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AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK? PART 2

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CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 11:09

'Don't rape, sexually assault or make kissing noises' at people, asylum seekers warned in guidance about living in UK

UK arrivals have been told to treat women equally, not sexually assault partners or have sex with children in a new Home Office pamphlet. As well as the guidebook, a series of posters have also been designed by the government.'

https://news.sky.com/story/asylum-seekers-warned-not-to-make-kissing-sounds-at-people-in-new-guidance-about-living-in-uk-13574744

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DebbieSavage · 27/08/2026 18:20

5MinuteArgument · 27/08/2026 18:03

by dint of these men being in the UK, the poor women of these countries will now be spared the potential of being attacked by these individuals?

So the women of the UK can be attacked instead. Big fat no thank you.

it's only fair we take our fair share of detritus too.

No it isn't fair. It isn't fair at all.

What makes us any more deserving of safety and prosperity than any other woman in the world? It really is such a selfish attitude you possess. As a middle class woman, I am more than prepared to have a few working class British women suffer so that other women across the world can feel a little safer at night. That is what it means to be a good person.

Shame on you.

5MinuteArgument · 27/08/2026 18:23

DebbieSavage · 27/08/2026 18:20

What makes us any more deserving of safety and prosperity than any other woman in the world? It really is such a selfish attitude you possess. As a middle class woman, I am more than prepared to have a few working class British women suffer so that other women across the world can feel a little safer at night. That is what it means to be a good person.

Shame on you.

Ah, you're being ironic. I get it.

It's hard to tell as I actually know people who think like this!

GunnelVallquist · 27/08/2026 18:29

5MinuteArgument · 27/08/2026 18:23

Ah, you're being ironic. I get it.

It's hard to tell as I actually know people who think like this!

😁

CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 18:47

https://archive.ph/pYlCL Archive link

A summary of our 2 threads. Without the pitiful but what about our own Nigel rapists comments.

Britain is no longer safe for women and children

The government is prioritising the rights of violent foreign criminals over the protection of our most vulnerable. Why aren’t we angrier?

There is no longer any room for doubt that violent and sexual attacks on British women, girls and children by illegal migrants and other men from misogynist cultures are shrugged off as collateral damage by a Government that refuses....to protect them.

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The MoJ must release the statistics showing criminal convictions broken down by offenders’ nationalities. We will not cease till our borders are secured, and the safety of women and children will be the priority going forward and forever after. Not the rights of illegal aliens, who are strangers to our humanity. We are living through one of the greatest betrayals of the British people in our history. Why aren’t we angrier? I know I am. Are you?

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2026/08/25/britain-no-longer-safe-women-children/

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CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 18:55

5MinuteArgument · 27/08/2026 17:53

Yes, I think the women who support ever greater numbers of men coming from Afghanistan, Sudan, Eritrea etc don't see them as a threat to their children. They think it's just far right propaganda and they see white British men as the main threat to their DDs.

Yes. And they'll never pay the price for their virtue signalling and luxury beliefs - at least - they don't consider that they will. They risk nothing (they think) so can champion anything and earn status points.

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CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 19:36

https://archive.ph/2Zcvr

archive version of above

Number of foreign criminals on Britain's streets who should be deported reaches record levels - as amount of migrants applying to settle in UK hits 16-year high

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NullaEffugium · 27/08/2026 19:55

Britain is no longer safe for women and children
Only the most sheltered would believe that Britain has ever been safe for women and children.

The government is prioritising the rights of violent foreign criminals over the protection of our most vulnerable. Why aren’t we angrier?
I’m angry because the government has cut police manpower, training and funding since 2010 despite the population growing which is now causing the entirely predictable general increase in violent crime by criminals of all backgrounds. My question is why were you not angry sooner? Why are you only angry now OP when there is a non British scapegoat being stitched up by populist far right politicians? It’s all a bit not my Nigel or Bob at the pub, it’s those funny looking men with strange accents isn’t it?

NancyThompson · 27/08/2026 19:59

@CoventryCity thanks very much for doing that.

CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 19:59

How delightful! Lucky communities.

'The number of foreign criminals on Britain's streets who are subject to deportation has jumped by more than 2,000 in a year in the wake of Labour's soft justice measures.

Home Office figures show 21,294 foreign national offenders were living free in the community in the year to June 2026, up from 18,993 a year earlier.
The increase was blamed on the impact of Labour's Sentencing Act, which has seen thousands of criminals released early under a bid to combat prison overcrowding.

The number of foreign criminals awaiting deportation stood at 17,677 at the time of the General Election.

Today's figures revealed the number of asylum seekers living outside hotels has exceeded 73,000.'

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smallglassbottle · 27/08/2026 20:00

NullaEffugium · 27/08/2026 19:55

Britain is no longer safe for women and children
Only the most sheltered would believe that Britain has ever been safe for women and children.

The government is prioritising the rights of violent foreign criminals over the protection of our most vulnerable. Why aren’t we angrier?
I’m angry because the government has cut police manpower, training and funding since 2010 despite the population growing which is now causing the entirely predictable general increase in violent crime by criminals of all backgrounds. My question is why were you not angry sooner? Why are you only angry now OP when there is a non British scapegoat being stitched up by populist far right politicians? It’s all a bit not my Nigel or Bob at the pub, it’s those funny looking men with strange accents isn’t it?

Off you pop to Afghanistan on your holidays. Don't forget to pack your crop tops and shorts.

GunnelVallquist · 27/08/2026 20:02

smallglassbottle · 27/08/2026 20:00

Off you pop to Afghanistan on your holidays. Don't forget to pack your crop tops and shorts.

👏

Well said!

EasternStandard · 27/08/2026 20:05

NullaEffugium · 27/08/2026 19:55

Britain is no longer safe for women and children
Only the most sheltered would believe that Britain has ever been safe for women and children.

The government is prioritising the rights of violent foreign criminals over the protection of our most vulnerable. Why aren’t we angrier?
I’m angry because the government has cut police manpower, training and funding since 2010 despite the population growing which is now causing the entirely predictable general increase in violent crime by criminals of all backgrounds. My question is why were you not angry sooner? Why are you only angry now OP when there is a non British scapegoat being stitched up by populist far right politicians? It’s all a bit not my Nigel or Bob at the pub, it’s those funny looking men with strange accents isn’t it?

As well as the holiday suggested by @smallglassbottleyou sound like a good contender for mass accommodation barracks nearby to you. Labour are struggling with that so you could help them out.

CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 20:08

Norway 2016.. I wonder what current data shows

Norway’s asylum seeker rape epidemic continues to spread

There have been twice as many rapes committed in Oslo so far this year as in the whole of 2010, nearly all of them by immigrants, Oslo Police statistics have revealed.

A huge influx in immigration into the city has seen the number of rapes go up by a shocking 84 percent in the past decade, and by 20 percent in the last three years alone.

Last Saturday 300 people marched through the streets of Oslo in a torch-lit demonstration against rape called ‘From fear to action – Take back the night’, protesting about their lack of safety.

However, despite the police deploying 20 extra officers at the weekend, six more rapes and sexual assaults were reported by Monday.

On Saturday evening, two 16-year-old girls were raped at the Oslo S train station. Five men aged 16–20 from Afghanistan and Pakistan were arrested.

Another woman was raped in Slottsparken, just metres away from Norway’s royal palace. The 20-year-old described one of her two attackers as ‘dark-skinned and round in the face’. On Sunday morning a 17-year-old girl was found naked in the street after running from an attacker in her flat.

The same morning, an 18-year-old woman was raped by two men in Vaterlandsparken, and a 20-year-old woman reported a taxi driver who tried to force her to perform oral sex on him in his car.

Another rape attempt and a mugging of a woman took place in the district of Bislett. A newspaper report said men from Sri Lanka and Iran were arrested.
The huge overrepresentation of foreign rapists in Oslo and other Norwegian towns has become so undeniable it has prompted mainstream politicians to speak out on the problem.

www.norwaynews.com/norways-asylum-seeker-rape-epidemic-continues-to-spread/

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CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 20:16

NancyThompson · 27/08/2026 19:59

@CoventryCity thanks very much for doing that.

Well - it's text from the article I posted. Basically the same as our posts! I think she's been reading them ; )

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DebbieSavage · 27/08/2026 20:16

NullaEffugium · 27/08/2026 19:55

Britain is no longer safe for women and children
Only the most sheltered would believe that Britain has ever been safe for women and children.

The government is prioritising the rights of violent foreign criminals over the protection of our most vulnerable. Why aren’t we angrier?
I’m angry because the government has cut police manpower, training and funding since 2010 despite the population growing which is now causing the entirely predictable general increase in violent crime by criminals of all backgrounds. My question is why were you not angry sooner? Why are you only angry now OP when there is a non British scapegoat being stitched up by populist far right politicians? It’s all a bit not my Nigel or Bob at the pub, it’s those funny looking men with strange accents isn’t it?

You're wasting your time trying to get through to these people. They are already obsessed with racist dogwhistles like 'statistics' and 'per capita'. It honestly feels like the days of emotion over logic are coming to an end and I am terrified for what this could mean for a society.

smallglassbottle · 27/08/2026 20:17

EasternStandard · 27/08/2026 20:05

As well as the holiday suggested by @smallglassbottleyou sound like a good contender for mass accommodation barracks nearby to you. Labour are struggling with that so you could help them out.

You can also take one or two into your home 😁 like with the Ukrainians. I wonder how many people are doing this.

CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 20:21

DebbieSavage · 27/08/2026 20:16

You're wasting your time trying to get through to these people. They are already obsessed with racist dogwhistles like 'statistics' and 'per capita'. It honestly feels like the days of emotion over logic are coming to an end and I am terrified for what this could mean for a society.

'It honestly feels like the days of emotion over logic are coming to an end and I am terrified for what this could mean for a society.'

You're a coherent soul aren't you Dave?

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EasternStandard · 27/08/2026 20:28

CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 20:21

'It honestly feels like the days of emotion over logic are coming to an end and I am terrified for what this could mean for a society.'

You're a coherent soul aren't you Dave?

Debs is satirical, hard to tell though on these threads though.

Nuthatch26 · 27/08/2026 20:43

EasternStandard · 27/08/2026 20:28

Debs is satirical, hard to tell though on these threads though.

Yes I remember Deb's satire from another thread.

Perhaps you could reassure other posters on the thread who aren't familiar with you that you are indeed joking @DebbieSavage?

DebbieSavage · 27/08/2026 20:46

I am no joke. You must be talking about a different Debbie Savage hun 😘

Clavinova · 27/08/2026 20:53

NullaEffugium · 27/08/2026 16:44

He would not have been able to do that if we were still part of the EU.

Just saying.

He would not have been able to do that if we were still part of the EU

Why not? He was obviously wandering around France undetained when he crossed the Channel with the help of people smugglers.

Why didn't EU membership stop this man entering the UK?

Homeless man who pushed stranger on to tube tracks jailed for life

Shorsh was first identified in the UK in 2018...

he lost his identity documents after being refused asylum in Germany and then France...
Within months of his arrival in the UK, Shorsh committed a racially aggravated offence of common assault and received a prison sentence of 12 weeks...

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2024/oct/10/homeless-man-who-pushed-stranger-on-to-tube-tracks-jailed-for-life

BubbleAndLeek · 27/08/2026 21:37

Sexual violence in the west happens. It's sad but it happens at lower rates than in Sudan

5MinuteArgument · 27/08/2026 21:40

CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 20:08

Norway 2016.. I wonder what current data shows

Norway’s asylum seeker rape epidemic continues to spread

There have been twice as many rapes committed in Oslo so far this year as in the whole of 2010, nearly all of them by immigrants, Oslo Police statistics have revealed.

A huge influx in immigration into the city has seen the number of rapes go up by a shocking 84 percent in the past decade, and by 20 percent in the last three years alone.

Last Saturday 300 people marched through the streets of Oslo in a torch-lit demonstration against rape called ‘From fear to action – Take back the night’, protesting about their lack of safety.

However, despite the police deploying 20 extra officers at the weekend, six more rapes and sexual assaults were reported by Monday.

On Saturday evening, two 16-year-old girls were raped at the Oslo S train station. Five men aged 16–20 from Afghanistan and Pakistan were arrested.

Another woman was raped in Slottsparken, just metres away from Norway’s royal palace. The 20-year-old described one of her two attackers as ‘dark-skinned and round in the face’. On Sunday morning a 17-year-old girl was found naked in the street after running from an attacker in her flat.

The same morning, an 18-year-old woman was raped by two men in Vaterlandsparken, and a 20-year-old woman reported a taxi driver who tried to force her to perform oral sex on him in his car.

Another rape attempt and a mugging of a woman took place in the district of Bislett. A newspaper report said men from Sri Lanka and Iran were arrested.
The huge overrepresentation of foreign rapists in Oslo and other Norwegian towns has become so undeniable it has prompted mainstream politicians to speak out on the problem.

www.norwaynews.com/norways-asylum-seeker-rape-epidemic-continues-to-spread/

Yes, it's these stats we can look at to get an idea of what the UK stats would look like if the government wasn't busting a gut trying to stop them being published.

The msm don't report these crimes happening in European countries, but we no longer have to rely on the legacy media to find out what's going on.

BunnyRabbitBella · 27/08/2026 21:44

If people want to explore statistics on the prison population look at this...

It gives the proportion of the prison population with regard to ethnic group and religion....

commonslibrary.parliament.uk/research-briefings

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