To ask if anyone has had a boob job and how it went?

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Please don’t respond by telling me not to do this and reminding me what women are far more than just their bodies because that is obviously true and I know that…. I just want to feel happy and attractive in my own body, and currently I don’t.

I've always had really tiny boobs (28C/30B which actually looks like an A cup) and have always really disliked them. I know it's really silly but I just feel like less of a woman with them being this small. They used to be even smaller when I had anorexia years ago as a teen, they were a 28B (looks like a small A).

I want to be seen as sexy and desirable by the right man and I don’t see that happening with small breasts. Please don’t say sexiness is an attitude because we all know there is a strong visual element to it for men, it’s clear, and boobs are a big draw for them.

I just want some cleavage. Has anyone had breast implants and how did it go?

thanks. X

Yes because they are exactly the same. 🙄

You absolutely can have a mammogram with implants.

Things have changed obviously. This was in the 80s .

Off thread, but I had my implants put in 8 years ago and I’ve not had a mammogram since then. I worry about damage to the implants. Have you had any problems? I’m 62.

Is it only men who like larger breasts that you want to attract OP?

I am not at all against surgery, if someone wants it then they should get it.

HOWEVER…do it for YOU and how it makes YOU feel, not because you think a man will like you more for it. Do it only if YOU like yourself more for it, fuck what men think, the right one will love you big or small.

I’ve had 2?

I've explained previously . This was the 80s !

Aren’t you a treat.
I hated mine, caused me so much anxiety
wanted a normal shape, not size

i saved for surgery in the UK at Spire with a respected surgeon..

10 years later my uplift, nipple reduction and small implant are better than ever

I’m not a fool

Your comprehension skills are really lacking.

I‘m glad they made you feel better about yourself, but you can’t think they are good for you? That’s my point.

I’ve seen lots of women posting about their ‘explant’ stories on Instagram too.

OP Id look into fat transfer if you really want something done

I paid.lot.of.money for mine and they were fine for about 6 years. Cut a long uncomfortable story short, developed an infection, paid a lot more money to have them taken out and my original tiny but pert breasts now look like deflated balloons. Massive regrets but not prepared for more unnecessary vanity surgery and more plastic stick in the front of my chest. I would say don't do it and remember that they don't last forever and will need renewing down the line.

I have a close friend who had them in her 20s when she was a dancer and she said they helped her make more money but now she's a mum in her 40s she wishes she'd never done it. They have long expired but she doesn't want the expense and risk of changing them, even removing them is too much and she fears she would have no breasts left if they were completely removed.
I have tiny breasts, not only that but I have hypoplastic breasts so they aren't very attractive in appearance. It has honestly never impacted on my ability to attract male partners or how sexy they find me. My DH is obsessed with them. I decided back in my early twenties that I needed to accept them and not be ashamed or embarrassed and my attitude changed. That's what you need, not surgery.

As someone who has slept with both men and women, large breasts are visually interesting but when you're up close with them they are not as enjoyable as smaller ones. The appearance is less important than the feel and honestly all breasts feel pretty similar. Apart from the fake pair I 'met' once which I did not like at all. They had no malleability and the woman didn't seem to have any real sensation from them.

Most straight men just like boobs. They really aren't fussy about size or shape.

You can have a mammogram, but research has shown that implants can make abnormalities harder to detect.

Instagram has a lot to answer for 😞

She's internalised the belief that men are only attracted to large breasts so if a man is sexually interested in her he must be settling for something below his usual standard. It's sad, and misguided.

I wish I had mine done when I was young. I'm 60 now so I guess I'm probably too old. I'm very slim so small boobs sort of fit with that but there's lots of things I don't wear because I have literally nothing to fill a top out. No man I have ever slept with has seemed remotely bothered though OP but if it would make you feel more confident and you can afford it why not?

Does anyone know the answer to this? I’ve lost weight recently and my boobs have shrunk so was vaguely considering implants, but I’d worry about missing signs of BC.

Mine are AA, and i found them to be an excellent screening tool to weed out the kind of man who prioritises big boobs, those men are not for me! I never had any trouble finding decent men. And I breastfed three children with them. I did wish they were bigger when I was in my early 20s, but grew to love them. Attraction is built on so much more than the size of your breasts. Sorry you feel the way you do. I know you said that comments like this weren’t welcome, but I feel lots of small breasted younger people will read this thread and want to reassure others that there is absolutely nothing wrong with having small breasts!

Be aware that having larger boobs, particularly as you get older, can end up just making you look larger than you are as dresses and tops hang differently

I had it 3 months ago, my only regret is not to have done it years ago after I had all my children.
I did go for a natural shape and size, hardly anyone has noticed, they look great, exactly what I had before having children and breastfeeding. I also had very little pain and was able to go on with my life and go back to work after 5 days.

But you want someone who would have rejected you without a boob job?