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AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK? PART 2

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CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 11:09

'Don't rape, sexually assault or make kissing noises' at people, asylum seekers warned in guidance about living in UK

UK arrivals have been told to treat women equally, not sexually assault partners or have sex with children in a new Home Office pamphlet. As well as the guidebook, a series of posters have also been designed by the government.'

https://news.sky.com/story/asylum-seekers-warned-not-to-make-kissing-sounds-at-people-in-new-guidance-about-living-in-uk-13574744

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EvelynBeatrice · 28/08/2026 11:03

DebbieSavage · 28/08/2026 10:54

Well that sounds like an absolute nightmare place to me. Where is all the good food? How are the medical institutions able to function without bringing in millions of skilled workers from Sudan, Eritrea and Afghanistan? What about the culture? Without immigration there is no culture, certainly not in Europe anyway, we don't have a culture. How are the Polish community supposed to better themselves if they don't have people living there from another country telling them their culture is offensive?

No, this is terrible. The very thought makes me shudder with dread at what that could mean for our country if we were to adopt such retrograde policies.

In Europe ‘we don’t have a culture’?!!!

Ignoring the huge weight of European history, the Enlightenment, science and art, this thread alone identifies clear aspects of British culture - the cultural norms that women are supposed to be human beings, free to go out and leave home wearing whatever they like, to work , to own property, to reject men, to decide if or with whom they have sex, whether they have children, to pursue personal health and happiness in the same way as men. - all without being abused by random men.

EvelynBeatrice · 28/08/2026 11:04

Sorry, I realise now that you were being ironic! Late night and sleepy. I swear it’s hard to tell. Your post aligns to so much of what I’ve heard.

GunnelVallquist · 28/08/2026 11:13

EvelynBeatrice · 28/08/2026 11:04

Sorry, I realise now that you were being ironic! Late night and sleepy. I swear it’s hard to tell. Your post aligns to so much of what I’ve heard.

That’s the scary bit, isn’t it?

That there are people who feel like this (and say it out loud).

5MinuteArgument · 28/08/2026 11:23

GunnelVallquist · 28/08/2026 11:13

That’s the scary bit, isn’t it?

That there are people who feel like this (and say it out loud).

Yes, practically every person who works for the BBC has this mindset. Also the rest of the MSM.

British culture = non-existant, naff, boring.
White British people = gammon, oppressors, boring,

I've worked with and know a lot of people who have this as their default position.

CoventryCity · 28/08/2026 11:43

EvelynBeatrice · 28/08/2026 10:50

It’s not just Eastern Europe. Denmark has a different attitude to many. The Danes believe they’re the best country in the world and if you live there you learn Danish quickly and abide by their laws and cultural norms. Seems fair enough to me.

That's great. Wasn't it Denmark who first introduced the deport migrants to Rwanda type plan, which Sunak tried to implement but which Starmer cancelled. Even though it had already been paid millions for... and which was shown to be working?

Denmark do have immigrant sex crime issues, like the rest of Europe.

https://europeanconservative.com/articles/news/non-western-immigrants-commit-one-third-of-rapes-and-violent-crimes-in-denmark/

Non-Western Immigrants Commit One-Third of Rapes and Violent Crimes in Denmark

29.6% of the country’s violent crimes and 32.4% of rapes are committed by perpetrators from a non-Western background, despite only making up 10.6% of the po ...

https://europeanconservative.com/articles/news/non-western-immigrants-commit-one-third-of-rapes-and-violent-crimes-in-denmark/

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CoventryCity · 28/08/2026 11:45

Denmark

'Non-Western immigrants and their descendants are vastly overrepresented in Danish crime statistics.

Citing numbers from the Ministry of Justice, Berlingske reports that non-Western immigrants, who make up 8.4% of the Danish population, commit 14% of the country’s crimes of aggravated violence and 24.3% of the rapes, judging by number of convicted.

Maybe even more concerning are the figures for second-generation non-Western immigrants. Making up a mere 2.2% of the population, this demographic is responsible for 15.6% of the violent crimes and 8.1% of the rapes.

Put together, this means perpetrators of 29.6% of the country’s violent crimes and 32.4% of rapes are from a non-Western background, despite only making up 10.6% of the population.'

Wonder if they hand out leaflets to the asylum seekers, asking them to not rape the locals.

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GunnelVallquist · 28/08/2026 12:08

CoventryCity · 28/08/2026 11:45

Denmark

'Non-Western immigrants and their descendants are vastly overrepresented in Danish crime statistics.

Citing numbers from the Ministry of Justice, Berlingske reports that non-Western immigrants, who make up 8.4% of the Danish population, commit 14% of the country’s crimes of aggravated violence and 24.3% of the rapes, judging by number of convicted.

Maybe even more concerning are the figures for second-generation non-Western immigrants. Making up a mere 2.2% of the population, this demographic is responsible for 15.6% of the violent crimes and 8.1% of the rapes.

Put together, this means perpetrators of 29.6% of the country’s violent crimes and 32.4% of rapes are from a non-Western background, despite only making up 10.6% of the population.'

Wonder if they hand out leaflets to the asylum seekers, asking them to not rape the locals.

People don’t want to hear it though.

It doesn’t matter how many stats or articles you post, it doesn’t matter that it’s clear to see that other countries that took a different stance back in the day don’t have those problems…they just don’t want to hear it.

smallglassbottle · 28/08/2026 12:40

DebbieSavage · 28/08/2026 10:54

Well that sounds like an absolute nightmare place to me. Where is all the good food? How are the medical institutions able to function without bringing in millions of skilled workers from Sudan, Eritrea and Afghanistan? What about the culture? Without immigration there is no culture, certainly not in Europe anyway, we don't have a culture. How are the Polish community supposed to better themselves if they don't have people living there from another country telling them their culture is offensive?

No, this is terrible. The very thought makes me shudder with dread at what that could mean for our country if we were to adopt such retrograde policies.

Perhaps the EU sends them leaflets 😂

38thparallel · 28/08/2026 14:03

The Danes believe they’re the best country in the world and if you live there you learn Danish quickly and abide by their laws and cultural norms

@EvelynBeatrice what happens if migrants in Denmark don’t learn the language?

5MinuteArgument · 28/08/2026 14:22

38thparallel · 28/08/2026 14:03

The Danes believe they’re the best country in the world and if you live there you learn Danish quickly and abide by their laws and cultural norms

@EvelynBeatrice what happens if migrants in Denmark don’t learn the language?

Then they're on their own. There isn't a huge interpreter/ translation service provided for them like in the UK. Another big racket and another pull factor.

38thparallel · 28/08/2026 14:31

@5MinuteArgument ah ok. Yes the interpreter service in UK costs millions. I thought interpreters were supposed to be replaced by A1 translators but no doubt the immigrant interpreter providers are another racket with secure jobs.

BubbleAndLeek · 28/08/2026 14:39

EvelynBeatrice · 28/08/2026 11:03

In Europe ‘we don’t have a culture’?!!!

Ignoring the huge weight of European history, the Enlightenment, science and art, this thread alone identifies clear aspects of British culture - the cultural norms that women are supposed to be human beings, free to go out and leave home wearing whatever they like, to work , to own property, to reject men, to decide if or with whom they have sex, whether they have children, to pursue personal health and happiness in the same way as men. - all without being abused by random men.

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She's being sarcastic on purpose

NancyThompson · 28/08/2026 15:23

Another sickening case

https://archive.is/zcmYb

GunnelVallquist · 28/08/2026 15:31

NancyThompson · 28/08/2026 15:23

Another sickening case

https://archive.is/zcmYb

But, but, but…white men rape too!

Most of them are fleeing persecution and want to build a life over here and contribute to society in a meaningful way!

You are far more at risk of being harmed by a British man than an asylum seeker!

What did I forget?

DebbieSavage · 28/08/2026 15:32

GunnelVallquist · 28/08/2026 15:31

But, but, but…white men rape too!

Most of them are fleeing persecution and want to build a life over here and contribute to society in a meaningful way!

You are far more at risk of being harmed by a British man than an asylum seeker!

What did I forget?

Racist!

CoventryCity · 28/08/2026 16:13

GunnelVallquist · 28/08/2026 15:31

But, but, but…white men rape too!

Most of them are fleeing persecution and want to build a life over here and contribute to society in a meaningful way!

You are far more at risk of being harmed by a British man than an asylum seeker!

What did I forget?

You forgot that they are all doctors / lawyers / teachers / accountants / dentists.

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NancyThompson · 28/08/2026 17:08

A tweet with some pertinant stats in a nice little graph

x.com/Smirkley/status/2093342477591707883

EasternStandard · 28/08/2026 17:17

Perhaps the new data thread will last this time. Not sure why the other one was deleted.

The yanbu is high which is good. The posts oth will be pro Labour.

BlueFahrenheit · 28/08/2026 18:06

These men need to be castrated at once. I would volunteer to assist with the snipping.

smallglassbottle · 30/08/2026 08:49

Presumably the doctor had a scalpel and the engineers carry blowtorches?

NancyThompson · 30/08/2026 08:51

smallglassbottle · 30/08/2026 08:49

Presumably the doctor had a scalpel and the engineers carry blowtorches?

Ah, that'll be it.
I'm so glad these men get to wander the streets.

smallglassbottle · 30/08/2026 08:54

NancyThompson · 30/08/2026 08:51

Ah, that'll be it.
I'm so glad these men get to wander the streets.

Absolutely. Don't forget they'll also be propping up social care and the NHS whilst paying vast amounts of tax to support those pesky boomers 😊

NullaEffugium · 30/08/2026 08:58

NancyThompson · 28/08/2026 17:08

A tweet with some pertinant stats in a nice little graph

x.com/Smirkley/status/2093342477591707883

Those aren’t stats. They are raw data directly compared which makes it invalid for any statistical use. He even admits it in his reference area- unadjusted for sex or age. We discussed this chart up thread.

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