise, and totally unfair to the native Palestinian population. That doesn’t mean it shouldn’t stay, and remain Jewish. I think it should. However, it does mean that, for long term peace, a two state solution needs to be found which addresses everyone’s needs and aspirations.

I do see something in Israel in common with apartheid S.A, but it is a very imperfect model, as Arab’s within the 1967 borders have (almost) the same rights as Jews. Unfortunately, Netanyahu and his religious allies are doing their best to change this, and there is definitely discrimination on the ground. The occupied territories do, however have a lot in common with the black ‘homelands’ in S.A.

There is no easy solution and the international community has to engage fully to get the two sides to negotiate in good faith.

TurquoiseGoldPeaches · Yesterday 08:40

FCCRULES · 23/09/2026 20:25

Any Jewish person has an automatic right to move to Israel and claim Israeli citizenship, and many do alongside their European citizenship. What is wrong with that?

Well if all the Jews in the world did that they wouldn’t fit for a start!

SmallDFartyCarNRG · Yesterday 08:40

Ticktockk · Yesterday 06:37

But the discourse on this has to include what’s happening in Gaza. It’s not anti-semitic to include two genocides in the discussion. You’re asking about the jewish homeland; people are suggesting that Israelis indiscriminately killing and displacing the people who also live there is not helpful.
I completely agree that Israel is a home for Jewish people, going back millennia, and it is also a home for Palestinians, going back millennia.

People can’t expect to come on here and say ”how dare you discount the extermination of Jews in the 1930s and 40s” (which I haven’t actually seen anyone do on this thread. I think there is generally - for once- a good understanding of the constant discrimination and forced movement of Jews throughout history) and then immediately go on to say the genocide in Gaza is all a lie and propaganda, whilst movements are made to do the same thing in the West Bank.

You can’t have this discussion whilst pretending war/genocide surrounding this very subject is not happening right now

This.

BermudaRhombus · Yesterday 08:42

Newbutoldfather · Yesterday 08:38

The answer to the question is that it varies.

I am ethnically an Ashkenazi Jew and that is officially an ethnicity and we do have enough genetically in common to suffer from higher percentages of certain genetic disorders. I believe the same is true of Sephardic Jews.

There has been a lot of ‘marrying out’ in the last couple of generations, though, which means that the genetic ‘purity’ is becoming rapidly diluted.

However, I am not sure that this gives me some automatic right to live where my genes originated 2,000+ years ago. After all, do we all get a right to live in Africa because that is where mankind is thought to have originated?!

I do believe that the Jewish homeland in Israel was a reasonable solution after the Holocaust, but it was a compromise, and totally unfair to the native Palestinian population. That doesn’t mean it shouldn’t stay, and remain Jewish. I think it should. However, it does mean that, for long term peace, a two state solution needs to be found which addresses everyone’s needs and aspirations.

I do see something in Israel in common with apartheid S.A, but it is a very imperfect model, as Arab’s within the 1967 borders have (almost) the same rights as Jews. Unfortunately, Netanyahu and his religious allies are doing their best to change this, and there is definitely discrimination on the ground. The occupied territories do, however have a lot in common with the black ‘homelands’ in S.A.

There is no easy solution and the international community has to engage fully to get the two sides to negotiate in good faith.

By ‘international community’ I’d read the US. They are the only ones with the clout to secure a resolution. Unfortunately, that is unlikely until the US administration changes.

BewaretheIckabog · Yesterday 08:53

Mumtotornadoes · Yesterday 06:44

Their mother's vaginas.

You don't have a claim to a place just because your ancestors used to live there. I don't see America giving America back or the Australians giving Australia back etc etc.

I don't give a damn where your religion came from, I care that you're brutally murdering, torturing and raping people including children. It's not anti-Semitism because I think the same of all the men doing that shit no matter who you pray to. If your god is ok with that then I'd rather spend eternity in hell

I see you are not even bothering to pretend you blame the Israeli government or army.

Accusing Jews in general of murdering babies is somewhat antisemitic. I’m quite glad you’ve not tried to hide it by pretending it’s only the zionists that are a problem and shown your true colours.

For the earlier poster who said they’d never witnessed antisemitism, the above is a great example.

Newbutoldfather · Yesterday 08:54

@BermudaRhombus ,

‘By ‘international community’ I’d read the US. They are the only ones with the clout to secure a resolution. Unfortunately, that is unlikely until the US administration changes.’

Without the U.S, it isn’t going to happen. And I think that, unless the Israeli government changes and they stop settling additional land, sanctions are appropriate.

A proper solution would also be better for Israel. I am not sure how many enjoy continual army service and the threat of war. I definitely wouldn’t.

Cailleach1 · Yesterday 08:57

ginkhao · Yesterday 05:04

Yes, exactly. But Northern Ireland took centuries to resolve... Things come and go. Back in the 90s, it was so close to a resolution. Eventually we might get back to a point where an agreement will become feasible again.

I am just wondering about the centuries for NI resolution. Northern Ireland was only created in 1921, when Ireland was partitioned.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 08:57

BewaretheIckabog · Yesterday 08:53

I see you are not even bothering to pretend you blame the Israeli government or army.

Accusing Jews in general of murdering babies is somewhat antisemitic. I’m quite glad you’ve not tried to hide it by pretending it’s only the zionists that are a problem and shown your true colours.

For the earlier poster who said they’d never witnessed antisemitism, the above is a great example.

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Imagine that being a post about the vaginas of Muslim women.

ginkhao · Yesterday 08:59

Newbutoldfather · Yesterday 08:38

The answer to the question is that it varies.

I am ethnically an Ashkenazi Jew and that is officially an ethnicity and we do have enough genetically in common to suffer from higher percentages of certain genetic disorders. I believe the same is true of Sephardic Jews.

There has been a lot of ‘marrying out’ in the last couple of generations, though, which means that the genetic ‘purity’ is becoming rapidly diluted.

However, I am not sure that this gives me some automatic right to live where my genes originated 2,000+ years ago. After all, do we all get a right to live in Africa because that is where mankind is thought to have originated?!

I do believe that the Jewish homeland in Israel was a reasonable solution after the Holocaust, but it was a compromise, and totally unfair to the native Palestinian population. That doesn’t mean it shouldn’t stay, and remain Jewish. I think it should. However, it does mean that, for long term peace, a two state solution needs to be found which addresses everyone’s needs and aspirations.

I do see something in Israel in common with apartheid S.A, but it is a very imperfect model, as Arab’s within the 1967 borders have (almost) the same rights as Jews. Unfortunately, Netanyahu and his religious allies are doing their best to change this, and there is definitely discrimination on the ground. The occupied territories do, however have a lot in common with the black ‘homelands’ in S.A.

There is no easy solution and the international community has to engage fully to get the two sides to negotiate in good faith.

If you were brought up Jewish, then you would know that the ties to Israel are not because that's where our genes origanted from 2000 years ago.
Did you fast on tisha b'av to remember the destruction of the temple? Did you break a glass at your wedding to remember the destruction of Jerusalem at your happiest monent? Did you turn towards Jerusalem when you said the Amida? Did you sing "Next year in Jerusalem" at your seder?

It's only people with a passing knowledge of Judaism who would claim that the Jewish connection to their homeland is just about genes.

SmallDFartyCarNRG · Yesterday 09:06

I am actually really appreciating the less extreme views of posters who are Jewish on here, it enables discussion and thoughtful dialogue.
For me adaption and change is inevitable as the human race. If you focus on the past you don't move forward. I think it would be interesting to know what the more right wing Jews feel about Russia and Ukraine, for example.

I was disgusted with Trump's casino strip plans for the WB and am amazed Israel wasn't angered by that, which showed exactly what this war is all about, a land grab for profit. The fake facts and religion is a cover for greed by both America and Israel. Trying to white wash murder with "but my religion" is ridiculous.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 09:08

SmallDFartyCarNRG · Yesterday 09:06

I am actually really appreciating the less extreme views of posters who are Jewish on here, it enables discussion and thoughtful dialogue.
For me adaption and change is inevitable as the human race. If you focus on the past you don't move forward. I think it would be interesting to know what the more right wing Jews feel about Russia and Ukraine, for example.

I was disgusted with Trump's casino strip plans for the WB and am amazed Israel wasn't angered by that, which showed exactly what this war is all about, a land grab for profit. The fake facts and religion is a cover for greed by both America and Israel. Trying to white wash murder with "but my religion" is ridiculous.

How dare persecuted Jews feel so extreme about it.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 09:09

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