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Decoy Wedding?!

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McSteamyorMcdreamy · 03/07/2026 19:32

Apologies I haven't gone through any individual topic to see if there are threads.

But with all the shit in the world going on, and true escapism is anyone else thoroughly excited about the "potential" TS/TK nuptials?

I find I'm far too invested! Pathetic to be so interested? Very possibly but I don't care!

Again apologies if there's already something going... If there is can someone share!

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pinksheetss · 03/07/2026 22:31

It’s reported they have donated 26 million dollars to various charities prior to the wedding

the80sweregreat · 03/07/2026 22:33

Yes, they do seem to be very generous with their money, it’s nice to hear.

Imaginary86 · 03/07/2026 22:38

the80sweregreat · 03/07/2026 22:16

I loved that TS invited Graham Norton ! I wonder if he is going or not ?

I think he’s been seen in NY so most likely

Imaginary86 · 03/07/2026 22:43

the80sweregreat · 03/07/2026 21:20

New Yorkers are not too impressed apparently !
It isn’t the prettiest of places. Has good security, so maybe that was a bigger factor than what it looks like.

It can made to look nice, she has the money

estrogone · 03/07/2026 22:48

Nope for me. A decoy wedding would be a disgusting show of needless excess and waste. I would be far far far more impressed of they had a wedding at a farm in front of 200 of their nearest and dearest.

Gratuitous displays of excessive wealth arent my go to on a Saturday.

estrogone · 03/07/2026 22:51

pinksheetss · 03/07/2026 22:31

It’s reported they have donated 26 million dollars to various charities prior to the wedding

Two things can be true at the same time. Here's a thought - donate the 26m and DONT be a showy, wasteful, cant read the room in a time of social and environmental crises couple.

Use that fame and wealth to do it better.

TooLongDidntRead · 03/07/2026 22:51

the80sweregreat · 03/07/2026 22:13

I saw a car drive through a kind of curtain on the news. Maybe they then had to drive off to a different place … It did look very cloak and dagger.

Obviously the real wedding is in Narnia.

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 03/07/2026 23:04

....and then the thread died. To be honest took longer than I thought.

Who gives a shit?!!!! They CAN do both. It's their money and I personally (and I think I a lot of others) are just here for the craziness of it all.

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pinksheetss · 03/07/2026 23:07

estrogone · 03/07/2026 22:51

Two things can be true at the same time. Here's a thought - donate the 26m and DONT be a showy, wasteful, cant read the room in a time of social and environmental crises couple.

Use that fame and wealth to do it better.

you haven’t seen anything about the actual wedding yet to be making a comment like this?

sorry OP I didn’t mean to derail by bringing up originally. I just thought it was fantastic the amount donated and on top of everything else they have donated over the years

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 03/07/2026 23:12

pinksheetss · 03/07/2026 23:07

you haven’t seen anything about the actual wedding yet to be making a comment like this?

sorry OP I didn’t mean to derail by bringing up originally. I just thought it was fantastic the amount donated and on top of everything else they have donated over the years

No apologies needed at all. She donated a shed ton of cash to food banks and other causes when she was touring over here.

She's earned her money, and she also gives back. Some people can't do right for doing wrong.

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TooLongDidntRead · 03/07/2026 23:12

I only know two Taylor Swift songs, but they are both intensely catchy. The Cray Cray one, and Christmas Tree Farm which gets played in the kitchen every December while I make mince pies.

So I’ll give her that.

McSteamyorMcdreamy · 03/07/2026 23:15

TooLongDidntRead · 03/07/2026 23:12

I only know two Taylor Swift songs, but they are both intensely catchy. The Cray Cray one, and Christmas Tree Farm which gets played in the kitchen every December while I make mince pies.

So I’ll give her that.

🤣🤣

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JaneIves · 03/07/2026 23:18

Graham Norton has been spotted in the last hour in black tie, in New York….

I’m invested! Can’t wait to wake up tomorrow to hopefully see some pics!

estrogone · 03/07/2026 23:48

pinksheetss · 03/07/2026 23:07

you haven’t seen anything about the actual wedding yet to be making a comment like this?

sorry OP I didn’t mean to derail by bringing up originally. I just thought it was fantastic the amount donated and on top of everything else they have donated over the years

Erm. The thread is about a possible DECOY wedding.

Oneisallandallisone · 03/07/2026 23:51

I think they got secretly wed on 13th June, and this is the after party

firstofallimadelight · 03/07/2026 23:57

Malasana · 03/07/2026 22:13

I love TS. I can’t think anyone would be unhappy about her wedding. The hate she’s getting on SM is most odd.
please let her have done a magazine deal so I get to see everything!

Probably not but hopefully it will feature in her next documentary

firstofallimadelight · 03/07/2026 23:57

JaneIves · 03/07/2026 23:18

Graham Norton has been spotted in the last hour in black tie, in New York….

I’m invested! Can’t wait to wake up tomorrow to hopefully see some pics!

She did say she would invite him!

firstofallimadelight · 03/07/2026 23:58

TooLongDidntRead · 03/07/2026 23:12

I only know two Taylor Swift songs, but they are both intensely catchy. The Cray Cray one, and Christmas Tree Farm which gets played in the kitchen every December while I make mince pies.

So I’ll give her that.

I don’t get it please explain

minnymoobear · 04/07/2026 00:01

I love all the drama around it! I love the love Travis and Taylor seem to have for each other and wish them so much happiness - they radiate love and joy and they share it with millions around the world who outnumber the haters! ❤️

Can’t wait to see pics and videos - I have so many questions!! I’m so over invested my family are sick of it 🤣

  • does Jason have a crazy best man stunt planned?
  • Will Kylie be a bridesmaid and her girls flower girls?!
  • will Blake and Ryan be there…
WhatAMarvelousTune · 04/07/2026 00:03

I saw an article that quoted an actress (Busy Phillips) as saying that basically every celeb wedding she’d been to has been disturbed by paparazzi helicopters. So I imagine for Taylor swift’s wedding you could multiply that by quite a lot. So I think a venue you can completely lock down, no point trying to hide that it’s happening but who cares because no helicopter or drone can see you, would be very appealing.

I hope we get a picture of the dress/dresses though. I’m still hoping we get a picture of Zendaya’s wedding dress as she always looks amazing (yes I know these people have a right to privacy and don’t owe us pictures, I’m just saying I’d like to see).
I’d also love to see what they’ve transformed the inside of MSG into.

WhatAMarvelousTune · 04/07/2026 00:04

minnymoobear · 04/07/2026 00:01

I love all the drama around it! I love the love Travis and Taylor seem to have for each other and wish them so much happiness - they radiate love and joy and they share it with millions around the world who outnumber the haters! ❤️

Can’t wait to see pics and videos - I have so many questions!! I’m so over invested my family are sick of it 🤣

  • does Jason have a crazy best man stunt planned?
  • Will Kylie be a bridesmaid and her girls flower girls?!
  • will Blake and Ryan be there…

Blake and Ryan aren’t there. They’ve been pictured somewhere else - some kind of horse event, for one of their children I think.

NeverTalksToStrangers2 · 04/07/2026 00:18

I'm sick of people shaming big weddings. Your wedding isn't better or likely to result in a longer marriage just because it is small. There's nothing wrong with a big party.

If they have money, isn't it good that they spend it? This wedding will have employed so many people. Plus they've given loads to charity.

Haters gonna hate.
I just want to see the dress(es).

BusyExpert · 04/07/2026 00:41

i could not be less interested.

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 04/07/2026 00:52

I think they're already married & this is the wedding reception/party.
I reckon they either slipped away somewhere weeks or ago maybe even tied the knot in London last November as they were filming the Opalite video then.
The wedding bell sounds are so much louder in the Opalite video than on the album - and Taylor loves her Easter eggs........or it's just a big blooming coincidence.

I hope they're having a great time & like @NeverTalksToStrangers2 I just want to see the dresses too.