To ask if anyone has had a boob job and how it went?

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Please don’t respond by telling me not to do this and reminding me what women are far more than just their bodies because that is obviously true and I know that…. I just want to feel happy and attractive in my own body, and currently I don’t.

I've always had really tiny boobs (28C/30B which actually looks like an A cup) and have always really disliked them. I know it's really silly but I just feel like less of a woman with them being this small. They used to be even smaller when I had anorexia years ago as a teen, they were a 28B (looks like a small A).

I want to be seen as sexy and desirable by the right man and I don’t see that happening with small breasts. Please don’t say sexiness is an attitude because we all know there is a strong visual element to it for men, it’s clear, and boobs are a big draw for them.

I just want some cleavage. Has anyone had breast implants and how did it go?

thanks. X

I get this, but I want to be found physically desirable (“fuckable” in more crude terms) as well.

Breast implants are not necessary for that, I promise.

Thank you, I just really struggle to believe so. :/

That's honestly made me sad for you. I bet you and your boobs are lovely.

We live in a workd that really is damaging towards women's mental health and confidence, and it's a billion dollar industry.

You’re right. Sadly it won’t change anytime soon I fear…

What will happen, I predict, is that you'll get your new bolt on boobs, spend weeks taking painkillers and not being able to move your arms above your head and sleeping on your back, trying to avoid post surgery complications, and then.... it will be your arse. Or your lips. Because men like a big arse to smack you know. And, they love a nice big set of shiny blow job lips..

Who gives a fuck, really. Who gives a fuck about what drives men wild? Honestly, you are on this earth once, and for the blink of an eye, and there are so many other things you could angle yourself towards, than surgically inserting plastic bits into you in the hope of being more fuckable to men.

There isn't an end to this, there's no amount of bits you can add in or chop off that will do the trick. It's an inside job.

What will happen, I predict, is that you'll get your new bolt on boobs, spend weeks taking painkillers and not being able to move your arms above your headOr it could just be morbid curiosity.

I was given two paracetamol post op that I didn’t need because there wasn’t any pain. Those were the only painkillers I took. No problems with my arms. I did have to sleep on my back for about a week.

I do agree with the overall sentiment of your post though.

I agree with your point about plastic surgery addiction, but I’ve never liked the super fake porn look. It’s trashy. I’ve only ever wanted my breasts done (a tasteful augmentation, not space balloons!) because I just have always felt they stopped me from looking sexy and womanly, when the rest of me looks feminine.

Of course there is far more to life than looking sexy to men, and it isn’t my sole purpose or aim. It’s just that I would like a relationship where my boyfriend genuinely finds me desirable.

Thanks for your response.

I had mine done back in 2013 and I’ve since had two children. They are still perfect and amazing and I love them quite frankly! I also was entirely flat chested. This decision was for me, please ignore those who say otherwise.

I had mine over the muscle, and I weight train which keeps tone anyway and I believe that could be why they are still in the same position. I had 345cc’s put in.

good luck