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To agree with Andy Burnham that it’s about time the middle classes took their fair share

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Morningteacup2 · Yesterday 18:11

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2026/08/11/burnham-middle-class-areas-must-take-more-hotel-migrants/

Not a huge fan of Labour I must say, but this is well overdue!

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Persephonia1966 · Today 15:59

StarieNight · Today 15:49

@Persephonia1966 that link also high lights roma children at risk .

Yes, they are a minority within Hungary and many Easter European countries. They have the triple whammy of being insular/traditional, historically very persecuted, and also extremely poor. They aren't the only children at risk in Hungary but they are specifically at risk. They are also not immigrants (unless you count the fact that Roma originally came from India hundreds of years ago) though are viewed as outsiders by some. Apart from Roma you also have other children at risk because they are in extreme poverty, poverty is the single biggest risk factor. None of that is to do with migration levels into Hungary or Western Europe. Except the fact that many sex trafficked children and adults women end up in places like Amsterdam or London and, hypocritically, some of the men complaining about Muslim grooming gangs don't have the same smoke for white British men paying to stick their penises in unconsenting women and girls. Unfortunately some posters on Mumsnet will have partners who have got up to such activities on stag weekends. But at least they are white I guess so maybe it's less traumatising.

Hypocrisy aside, that's all whataboutery though. It doesn't mean that people shouldn't worry about the safety of women in the UK. But it's relevant when someone holds Hungary up as a "safe" country for women and girls because they limit migration/are right wing. They had a corrupt right wing government for years that was happy to turn a blind eye to the trafficking of vulnerable women and distract with ethno-nationalist dog whistles. There's something wrong with the sort of people who openly praise that and it needs calling out.

LakieLady · Today 15:59

Hellokitty0 · Today 12:08

Have you ever wondered why you choose to live in a non diverse area?

I moved because I didn't want to live in a busy urban environment any longer and wanted to be somewhere more peaceful and with easy acess to countryside. I knew it would be less diverse, but I hadn't realised just how much less diverse it would be.

And it was quite a fluke that I ended up where I am. I applied for 4 jobs in different parts of the country, but this was the one I most wanted, as it was close enough to London for me to pop back for an evening if I wanted to, and close enough for London friends to visit easily. They interviewed quickly and made me an offer straight away, so I cancelled the other interviews.

I could just as easily have ended up in the Yorkshire Dales or Somerset, but they're probably not very diverse either.

TeaAndALittlePeace · Today 16:01

JulietteHasAGun · Today 15:49

Problem for Andy is that when middle class people see these sort of headlines a lot may start voting Reform. 🤷‍♀️. So I’m not sure he isn’t shooting himself in the foot by announcing it. He might have been better off just doing it without making it seem like an official policy type set up.

Yep. You’re right. I’m a life long Tory voter. I didn’t have any intention on voting for Reform because I work in the public sector and Nigel doesn’t appear to think too highly of us. But I have a 9 year old daughter, and her future safety has to come first. So if that means voting Reform next time to get Labour out of Government, then so be it.

Shitshowpolitics · Today 16:01

Paganpentacle · Today 15:54

If that's a problem for Andy he needs to deal with the issue by stopping this wave of mass unwanted economic migration that the taxpayer seemingly has no choice but to fund, whilst simultaneously being told theres not enough money for defence, pensions,NHS.
Then nobody would need to consider voting Reform/Restore.

I actually agree that we need control of our borders and that the asylum system shouldn't be costing billions. Where I disagree is pretending that immigration is the reason Britain can't afford everything else.

We keep arguing amongst ourselves about migrants while avoiding the much bigger question: where is the economic plan? Where is the investment in British workers, skills, apprenticeships, technology, automation, infrastructure and businesses that actually increases productivity and grows the tax base?

Legal migration, asylum seekers and illegal entry aren't interchangeable either. Net migration has already fallen dramatically, yet that hasn't magically fixed the NHS, pensions, defence or our living standards.

By all means stop irregular migration and run a controlled immigration system. But unless Britain becomes more productive and grows its economy, we're still going to be arguing about how to fund public services afterwards. Immigration policy isn't a substitute for an economic strategy.

Somerford · Today 16:01

BermudaRhombus · Today 15:34

Nobody’s arguing that immigration isn’t a serious issue. But the amount of airtime it gets is both disproportionate and counterproductive. A large section of the public has been gaslit and radicalised into thinking that every problem we’re facing is caused by immigration. If people don’t start realising this then we really are doomed.

Oh give over. The belief that mass immigration is bad for us and bad for our country is not the same as believing that EVERY problem we face is because of immigration. There are lots of other problems with lots of other causes, but mass immigration (both legal immigration and asylum seekers) needs to be dealt with as an urgent priority.

If you don't agree then that's fine, vote Greens or Your Party or whatever you were planning to do. And we'll vote for whoever promises to sort out the issues that we deem to be the most urgent.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 16:02

You have to have some kind of self hate to talk about monoculture being something dirty in this country. Pakistan, India, China - are those monocultural places that Brits flock to visit less offensive? This thread gets more entertaining.

Hellokitty0 · Today 16:04

LakieLady · Today 15:59

I moved because I didn't want to live in a busy urban environment any longer and wanted to be somewhere more peaceful and with easy acess to countryside. I knew it would be less diverse, but I hadn't realised just how much less diverse it would be.

And it was quite a fluke that I ended up where I am. I applied for 4 jobs in different parts of the country, but this was the one I most wanted, as it was close enough to London for me to pop back for an evening if I wanted to, and close enough for London friends to visit easily. They interviewed quickly and made me an offer straight away, so I cancelled the other interviews.

I could just as easily have ended up in the Yorkshire Dales or Somerset, but they're probably not very diverse either.

Are you familiar with the term ‘champagne socialist?’

RosesAndPeoniesAndIrises · Today 16:04

Would you care to return to your thread @Morningteacup2? Has it gone the way you expected?

IwouldlikeanewTV · Today 16:05

LakieLady · Today 15:48

It's not a major thing and the positives (beautiful town, countryside on the doorstep, beaches 15 minutes away, peace and quiet) far outweigh the negatives.

But when I moved here 35 years ago, I genuinely didn't realise how monocultural it was until I'd been here a few weeks; and it was a good while before it really sank in how much the monocultural nature of the place was entrenched.

I think that might have been when my neighbour was mildly horrified because we got a new postman who was a Sikh...

That is rubbish. I’ve lived in the home countries for 60 years. 60 years ago we had Sikhs, we had black friends, we had restaurants run by Asians, we had the original boat people from Vietnam. I really do not believe that 30 years ago you moved from Croydon to a place who residents were surprised regarding their postman.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 16:05

RosesAndPeoniesAndIrises · Today 16:04

Would you care to return to your thread @Morningteacup2? Has it gone the way you expected?

It will soon be full. I'm sure one of us can rustle up part 2.

GodDamnitDonut · Today 16:05

AndyKitten · Today 15:58

Well, of course that’s not all!

Really, you ought to be ashamed of yourself

Subscriptions! You forgot the subscriptions.

I’m so glad someone else said it. I was wondering if it was just me thinking every single day when he posts on Fb- yet another mediocre policy that doesn’t change anything important. …or at best will take a decade to implement (mental health support, social care reform).

LakieLady · Today 16:05

ChattyKnickers · Today 12:10

Why do you want diversity? What value does it bring?

I've no idea what you mean by "value" in this context.

I just prefer variety to homogeneity, I guess. And it would be good to be able to get a decent curry without schlepping into the city...

ChattyKnickers · Today 16:07

LakieLady · Today 16:05

I've no idea what you mean by "value" in this context.

I just prefer variety to homogeneity, I guess. And it would be good to be able to get a decent curry without schlepping into the city...

Recipe books are a thing

LuckyHazelFox · Today 16:07

BlackBean2023 · Yesterday 18:20

No I don’t agree. It’s not a race to the bottom.

😆 😆 🤣 how convenient

WhatATimeToBeAlive · Today 16:08

Yeah, put them in leftie strongholds - ie, the ones who don't mind them coming here.

GodDamnitDonut · Today 16:09

LuckyHazelFox · Today 16:02

You have to have some kind of self hate to talk about monoculture being something dirty in this country. Pakistan, India, China - are those monocultural places that Brits flock to visit less offensive? This thread gets more entertaining.

Yes, I was raised in Poland. Very monocultural- what’s wrong with that?

RosesAndPeoniesAndIrises · Today 16:09

LakieLady · Today 16:05

I've no idea what you mean by "value" in this context.

I just prefer variety to homogeneity, I guess. And it would be good to be able to get a decent curry without schlepping into the city...

So many posts on this thread seem to be descending into parody …

smallglassbottle · Today 16:10

LakieLady · Today 16:05

I've no idea what you mean by "value" in this context.

I just prefer variety to homogeneity, I guess. And it would be good to be able to get a decent curry without schlepping into the city...

The cringe is strong 😎

LuckyHazelFox · Today 16:11

GodDamnitDonut · Today 16:09

Yes, I was raised in Poland. Very monocultural- what’s wrong with that?

Absolutely nothing ❤️

ChattyKnickers · Today 16:12

The monoculture of Budapest is amazing. Felt so safe

GunnelVallquist · Today 16:12

GodDamnitDonut · Today 16:09

Yes, I was raised in Poland. Very monocultural- what’s wrong with that?

Absolutely nothing.

What once made Europe so special was that is was made up of individual countries with their own languages, traditions and foods. But they all shared a certain set of values too.

When I look at Europe now I want to cry.

Windsurf · Today 16:12

"Net migration has already fallen dramatically,"

Migration is cumulative It hasn't "fallen". It has built in decades of unproductive cost and the single justification has only ever been to quote you, it grows the economy. It may have grown absolute GDP but it has not grown GDP per capita. Expanding unproductive GDP through immigration for decades is now a fixed cost.

After this 30 year experiment of leveraging immigration the state we are in IS the outcome. Your economic strategy is now scraping around for tax.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 16:12

WhatATimeToBeAlive · Today 16:08

Yeah, put them in leftie strongholds - ie, the ones who don't mind them coming here.

Wonder who prints all those Refugees Welcome here signs.

GunnelVallquist · Today 16:13

LuckyHazelFox · Today 16:11

Absolutely nothing ❤️

Ha, the first line of my post was the exact same two words.

Great minds think alike.

ChattyKnickers · Today 16:13

In many places in London, "multiculturalism" is just a euphemism for an ethnic enclave.

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