DH being an ungrateful **** or is it me?

[Fathersdaycry]

DH moaned he didn’t get a breakfast in bed today. Fair enough I could have thought of that but it’s been a stressful few days for other reasons. This seemed to set the tone for the day. He moaned the table at the pub we booked was outside and too hot. DS shouldn’t have got him a big bar of chocolate as it will just melt this week and he doesn’t want to eat it in one go today (he doesn’t keep chocolate in the fridge).

He has had a couple of drinks tonight which he doesn’t usually do on a Sunday night and I’ve come upstairs after he’s insinuated he ‘deserves’ a particular sex act to salvage the day (something I am not against doing but only with some notice for his birthday etc).

I feel like he has been totally ungrateful - nice cards, chocolates, a meal out, dinner cooked at home etc.

Sans the sex act

The whole point of the OP was that she was being manipulated into performing a sex act which she needed notice for. Given she didn't specify, it's then likely that mners will speculate what this is.

Also don't think I've come across a thread where a woman is demanding a particular sex act on Mother's Day. Happy to be corrected though if there is one!

Any man that says you owe him sex only deserves one thing, and that's a divorce. You never owe anybody sex. Not on their birthday, not on Christmas, not on father's day. Utterly disgusting. Your majesty didn't get breakfast in bed so now you have to do anal? I really hope you didn't. Don't let your kids witness this to be the standard of a marriage, or any relationship.

Did you get breakfast in bed, the pride of place for a meal out, the perfect gift and whatever sex you wanted on mother's day? I hope you moaned about all of it and spat it in his face if so.

Not at all, some need serious prep for women 😆, you a bloke??

Ahahahahahaaa doubt the OP was gonna let her kids witness anything(!)

Lmao I was referring to his treatment of her in general, I should certainly hope they didn't witness anything else!

Aaaaahhhhaahaa why is there no laugh reaction / option ffs

OP went to bed with a book, and he apologised.

Still, an unpleasant man.

If my DH spoke to me in this manner, I'd tell him to sleep elsewhere.

Maybe a punishment pegging would have put him straight.

What a miserable ungrateful twat. Hope you didn't give him a birthday blowjob.

Sometimes I am so grateful I never married.

🤣🤣🤣🤣spat my tea out 🤣🤣🤣🤣

7 - 10 business days?

Now you know what to do on Mother's Day OP....he's set a precedent isn't it.

This made me laugh so much!!

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Nothing would give me the ick faster than a man thinking he deserved a sex act from me (especially if that were anal) to ‘make up for’ no breakfast in bed and a too-big chocolate bar. The mind utterly boggles.

I watched a documentary a few years ago about porn stars. The participants had to have very regular sexual health check ups. The doctor also said that all the people having anal sex will end up with incontinence in the future. No way would I ever do it. That hole was only meant for things to come out of, not in.

If something whatever it is is so abhorrent to you you will only do it once a year on special occasions I would suggest leaving it off the menu entirely you don't owe anyone anything. Also your husband's a massive cockwomble and I've gotten the ick just reading about him. Next year do sweet Fanny Adams for him, something to really moan about

He really doesn’t like you. Never mind love you. What you do with that knowledge is up to you.