To un-invite friend from dinner after she sent me message by mistake

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I’m a long time lurker but have pulled on my big girl pants for my first ever post in AIBU!

We are hosting my friend and her husband on Saturday for dinner. We’ve hosted them before and they’ve always been good company and said they’d enjoyed the food.

We were texting earlier about something unrelated - she clearly had another conversation on the go as she sent a reply which was of no relevance to our conversation.

Her message said:
I can’t do Saturday I am afraid. At (my name)’s for dinner again. That reminds me to stock up on the Pepto for the next morning 😂

Would it be wrong of me to rescind the invite? We go to a lot of effort to host them and feel this is frankly insulting.

Does she not just mean because she'll be eating a lot/drinking lots of wine?? Are you sure its a dig? Xx

I’d screenshot this and send back to her and say “as you clearly don’t like my food the invite has been withdrawn”
leave it at that
watch her squirm

what a horrible person you don’t need her in your life.

Cheeky cow.

I would send her a blistering text back uninviting her.

Send it back to her and await her response

Ouch. That's not kind. Does she drink a lot? She might be referring to a hangover rather than the food.

Maybe she means the food is good but rich and she enjoys it so much, she makes a pig of herself and then suffers from indigestion?

Is it a dig at you or just a comment that she'll be overindulging? She might know she will enjoy herself and suffer after.

Could she be paying you a compliment? Perhaps she knows she'll eat / drink too much because you are such good hosts?

She doesn’t drink when they are here, she will be driving.

Is if definitely a dig? If I kept getting the trots after eating at my friends I wouldn’t keep eating there.

Absolutely this 👌

I have replied already with a ‘?’ - she has read it but not responded yet.

Shall I get some in for your save you popping out?
And leave it at that.

Let her bail out or explain..

Doesn’t it just refer to over indulging

by all means reply and ask her

Maybe she gets heartburn? I have to OD on Bisodol if I go out to eat. It's not like she's saying she'd better line up the sick buckets is it?

The ? Is perfect. Interesting to see what she replies!

Yeah I don't think that's an insult it just means she'll be indulging - i say as a fellow pepto bismol user. She's far more likely to have ibs or heart burn. It's not something I need cause someone is a bad cook.

The gut reaction would be to uninvite too.

Honestly though, how much do you like her? Would you miss her?

Reply back asking if there are any food preferences she had or allergies you should be aware of.

Yeah, that's the way I would have taken it.

This.

Take is as a joke and don’t get dramatic about it. You could reply saying did you mean to send that to me with lots of 🤣🤣🤣🤣 to defuse any awkwardness. Life doesn’t have to be difficult.

The “gut” reaction 🤣

This