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Why does everyone hate us so much ?!

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englandd · Today 08:52

I’m talking about being English, spent alot of time on the cesspit that is Reddit this World Cup and the vast majority absolutely hate England, I known it stems from the British empire but as far as I’m aware it wasn’t just England who were bad back then was it ? I mean Spain and Portugal took a big part in colonialism too but why is it just the English that gets the hate ?
Last night I would’ve been genuinely happy to support Norway if they went through, I can’t imagine hating another nation so badly. Maybe I shouldn’t take it personally 😆

Aibu ? Do we deserve the hate we get from something that happened hundreds of years ago ? For what it’s worth the British empire were ruthless and I don’t celebrate anything they did, but I also don’t think we should be punished still for something that happened so so long ago.

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BackToLurk · Today 18:11

Notimeforaname · Today 18:02

Hideously white??? 😅 🤣

I can’t be held responsible for people’s lack of knowledge of British cultural history.

Miyagi99 · Today 18:11

In2mindsss · Today 17:42

Ironic, considering the word "hooligan" comes from a notorious gang of Irish pissheads who were living "abroad" and trashing their new locality

I meant football hooliganism specifically, not the word itself.

nevernotmaybe · Today 18:12

IPoopRainblows · Today 18:09

Oh behave. The Irish traitors winner was black and there were two of the three finalists were black.

Edited

And that wasn't the example they used to pathetically claim the superiority of Irish society by contrasting TV shows was it?

Ignoring the fact they are manufactured reality, one going for drama one going for stereotypical niceness for different reasons.

Thepeopleversuswork · Today 18:12

MrsPapillon · Today 18:10

It’s a bloody football anthem, it’s supposed to be a bit silly and childish! Vindaloo? Ant & Dec’s “We’re on the ball”? They’re hardly penned by Bob Dylan.

I know but Football’s Coming Home has become a kind of unofficial national anthem.

What can I say? It just makes me cringe.

Differentforgirls · Today 18:12

In2mindsss · Today 14:50

Well maybe you could stop sending your young people to our capital and forcing Londoners to move out of their beautiful city

😱

ThisISmycircusandtheseAREmymonkeys · Today 18:12

BackToLurk · Today 18:10

I’m a bit tired. Late night. There was a match on. Why?

I watched it too, one hour later than you actually, no need to behave like an arse because of it.

I live in a Scandi country, was going for Norway but like everyone else here quite happy when England won and we all wish them well.

Miyagi99 · Today 18:13

BackToLurk · Today 17:50

I bet if you think really hard you’ll be able to work out why football hooliganism ‘originated’ in England.

When you’ve done that you can take a look at hooliganism in South America and in other parts of Europe.

That was a lot later, there were football hooligans in England decades before that.

Goldenbear · Today 18:13

Goditsmemargaret · Today 17:56

I don't drink at all anymore so there you go.

Listen you can work yourself up into whatever level of defensive vitriol you like but the fact remains - the reason the English are unpopular GENERALLY is because you don't do yourselves any favours en masse. It's not some big conspiracy against you. It's that a large cohort behave in an unpleasant way.

If you want a side by side example look at any TV show with the same format but has an English and Irish version; eg. First Dates or Come Dine With Me. You can spot the differences a mile off in how they treat their counterparts. Or even this forum...

I watched the game with Norwegian and Finnish friends last night, I have Danish family, sorry but your sweeping generalisation about what the whole world think of the English is just weirdly smugly ignorant and shows me that you haven't really any idea of the big wide world. Being very white (the Irish) as a team is a valid point, a complete ignorance of English life is causing me secondhand embarrassment.

BackToLurk · Today 18:14

ThisISmycircusandtheseAREmymonkeys · Today 18:12

I watched it too, one hour later than you actually, no need to behave like an arse because of it.

I live in a Scandi country, was going for Norway but like everyone else here quite happy when England won and we all wish them well.

Edited

Are you claiming that Ireland isn’t overwhelmingly white?

Miyagi99 · Today 18:14

nevernotmaybe · Today 17:51

No, football general violence was present in all countries from the birth of the game in each country including Britain. And given it started in Britain, this means if you want to be pedantic football violence (fights starting spontaneously due to results or rivalry) had to start there by default considering that reality.

But for organised "hooliganism", most of the world predates British hooliganism. In many areas by a very, very long time.

But don't let that get in the way of your ignorance and agenda.

I meant football hooliganism specifically.

Goldenbear · Today 18:15

Thepeopleversuswork · Today 18:10

And what? I was responding to posters pointing out that the song was tongue in cheek and self deprecating. I know this. I still find it embarrassing when grown men and women (mainly men) sing it.

But you don't sound like you are interested in football so you don't get it.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 18:15

So in other words, you aren't charging us for living in your head. I would say that's another win for England. We are taking quite a few wins lately. 🏆

HammyHocky · Today 18:16

Thepeopleversuswork · Today 18:12

I know but Football’s Coming Home has become a kind of unofficial national anthem.

What can I say? It just makes me cringe.

No it hasn’t!!! It is the anthem most used during the World Cup, but we aren’t singing it at church or on a casual Tuesday! Our national anthem is shit but we’re not replacing with something written by Baddiel and Skinner for fucks sakes! Not everyone gives a fuck about football, I certainly wouldn’t want it as our national anthem.

BackToLurk · Today 18:16

Miyagi99 · Today 18:13

That was a lot later, there were football hooligans in England decades before that.

Go on. Think really, really hard.

I’ll even give you a clue. Prior to the popularity of video games, no one claimed violent video games caused violent behaviour.

JanesClinic · Today 18:16

Goditsmemargaret · Today 17:56

I don't drink at all anymore so there you go.

Listen you can work yourself up into whatever level of defensive vitriol you like but the fact remains - the reason the English are unpopular GENERALLY is because you don't do yourselves any favours en masse. It's not some big conspiracy against you. It's that a large cohort behave in an unpleasant way.

If you want a side by side example look at any TV show with the same format but has an English and Irish version; eg. First Dates or Come Dine With Me. You can spot the differences a mile off in how they treat their counterparts. Or even this forum...

I didn't enjoy Irish Traitors.

nevernotmaybe · Today 18:17

Miyagi99 · Today 18:14

I meant football hooliganism specifically.

So you are tying to pretend because we called it something different, that makes any point at all and that the same thing already existed is irrelevant . . . . .

x2boys · Today 18:17

Thepeopleversuswork · Today 18:10

And what? I was responding to posters pointing out that the song was tongue in cheek and self deprecating. I know this. I still find it embarrassing when grown men and women (mainly men) sing it.

Its a football anthem thats what people do.

ThisISmycircusandtheseAREmymonkeys · Today 18:19

Goldenbear · Today 18:13

I watched the game with Norwegian and Finnish friends last night, I have Danish family, sorry but your sweeping generalisation about what the whole world think of the English is just weirdly smugly ignorant and shows me that you haven't really any idea of the big wide world. Being very white (the Irish) as a team is a valid point, a complete ignorance of English life is causing me secondhand embarrassment.

Same here. I agree this is just embarrassing. and so, so odd.

x2boys · Today 18:19

HammyHocky · Today 18:16

No it hasn’t!!! It is the anthem most used during the World Cup, but we aren’t singing it at church or on a casual Tuesday! Our national anthem is shit but we’re not replacing with something written by Baddiel and Skinner for fucks sakes! Not everyone gives a fuck about football, I certainly wouldn’t want it as our national anthem.

Tbf it better then God save the king😂

Goldenbear · Today 18:20

BackToLurk · Today 18:14

Are you claiming that Ireland isn’t overwhelmingly white?

Exactly, it just makes me laugh this notion of Englishness from the 1940s. FFS many of us live and are product of multi cultural England that those judging have never known. It's just embarrassing.

Pancakeflipper · Today 18:21

Its because there's an element of people of use football as an excuse to be knobheads. They get violent, they hit people, destroy things, they plan destruction.

Now look at Norway who do pretend rowing... Scotland who charm the hosts etc.

We have a reputation of thuggish behaviour. Whenever we lose there's a fear of rioting.

MrsPapillon · Today 18:22

Thepeopleversuswork · Today 18:12

I know but Football’s Coming Home has become a kind of unofficial national anthem.

What can I say? It just makes me cringe.

To be fair, it probably describes our national feeling far better than a dirge about a King that a good proportion of us don’t even want.

Persephonia1966 · Today 18:23

ThisISmycircusandtheseAREmymonkeys · Today 17:36

Weil to be fair, when you mention (some!) Brits abroad - behaviour on this thread to try to explain a different view, you get slammed. Even it it happened 30 years ago or yesterday.

Men (not all men) can be gross. Especially men visiting Thailand. While I think the Irish have very valid reasons for disliking the English/British if you wouldn't want all the Irish to be judged according to Conner McGregor or certain Irish rugby players (who did far worse than say sleazy things) it's not particularly fair to judge all English people by some men you met in a sleazy bar in a sex tourism and child sex tourism capital (apologies to the lovely Thai people. It's not their fault). I see the same thing in other people who will, on any discussion (be it immigration, the war in Iran), turn it to the time some Moroccan looking men whistled at them.

If you want to find reasons to hate a group of people it's always possible to find some men from said group who behaved badly. Unlike some of the other teams (Japan, sigh) none of the men on the current England team seem to have anything known against them. They all seem l, at least on the surface, to be fairly decent examples of masculinity and I kind of like that and like that people like them for it.

EasternStandard · Today 18:23

Goditsmemargaret · Today 18:03

England??? Are you having a laugh?

I don’t mind if you think not. The blast of loathing is enough from wherever you are.

BackToLurk · Today 18:24

Goldenbear · Today 18:20

Exactly, it just makes me laugh this notion of Englishness from the 1940s. FFS many of us live and are product of multi cultural England that those judging have never known. It's just embarrassing.

I wonder what about this England team blows people’s mind most?

The fact that the ‘arrogant’ ex public schoolboy is black

The Spanish speaking working class Liverpool man?

The bling loving fella who campaigned for kids to be fed.

Oo look, the English aren’t one thing.

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