DH being an ungrateful **** or is it me?

[Fathersdaycry]

DH moaned he didn’t get a breakfast in bed today. Fair enough I could have thought of that but it’s been a stressful few days for other reasons. This seemed to set the tone for the day. He moaned the table at the pub we booked was outside and too hot. DS shouldn’t have got him a big bar of chocolate as it will just melt this week and he doesn’t want to eat it in one go today (he doesn’t keep chocolate in the fridge).

He has had a couple of drinks tonight which he doesn’t usually do on a Sunday night and I’ve come upstairs after he’s insinuated he ‘deserves’ a particular sex act to salvage the day (something I am not against doing but only with some notice for his birthday etc).

I feel like he has been totally ungrateful - nice cards, chocolates, a meal out, dinner cooked at home etc.

You might need to wear a butt plug for a few hours to help facilitate anal?!

Gawd knows. But yeah he sounds absolutely terrible and doesn't deserve any sex act.

Ah! He’s trying another tactic now as the grumpy ‘you-owe-me’ one didn’t work out for him. Don’t be fooled - he still wants that sex-act!

Yes, he was a complete dick but glad you stood your ground and didn't do the sex thing, and he apologised this morning.
It was hot and stuffy yesterday which may have played a part in him being miserable and off. I'd just move on.
Unless of course, he is like this all the time...

Jumping Rabbit is off to Tesco’s

It turns out the “Steak and BJ” day is 14th March, a month after Valentine’s Day…
Score keeping vulgar twaddle.

Sex act aside...
Mother's day/father's day should be for kids doing something for their parents.
Fair enough if they are babies or toddlers and the other parent sorts something out.
But they should NOT be about partner doing something for their partner!
Breakfast in bed should be made by the kids or not at all.
Having said that, I've read tons of posts on here with mums complaining their DH didn't do enough for mother's day as well.

If that's the reason OP should suggest that h can go fuck himself with the rough end of a pineapple.

Yeah I agree.

I’ve never linked Mother’s Day to sex.
That would be incredibly weird.

Who started the stupid bj and steak day and now a sex act on fathers day anyway? Oh, wait a minute a twatty bloke. How stupid an I to think a woman would do those things for the prat she is with, when so many women moan about the same stuff on aibu and relationships.
You don't like doing something, don't do it. He gets it from someone else he's no loss to anyone, as he's just a scummy twat.

Eeeeewwwww. That thought even being in my head has given me the eeebie jeeebies.

This man has a lot to answer for!!

The first paragraph isn’t that different to a lot of the Mother’s Day moans on here in fairness.
The second paragraph he sounds like he’s being a dick.

I've had a shitter of a day and this made me laugh out loud! Thank you very much

https://www.hotukdeals.com/share-deal-from-app/4913804

Don't hop there for the chocolate orange as looks like the deal expired yesterday 😭

He might enjoy that. It would need preparation to get the strap on

Do Australians do something a bit different to us for their fathers then? 😮

Who say no women enjoy it?

Grim 🤮 he sounds a childish twat OP. Was it a genuine apology he gave?

Anyway, I thought anal was for center parcs 🤔 (lighthearted). IYKYK.

Your husband has given me the ick.

Plot twist: the mysterious sex act the husband requested was pegging, not anal as everyone here has assumed 😂

FFS always too late to the chocolate party 😉

Ewwww!😂

Hahah yes, these deals are so random.

It seems that OPs DH also didn't get a chocolate party 😂

I don't think the man is right or even nice and demanding sex is beyond the pail. But lets not act like we don't have dozens of threads on mother day from woman complaining about that exact thing

Again sans the sex act the energy on this thread is very different to that on mother's day.

Completely agree.

And you very rarely get "are you his mum" on those threads

Again I don't think the sex thing is right. I actually don't think any of it is right but it does seem a departure of the norms here.