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Is England’s World Cup entitlement unique, or common in other countries?

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WhenTheDustSettles · 11/06/2026 08:10

Do other countries have the same sense of entitlement to winning the World Cup as we do? All this 30, now 60, years of hurt thing, all the comments about how useless England are, that's gone on for as long as I can remember, how rubbish the managers are etc.

I've never researched it but we can't be the only country to have only won one, or zero World Cups.

Is it unique to England? Or our supporters, I doubt the team has the same sense of entitlement.

OP posts:
HelpMeGetThrough · 11/06/2026 15:13

NotNowSandra · 11/06/2026 08:25

Optimism and positivity is not the same as entitlement. Do you even follow football OP? We have some of the best players in the world.

And we’re still shite.

Didimum · 11/06/2026 15:15

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 15:02

Oh dear. Some people are going to have a MISERABLE next few weeks. How to make something joyous so opinionated.

You can have this opinion while still enjoying the tournament.

frenchnoodle · 11/06/2026 15:19

WhenTheDustSettles · 11/06/2026 08:10

Do other countries have the same sense of entitlement to winning the World Cup as we do? All this 30, now 60, years of hurt thing, all the comments about how useless England are, that's gone on for as long as I can remember, how rubbish the managers are etc.

I've never researched it but we can't be the only country to have only won one, or zero World Cups.

Is it unique to England? Or our supporters, I doubt the team has the same sense of entitlement.

The French fans seem to riot when they win and when they lose football.
I would say not every country, but England isn't alone is thwir behaviour.

LlynTegid · 11/06/2026 15:19

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 15:02

Oh dear. Some people are going to have a MISERABLE next few weeks. How to make something joyous so opinionated.

It may well be joyous watching the French team, the Scottish team who may get to the knockout stages for the first time, I agree.

hourglass2 · 11/06/2026 15:20

sweeneytoddsrazor · 11/06/2026 08:24

It's hope not entitlement and obviously the team and the fans want to win it. What is with this unnecessary trend on MN to rubbish and belittle England and the UK continually ffs

I know, it's so bloody tiresome now...

midlifeattheoasis · 11/06/2026 15:27

I’m sorry but you’re talking out of your arse @WhenTheDustSettles

Of course the England team or supporters don’t think they’re entitled to win .

Where have you got this notion from?

Wanting to win isn’t entitlement

LuckyHazelFox · 11/06/2026 15:29

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 15:02

Oh dear. Some people are going to have a MISERABLE next few weeks. How to make something joyous so opinionated.

Not in our household. Flag flying, wine, 🍺 and snacks 😋 already being bought. Love the atmosphere but dread the inevitable penalties 😔. I don't bank on England winning now so just enjoy the whole tournament 😉 😀

HelpMeGetThrough · 11/06/2026 15:32

LuckyHazelFox · 11/06/2026 15:29

Not in our household. Flag flying, wine, 🍺 and snacks 😋 already being bought. Love the atmosphere but dread the inevitable penalties 😔. I don't bank on England winning now so just enjoy the whole tournament 😉 😀

Flag flying?? That’s brave. Don’t let a mumsnetter see that, you’ll have a thread about you being a “flag shagger” in no time.

Naunet · 11/06/2026 15:33

I hate football, but jesus christ, you're just looking for things to get offended over.

LuckyHazelFox · 11/06/2026 15:38

HelpMeGetThrough · 11/06/2026 15:32

Flag flying?? That’s brave. Don’t let a mumsnetter see that, you’ll have a thread about you being a “flag shagger” in no time.

😆 🤣 it's flying high with pride

weregonnagetrelagetedthistimeforsure · 11/06/2026 15:41

England invented the football league and has a huge and long history.

It's in the blood.

It's not entitlement, it's hopes and dreams.

HelpMeGetThrough · 11/06/2026 15:46

LuckyHazelFox · 11/06/2026 15:38

😆 🤣 it's flying high with pride

I’ll nip out with me paint pot and do a couple of roundabouts.

LuckyHazelFox · 11/06/2026 15:49

HelpMeGetThrough · 11/06/2026 15:46

I’ll nip out with me paint pot and do a couple of roundabouts.

They've ran out of red and white paint where I live. Flag shagging fascist far right thugs that we are 😉

YorksMa · 11/06/2026 15:54

There is no entitlement. The song you're referring to is the opposite of entitlement. It's a self-deprecating lament about how we always manage to mess it up. The 'coming home' bit isn't even about the trophy. It was written for Euro 96, which was hosted in England. So it was the tournament that was at "home". You're looking for offence I think.

igelkott2026 · 11/06/2026 15:57

I think it used to be more entitled but that hasn't been the case for a while now. Perhaps ironically, as they did pretty well under Gareth Southgate.

But football brings out the worst in people and I don't think that's a uniquely English thing at all. And at least referees and players don't get murdered like they do in South America! In fact Gareth Southgate might not have been around to be England manager if they did!

MasterBeth · 11/06/2026 16:07

Enko · 11/06/2026 08:31

I grew up in Scandinavia and no that entitlement. - And I actually think thats a good word for it - is not there. There is hope and wishes and wanting the team to do great but not the "home" I find sportsmanship often lacks in the UK to me thats shown by the reputation British football fans carry abroad.

Ive always disliked the song as the idea a trophy being able to have a "home" annoys me. I recall a song done in my birth country when I was a child for a world cup where the lyric went something like "we will win and get the trophy with us home" aka they would go home with the trophy not the trophy coming home. (they didnt win but were still greeted as heros on return)

However I also fully expect to be told Im wrong and I just dont get Britishness or humour. As heavens forbid someone has a different view to the.majority. I do understand its a song. That doesn't mean I have to like it or that I think everyone thinks thst. It just means that I think its inappropriate and my view is that there is entitlement.

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Football was codified in England. The formal game was invented here. 1863 and all that.

When England hosted Euro96, football (the tournament) came home (to our home).

It's the opposite of entitlement. Listen to the lyrics of Three Lions. We were hoping against hope that we might win, that we could win, even though we kind of suspected we wouldn't win.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 11/06/2026 16:26

Starseeking · 11/06/2026 13:38

Released in 1996 😱😱😱

Christ, it's worrying that I can remember Des Lynam opening the semi final coverage by saying "you've obviously heard there's a football match on tonight" 30 years ago(!!!) but I cannot remember where I last left my keys.

SwingTheMonkey · 11/06/2026 16:46

MasterBeth · 11/06/2026 16:07

Football was codified in England. The formal game was invented here. 1863 and all that.

When England hosted Euro96, football (the tournament) came home (to our home).

It's the opposite of entitlement. Listen to the lyrics of Three Lions. We were hoping against hope that we might win, that we could win, even though we kind of suspected we wouldn't win.

This poster knows this. And still thinks it’s entitlement because it must mean that the English think other teams have less of a right to win 🙄

NotNowSandra · 11/06/2026 16:49

HelpMeGetThrough · 11/06/2026 15:13

And we’re still shite.

Shite is a bit harsh. Iran are shite. The Faroe Islands = shite. England? A perennial underachiever?

HolyCrepe · 11/06/2026 16:53

You're not being unreasonable. England fans seem to think we have the worst football team in the world if we don't win the entire tournament every time. Only one team in the world can win it! (I'm guilty of it, by the way, but acknowledge that my expectations are completely unreasonable!)

KTheGrey · 11/06/2026 16:59

FragrantPalms · 11/06/2026 08:41

Honestly, as a non-Brit who lived in England for a long time, I think it’s another manifestation of national exceptionalism, but a completely harmless one, compared to something like Brexit. I hope you do win it this time.

What do countries have who don’t have national exceptionalism? Whatever it is, I am guessing it’s not as good?

I don’t feel anybody should have to apologise for the - imo completely dotty and unfounded - belief that where they live (what they grew up with, what they are used to, and what they therefore like) is Absolutely The Best Thing Ever. The harmless section of such beliefs (includes football) are frankly a great blessing in living a contented life and people who begrudge such harmless beliefs are grinchy grudge muppets.

TheKittenswithMittens · 11/06/2026 17:04

MasterBeth · 11/06/2026 16:07

Football was codified in England. The formal game was invented here. 1863 and all that.

When England hosted Euro96, football (the tournament) came home (to our home).

It's the opposite of entitlement. Listen to the lyrics of Three Lions. We were hoping against hope that we might win, that we could win, even though we kind of suspected we wouldn't win.

I went to see The Lightening Seeds recently, and we all sung "Three Lions". A lot of fun.

TheKittenswithMittens · 11/06/2026 17:07

We are even getting beaten by foreigners at cheese rolling and wife carrying. 2 other spots that Brits invented. So it's not just football.

FragrantPalms · 11/06/2026 17:13

KTheGrey · 11/06/2026 16:59

What do countries have who don’t have national exceptionalism? Whatever it is, I am guessing it’s not as good?

I don’t feel anybody should have to apologise for the - imo completely dotty and unfounded - belief that where they live (what they grew up with, what they are used to, and what they therefore like) is Absolutely The Best Thing Ever. The harmless section of such beliefs (includes football) are frankly a great blessing in living a contented life and people who begrudge such harmless beliefs are grinchy grudge muppets.

By and large, they don't believe they are inherently superior to or exempt from the norms of other countries, or that they are a pinnacle of social achievement. They aren't desperately trying to compensate for the loss of an empire and the colossal act of national self-harm that was Brexit, and swinging, based on comments on here, between a weird, default self-loathing ('all foreigners are better than us by default', 'I want to emigrate to somewhere less shit where my children will be safe') and an equally weird, touchy sense of grievance about England flags connoting racism for some and a schizophrenic attitude to the NHS, which is either an unimpeachable national symbol, or a wreck barely able to function. (And it is, it seems to be, English national exceptionalism pushing this, rather than Scots or Welsh.)

Don't get me wrong, I lived very happily in England for years. I think it's a great country currently having a temporarily difficult phase. (Not eliding England and the UK, but I never lived outside of England when there).

I just think that the idea of exceptionalism feeds into all kinds of unhelpful stuff, like Brexit. Brexiteers leaned heavily into the idea that Britain would soar free of European bureaucracy and thrive globally. Which is obvious nonsense.

TL;DR. It's not harmless.

Feetballislife · 11/06/2026 17:18

WhenTheDustSettles · 11/06/2026 08:10

Do other countries have the same sense of entitlement to winning the World Cup as we do? All this 30, now 60, years of hurt thing, all the comments about how useless England are, that's gone on for as long as I can remember, how rubbish the managers are etc.

I've never researched it but we can't be the only country to have only won one, or zero World Cups.

Is it unique to England? Or our supporters, I doubt the team has the same sense of entitlement.

It’s why other nations find it hard to support England, the arrogance! They gloat when they win and sulk when they lose…