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AIBU to worry about large numbers of undocumented men arriving in Spain?

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MaturingCheeseball · 30/07/2026 17:34

Thousands of young men from Morocco and beyond swimming to Spain. Spain obviously has encouraged the problem with their amnesty for existing migrants, but thousands more arriving with no means of support and undocumented is going to cause huge problems. Large numbers will no doubt be ultimately trying to reach the UK.

It’s harsh, but we cannot accept infinite numbers of men.

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nomas · 31/07/2026 17:13

DontBuyAnotherBook · 31/07/2026 17:10

Most places aren't multi cultural because most areas including mine they keep themselves to themselves and don't mix. Perhaps unless people live in these types of areas might be best to be quiet as you don't have experience of living in these places.

So maybe don't keep yourself to yourself?

Go and speak to someone from a different community, they might surprise you and vice versa.

CoffeeCantata · 31/07/2026 17:15

TopPocketFind · 31/07/2026 16:27

Are you blaming the housing crisis on asylum seekers?

Refugees and asylum seekers make up less than 1% of the population.

Applications this year are down by 19%

Don’t be ridiculous. What a pathetic straw man argument!

If you read my post with any level of comprehension you’ll see that I’m asking a simple question. But I never got any answers.

I have a beef with virtue signalling pps who think the UK should welcome all illegal immigrants. How? Where will they live? Where EXACTLY will they live?

You must have heard of the housing crisis and be aware of the vast number of houses being built all over agricultural land around the UK?? And apparently thousands more are still needed. So…where will these people live if we already have a problem accommodating our current population?

Seriously - where?

And the more you house the more will come.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 31/07/2026 17:16

nomas · 31/07/2026 17:13

So maybe don't keep yourself to yourself?

Go and speak to someone from a different community, they might surprise you and vice versa.

Why did you presume I do? It is a simple statement of fact that many do not assimilate or talk to any outside their culture. Funny you blame me though.

AutumnHazel · 31/07/2026 17:17

OneStarAwake · 30/07/2026 18:08

Of course governments are bothered! What an odd thing to say.

I am not sure many Moroccan will come to the UK. They will be more attracted to Spain as it already has a very large Moroccan community.

Yes, they’ll have to cross the Med to mainland Spain. Can’t see the Spanish allowing that… and there wouldn’t be anywhere near enough boats!

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 31/07/2026 17:17

mrshoho · 31/07/2026 16:41

I wish people would realise that in any group of men be they lawyers, drs, binmen, retail workers, young, old, far right, far left there will be a percentage who commit DV. I dont have the exact figures.

This whataboutery. It’s mad. Yes, of course we have our own horrible, abusive men. I don’t get why this is brought up in a way to rationalise letting in undocumented men from misogynistic cultures who have completely different attitudes towards women and gay people to name a couple.

Our own white men are bad anyway so let’s let more in?

Why do you think women don’t visit Afghanistan, Sudan, Eritrea? Why don’t folk go there on holiday?

And why is it only on Mumsnet that people, women, aren’t able to care about more than one issue, at the same time?!

HRTQueen · 31/07/2026 17:17

IcedCoffee26 · 31/07/2026 13:55

The Spanish army are there. The President is there. Repatriation will be expedited. 25.000 have already returned voluntarily to Marruecos. Current estimations are 150 per minute returning voluntarily on foot.

Saying that Spain "brought it on themselves" because we are humane to migrants and don't demonise them is ridiculous.

This is an event which will be handled correctly. It doesn't require hysteria or any such thing.

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The point is that it never should have got to this

Spain were warned. Do you think this will really change the minds of the thousands that will follow

AutumnHazel · 31/07/2026 17:18

TopPocketFind · 31/07/2026 16:27

Are you blaming the housing crisis on asylum seekers?

Refugees and asylum seekers make up less than 1% of the population.

Applications this year are down by 19%

1% is nearly 700,000 - that’s a lot of people to house!

Ohthatsabitshit · 31/07/2026 17:19

Personally I think the issue ISN’T how many come, it’s how slowly we process applications for asylum. If we poured our rage and effort into processing the applications at a sensible rate then those who remained would be the genuine asylum seekers people often claim they “don’t mind” and those they object to (the economic migrants) would be returned.

Persephonia1966 · 31/07/2026 17:21

mrshoho · 31/07/2026 16:33

And the paltry number of actual prosecutions following the cologne mass sexual assaults is/was shameful. That night changed how Germany and other western countries put on large scale gatherings. The sorry excuses of why it happened was maddening. The men thought unaccompanied girls and women in public meant they wanted it. It is quite unbelievable how it has been quietly confined to history.

Cologne was unforgivable, but the paltry prosecutions almost certainly wasn't because the people committing the assaults were migrants and therefore given special treatment. Germany has a history of being really bad at prosecuting rape/sexual assault and giving incredibly low sentences when they do convict someone. There are all sorts of reasons for this. See also the very "see no evil" approach to the sex trafficking which feeds German brothels, and the huge increase in demand that things like the world cup caused. That included British men buying package "all orifice" deals. The Romanian/Eastern European women who see multiple clients every night and in many cases didn't even know they would be doing that work prior to arrival in Germany are women just the same as the women assaulted in Cologne.

None of that excuses what happened then. But pretending this is an isolated problem with migrants only is putting your head in the clouds a bit. The Cologne assaults were portrayed as terrible by the right because it was public, and affected the wrong type of women in their eyes. None of them give a damn about the right kind of woman going through the same (and worse) experiences behind closed doors. I'm perfectly happy for the migrant assaulters to be put in a trebuchet and fired back to their countries of origin. But pretending it's only a migrant problem gets in the way of actually stopping the secual exploitation of vulnerable women.

mtobrokeme · 31/07/2026 17:22

DontBuyAnotherBook · 31/07/2026 17:12

Please stop romantising these multi cultural areas.

They won’t. Their tiny liberal brains simply cannot compute that it isn’t working! There is no Multi-Cultural utopia. Instead, due to their inability to see past what they’re led to believe, by their chosen outlets, that it is a fantastic ideal of cultures living, working and getting along magnificently, they simply label anyone else, with differing experiences, racist, xenophobic or bigoted. It’s tiring and it’s lazy.

SpaceRaccoon · 31/07/2026 17:24

Ohthatsabitshit · 31/07/2026 17:19

Personally I think the issue ISN’T how many come, it’s how slowly we process applications for asylum. If we poured our rage and effort into processing the applications at a sensible rate then those who remained would be the genuine asylum seekers people often claim they “don’t mind” and those they object to (the economic migrants) would be returned.

But there's certain countries, eg Afghanistan or Sudan, where nearly all claims are accepted. And men from these countries are a DISASTER for women. Processing them any quicker isn't going to reassure me.

inamarina · 31/07/2026 17:26

DontBuyAnotherBook · 31/07/2026 17:10

Most places aren't multi cultural because most areas including mine they keep themselves to themselves and don't mix. Perhaps unless people live in these types of areas might be best to be quiet as you don't have experience of living in these places.

I’ve seen people make a distinction between ‘multicultural’ and ‘multiethnic’, point being that while the latter can describe a cohesive society where people from different backgrounds share the values of the country in question, a ‘multicultural’ society can mean separate groups living alongside each other without interacting much or even creating parallel communities.

EppingTrain · 31/07/2026 17:28

I think about Brexit sometimes and I tell myself at least now we have the power to deny entry .. who knows what will happen in a few years if a nation decides to actually give them citizenship and EU free movement.

EppingTrain · 31/07/2026 17:29

Go to Whitechapel.... Tell me does the area feel English or feel like you're in England?

TopPocketFind · 31/07/2026 17:29

Ukraine warns against Russian disinformation seeking to exploit migration crisis in Ceuta

Ukrainian foreign minister Andrii Sybiha has warned against a “an intensive Russian propaganda campaign across Europe using pictures from Ceuta to sow destabilisation.”

“There have been more than 1,500 publications on outlets identified by analysts as a pro-Russian network, led by Pravda and RT. Pravda Spanish has posted almost 300 of them. Every language edition of RT has pushed more than 25 news items on the issue.”

He added:

“For years, Moscow has used migration and other sensitive topics to stoke fear and destabilise European countries.

This is not about the situation itself, but about the way Russia tries to exploit any topic that can benefit its agenda. The only way to protect the public from this interference is to cut it off.

All Russian propaganda resources should be completely banned in every European country that takes its national security seriously.”

DoraSpenlow · 31/07/2026 17:30

nomas · 31/07/2026 17:13

So maybe don't keep yourself to yourself?

Go and speak to someone from a different community, they might surprise you and vice versa.

That went well for my elderly cousin. He was cutting his back lawn and went to introduce himself over the garden fence to the two new ladies who had moved in next door. Within seconds the men of the house were out to tell him , aggressively, that he was not to speak to the women as he was not from their culture. An 8 foot fence was erected shortly after. He and his wife eventually ended up being the only non-Asian household in their cul-de-sac. They had neighbours constantly asking to buy their house because "surely you don't want to be the only white people" . Yeah, that went really well.

mrshoho · 31/07/2026 17:34

OneStarAwake · 31/07/2026 16:46

20% of those arrested during the Southport riots.

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Thank you, yes I agree quite a number of the rioters were there for the thrill of being violent. What I also know is that on the other side where those anti protesters were demonstrating, and in the large numbers of police present, and in the mosque communities present there will also have been a large number of men who have also committed dv. I make no excuse for any of them.

inamarina · 31/07/2026 17:34

Ohthatsabitshit · 31/07/2026 17:19

Personally I think the issue ISN’T how many come, it’s how slowly we process applications for asylum. If we poured our rage and effort into processing the applications at a sensible rate then those who remained would be the genuine asylum seekers people often claim they “don’t mind” and those they object to (the economic migrants) would be returned.

How easy is it to return people though? In some cases it might be not even clear where they came from, and you would also need agreements with their home countries to take them
back.
Just did a quick google:

Under international law, a country cannot simply put someone on a plane and drop them off in another nation. The receiving country must formally accept them as its citizen and issue emergency travel papers (laissez-passer). Many home countries systematically stall, refuse to cooperate, or lack the bureaucratic infrastructure to process these requests.

EppingTrain · 31/07/2026 17:34

SpaceRaccoon · 31/07/2026 17:24

But there's certain countries, eg Afghanistan or Sudan, where nearly all claims are accepted. And men from these countries are a DISASTER for women. Processing them any quicker isn't going to reassure me.

There was a poster who whilst we said all this and said how horrific VAWG was in those nations and that those men were dangerous just parroted (the still sad) thing "all girls in school in England get harassed by classmates".

Somerford · 31/07/2026 17:34

DoraSpenlow · 31/07/2026 17:30

That went well for my elderly cousin. He was cutting his back lawn and went to introduce himself over the garden fence to the two new ladies who had moved in next door. Within seconds the men of the house were out to tell him , aggressively, that he was not to speak to the women as he was not from their culture. An 8 foot fence was erected shortly after. He and his wife eventually ended up being the only non-Asian household in their cul-de-sac. They had neighbours constantly asking to buy their house because "surely you don't want to be the only white people" . Yeah, that went really well.

Your elderly cousin only has himself to blame, it sounds like those Asians were just playing hard to get and he needed to make more of an effort. Which he'd have gladly done if he wasn't such a fascist. Good thing he's being hounded out of his home, I'd hate for the neighbourhood to have to live alongside a Nazi 🙄

EppingTrain · 31/07/2026 17:36

Somerford · 31/07/2026 17:34

Your elderly cousin only has himself to blame, it sounds like those Asians were just playing hard to get and he needed to make more of an effort. Which he'd have gladly done if he wasn't such a fascist. Good thing he's being hounded out of his home, I'd hate for the neighbourhood to have to live alongside a Nazi 🙄

I assume sarcasm?

JHound · 31/07/2026 17:37

nomas · 31/07/2026 17:13

So maybe don't keep yourself to yourself?

Go and speak to someone from a different community, they might surprise you and vice versa.

It’s weird how people here always assume those of us who have no issue with multi-ethnic / multi-cultural areas have never lived / do not live in them.

inamarina · 31/07/2026 17:37

DoraSpenlow · 31/07/2026 17:30

That went well for my elderly cousin. He was cutting his back lawn and went to introduce himself over the garden fence to the two new ladies who had moved in next door. Within seconds the men of the house were out to tell him , aggressively, that he was not to speak to the women as he was not from their culture. An 8 foot fence was erected shortly after. He and his wife eventually ended up being the only non-Asian household in their cul-de-sac. They had neighbours constantly asking to buy their house because "surely you don't want to be the only white people" . Yeah, that went really well.

Horrible 😞

JHound · 31/07/2026 17:38

DoraSpenlow · 31/07/2026 17:30

That went well for my elderly cousin. He was cutting his back lawn and went to introduce himself over the garden fence to the two new ladies who had moved in next door. Within seconds the men of the house were out to tell him , aggressively, that he was not to speak to the women as he was not from their culture. An 8 foot fence was erected shortly after. He and his wife eventually ended up being the only non-Asian household in their cul-de-sac. They had neighbours constantly asking to buy their house because "surely you don't want to be the only white people" . Yeah, that went really well.

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