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Hairdresser is running late and I have a flight to catch!

251 replies

idonthavetimeforthisrn · Today 08:53

I’m booked into my hairdressers first appointment of the day. I arrived ten minutes early and they’ve told me she’s running late as she got out of bed late!

She is very much aware of the fact I have a flight to catch. I booked this a lot with the explicit reason of it being because I have a flight this afternoon. She put a note on my record to say I was getting a flight.

What do I do?! AIBU to walk out if it gets to nine and she’s not ready?

OP posts:
Holidaymodeon · Today 13:29

Of course you walk out. What a weird question. What if people said no, stay there and wait, would you have missed your flight?
it’s bloody annoying but it’s nothing you can change.
cba to read the full thread, ignore me if you sorted it

SereneGoose · Today 13:30

Does your hair look lovely? I hope you have a great holiday.

ChakaKan · Today 13:39

Holidaymodeon · Today 13:29

Of course you walk out. What a weird question. What if people said no, stay there and wait, would you have missed your flight?
it’s bloody annoying but it’s nothing you can change.
cba to read the full thread, ignore me if you sorted it

OP wouldn’t have missed her flight because she is already allowing 3-5 business days to arrive at the airport

concertinacornflake · Today 13:42

idonthavetimeforthisrn · Today 10:05

To be fair I’ve been going here for a decade. Never, ever had this issue before.

Well that's the thing with unexpected issues, they're unexpected.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · Today 13:42

FoodieDench · Today 12:34

It's WIGGLE room, people!

Actually both are perfectly valid forms, with wiggle room more common in American English whilst wriggle room appears more frequently in British English.

No need to correct me incorrectly.

AlinaRawlings · Today 14:08

idonthavetimeforthisrn · Today 08:57

Flight is this evening at 7. It can be anywhere from 2 to 4 hours to the airport, the appointment is meant to be 2 hours and so I was supposed to be leaving for the airport at 11.

You were leaving at 11am to go the airport for a 7pm flight? Is that right? How far away do you live from the airport? I’d be aiming to get the airport for 4 if it was me, I’ve never missed a flight

PrettyLittleRose · Today 14:15

idonthavetimeforthisrn · Today 13:14

Yes, I’ve not said the actual airport because I don’t want to out myself!

Happy holidays! Grin

Blondeshavemorefun · Today 14:15

idonthavetimeforthisrn · Today 11:14

I’m out! Christ that was stressful

So 15m later

so a lot of stress over nothing

assume suitcase is in car and now driving to airport or maybe even at airport if 2hrs from 11.15 and now it’s 3

PrettyLittleRose · Today 14:24

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · Today 13:42

Actually both are perfectly valid forms, with wiggle room more common in American English whilst wriggle room appears more frequently in British English.

No need to correct me incorrectly.

This. ^ 'Wiggle room' and 'wriggle room' are both valid.

I say wriggle room, and will continue to say it. Smile

ifonly4 · Today 14:25

Anyone who travels on the M5 anywhere past Stroud, knows it can be a complete nightmare. A 2.15 hour journey took us twice as long a few weeks ago. Admittedly it was a Sunday, but a couple of weeks ago a 1hr15mins journey had an hour added to it with constant slow moving traffic.

Shefliesonherownwings · Today 14:35

This is nuts. Even if it was 4 hours travel to the airport, you’d be there by 3pm, 4 hours early! Why do you need to be there that early??

Ezzee · Today 14:36

AuntieBiotics · Today 12:56

Yes, very dramatic.

You quite obviously have no clue what these 2 motorways in that area are like, so why comment?
They are a fucking nightmare on a 'normal' day let alone a BH weekend, so not dramatic at all! I do these every day and it can take anything from 1 1/2 to the longest it took me 6 1/2 hours!

Pistachiocake · Today 14:39

AuntieBiotics · Today 09:01

She has enough wriggle room for a 4 hour hair appointment. At least.

Don't some take this long now. I don't dye my hair, but I keep hearing they do it differently and it takes much longer than in the past (but it's apparently less painful and safer for your hair).
If it is an appointment that'll take a while OP, I'd just leave, and she's cheeky if she charges you for cancelling when you were clear you needed to leave at X time. No one made her commit to that, and if you'd slept in, she wouldn't rearrange her day for you.
If you're going for a sun/swim holiday, hairdressers say you're better getting colour treatments done after the holiday, not before, but if it's only a cut, don't suppose it matters much either way.

AuntieBiotics · Today 14:39

Ezzee · Today 14:36

You quite obviously have no clue what these 2 motorways in that area are like, so why comment?
They are a fucking nightmare on a 'normal' day let alone a BH weekend, so not dramatic at all! I do these every day and it can take anything from 1 1/2 to the longest it took me 6 1/2 hours!

OP is being vague what motorways she is even talking about because saying what airport she is going to would be "outing". 🙄 So we have no clue what motorways she is even talking about. Still, aiming to arrive 4-6 hours early for a flight is excessive in anyone's book.

ifonly4 · Today 14:44

AuntieBiotics · Today 14:39

OP is being vague what motorways she is even talking about because saying what airport she is going to would be "outing". 🙄 So we have no clue what motorways she is even talking about. Still, aiming to arrive 4-6 hours early for a flight is excessive in anyone's book.

OP told us further up it was the M5, so we're sure of that!

Ezzee · Today 14:45

AuntieBiotics · Today 14:39

OP is being vague what motorways she is even talking about because saying what airport she is going to would be "outing". 🙄 So we have no clue what motorways she is even talking about. Still, aiming to arrive 4-6 hours early for a flight is excessive in anyone's book.

Ummm M5 then saying Cardiff sort of gives you an idea!!

Blondeshavemorefun · Today 14:46

Yes one would hope be there by now as 3.5hrs since she left

I do get leaving early. I said the same about Gatwick. You just don’t know esp at j5/6 and always accidents there and tailbacks

so I prefer to get there early rather then worry

a friend last month almost missed her plane as m25 shut so had to go via back roads and a20/25 (if know the area and local) and took an extra hour on top of her hour to travel

the last passengers. Name called and walk of shame onto the plane / but least she didn’t miss it

but very almost did

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · Today 14:47

PrettyLittleRose · Today 14:24

This. ^ 'Wiggle room' and 'wriggle room' are both valid.

I say wriggle room, and will continue to say it. Smile

Me too.
Imagine being so confident that you don’t even bother to check you’re right before “correcting” someone.

SewYellowLikeButter · Today 14:54

idonthavetimeforthisrn · Today 08:57

Flight is this evening at 7. It can be anywhere from 2 to 4 hours to the airport, the appointment is meant to be 2 hours and so I was supposed to be leaving for the airport at 11.

You were going to leave 8 hours before your flight? Why?

Flight at 7, 2.5 hours for airport is 4.30. Even with a 4 hour drive you could leave at 12.30.

AuntieBiotics · Today 15:03

Ezzee · Today 14:45

Ummm M5 then saying Cardiff sort of gives you an idea!!

Edited

No, OP says "Yes, I’ve not said the actual airport because I don’t want to out myself!" So it could be pretty much anywhere.

Doubtanny · Today 15:08

idonthavetimeforthisrn · Today 13:14

Yes, I’ve not said the actual airport because I don’t want to out myself!

😂😂😂😂

That is how you finish with a flourish

AnneShirleyBlythe · Today 15:16

notimagain · Today 13:17

Know what you mean but this three hour rule seems to have traction on MN...might be due to all the hoo haa around flights ex-Europe earlier this summer.

It also doesn't help that some airports cover their backsides by recommending three hours for reasons, various, including getting passengers to spend money airside

In the real world at many airports bag drop/physical check-in won't open until maybe three or even two hours prior to departure, and the desks won't close until (for shorthaul) an hour to go, maybe less at many places.

Any time I’ve arrived at an airport over 2 hours before flight time the check in desk hasn’t even been open! What do people do for hours if they have check in luggage? Just sit about waiting?

EmmaStone · Today 15:31

I'm so invested in this (and the thread the other day about the person who had a 1.5-2 hr drive to Bristol airport for an evening flight and was going to leave at the crack of dawn. Could they be the same poster?

Anyway, I hope they both make their flights and can relax into their holidays.

VickyEadie · Today 15:57

3luckystars · Today 09:54

Do you know anyone working at the airport? If it’s taking too long, maybe they could help you out. Ask them to wait.

Oh, mate....!

😂

Sereine · Today 16:01

Why on earth didn't you get your hair done earlier in the week? I don't think I would ever want to risk it if I were in your position.

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