Help end medical misogyny. Sign our petition.

Help end medical misogyny.
Sign our petition.

Sign the petition

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Is England’s World Cup entitlement unique, or common in other countries?

104 replies

WhenTheDustSettles · Today 08:10

Do other countries have the same sense of entitlement to winning the World Cup as we do? All this 30, now 60, years of hurt thing, all the comments about how useless England are, that's gone on for as long as I can remember, how rubbish the managers are etc.

I've never researched it but we can't be the only country to have only won one, or zero World Cups.

Is it unique to England? Or our supporters, I doubt the team has the same sense of entitlement.

OP posts:
BertSymptom · Today 08:41

HRTQueen · Today 08:27

I’ve been in France and Italy when they have been playing in the World Cup and the streets are empty and the celebrations after when they won was far more exuberant than they are here

but they also don’t appear to sneer at the passion some people have for football I think much of this is down to our good old snobbery as football really is a working class game here

Spot on.

GaslitlikeaVictorianparlour · Today 08:42

WhenTheDustSettles · Today 08:34

I'm trying to understand, not belittle anyone. Most of this doesn't come from the team themselves does it? Look at the abuse they got when those penalties were missed in the Euros. As a kid I remember getting upset with a sort of Guy Fawkes thing made of David Beckham and hung from a noose being shown in the papers. And that was without social media.

Edited

The players have to believe in themselves. If the English believe wholeheartedly that their guys will win, it must be such a boost to the players.

WheretheFishesareFrightening · Today 08:43

Enko · Today 08:31

I grew up in Scandinavia and no that entitlement. - And I actually think thats a good word for it - is not there. There is hope and wishes and wanting the team to do great but not the "home" I find sportsmanship often lacks in the UK to me thats shown by the reputation British football fans carry abroad.

Ive always disliked the song as the idea a trophy being able to have a "home" annoys me. I recall a song done in my birth country when I was a child for a world cup where the lyric went something like "we will win and get the trophy with us home" aka they would go home with the trophy not the trophy coming home. (they didnt win but were still greeted as heros on return)

However I also fully expect to be told Im wrong and I just dont get Britishness or humour. As heavens forbid someone has a different view to the.majority. I do understand its a song. That doesn't mean I have to like it or that I think everyone thinks thst. It just means that I think its inappropriate and my view is that there is entitlement.

Edited

Edited

I thought it was about the sport coming home, not the trophy. Football was invented and officially created (codified by the FA as a professional sport) in England, so England is the home of football.

notantordec · Today 08:43

England always gives off the vibe that they are entitled to win, and it gets tedious tournament after tournament. @WhyamIinahandcartandwherearewegoing As a fellow Scot, it’s not 'chippiness' it’s just exhaustion from hearing about 1966 every time two completely unrelated teams play. We know our team is shite and we aren't going to win; it's no shock to us. And honestly, asking a Scot to support another UK team is like asking us to root for Germany or France. It’s just rivalries, plain and simple.

Dizzydrizzy · Today 08:43

Enko · Today 08:31

I grew up in Scandinavia and no that entitlement. - And I actually think thats a good word for it - is not there. There is hope and wishes and wanting the team to do great but not the "home" I find sportsmanship often lacks in the UK to me thats shown by the reputation British football fans carry abroad.

Ive always disliked the song as the idea a trophy being able to have a "home" annoys me. I recall a song done in my birth country when I was a child for a world cup where the lyric went something like "we will win and get the trophy with us home" aka they would go home with the trophy not the trophy coming home. (they didnt win but were still greeted as heros on return)

However I also fully expect to be told Im wrong and I just dont get Britishness or humour. As heavens forbid someone has a different view to the.majority. I do understand its a song. That doesn't mean I have to like it or that I think everyone thinks thst. It just means that I think its inappropriate and my view is that there is entitlement.

Edited

Edited

But your country didn’t invent football so it wouldn’t be going home would it?!

Boomer55 · Today 08:45

WhenTheDustSettles · Today 08:10

Do other countries have the same sense of entitlement to winning the World Cup as we do? All this 30, now 60, years of hurt thing, all the comments about how useless England are, that's gone on for as long as I can remember, how rubbish the managers are etc.

I've never researched it but we can't be the only country to have only won one, or zero World Cups.

Is it unique to England? Or our supporters, I doubt the team has the same sense of entitlement.

Every team and every country dreams of winning. 🤷‍♀️

Didimum · Today 08:45

I get what you’re saying about ‘entitlement’, OP. I think it goes further than optimism, and strays into ‘it’s ours for the taking’. And the continual theme of how ‘deserving’ England are – despite frequently playing quite crap football in international competition.

Since modern football originated in England, I’m sure that’s part of it.

There’s this very odd sense that the fans literally embody the football team. Which is the case in league football as well. I think it’s can get pretty unhealthy really. And annoying.

It’s a shame most of the games are at terrible times for GMT this time.

SpudGunToo · Today 08:45

giemepeace · Today 08:20

No this is not common in other countries! I think this behaviour is about more than football…

Yes, it probably exists in other sports invented here too.

It’ll be similar with baseball in the USA and Kabaddi in India.

GaslitlikeaVictorianparlour · Today 08:46

Sorry OP, I didn't see your bit abput the missed penalities - I did not know they did that to DB. That's pretty grim

Danhausenrocks · Today 08:47

What people tend to forget is that when Three Lions was released, England were hosting the tournament for the first time in a long time. So the 'coming home' element referred to the fact that the tournament was being held on home soil for the first time in generations, and at that time, we had a capable squad that could have won it. It was tongue-in-cheek banter.

What I think is interesting is that the Lionnesses have won the Euros twice and got to the World Cup final. The under 21 mens team won the tournament last year. It's just the senior mens team and I think thats because the coaches (including southgate) have always taken the best 'players' not necessarily the best team.

This year, Tuchel seems to have selected the best mix of the team, so everyone can play in their best role, rather than selecting a 'better' player and asking them to play somewhere different.

This is one of the few times where the country can be optimistic, enjoy it, and we can pick up the newspapers without reading something that could invariably lead to WW3. So as much of a shitshow as this WC will be, let's enjoy that!

SpudGunToo · Today 08:50

sweeneytoddsrazor · Today 08:24

It's hope not entitlement and obviously the team and the fans want to win it. What is with this unnecessary trend on MN to rubbish and belittle England and the UK continually ffs

It’s generally a left-wing thing. It goes along with their need to explain how there’s not really any English cuisine, or culture, or language and to claim that everything good was built by immigrants.

It’s the sort of sneering disdain that George Orwell was thinking of when he wrote

”In intention, at any rate, the English intelligentsia are Europeanized. They take their cookery from Paris and their opinions from Moscow. In the general patriotism of the country they form a sort of island of dissident thought. England is perhaps the only great country whose intellectuals are ashamed of their own nationality. In left-wing circles it is always felt that there is something slightly disgraceful in being an Englishman and that it is a duty to snigger at every English institution, from horse racing to suet puddings. It is a strange fact, but it is unquestionably true that almost any English intellectual would feel more ashamed of standing to attention during ‘God save the King’ than of stealing from a poor box. All through the critical years many left-wingers were chipping away at English morale, trying to spread an outlook that was sometimes squashily pacifist, sometimes violently pro-Russian, but always anti-British.”

moderateme · Today 08:51

The ‘football coming home’ bit is a reference to the modern came being codified here, I think?

I see it as a triumph of hope over expectation rather than entitlement but maybe I am being charitable 😂

I think other football crazy nations have a similar build up and expectation of success (even if it’s objectively unlikely)

Swiftie1878 · Today 08:54

WhenTheDustSettles · Today 08:41

It's not so much the optimism but the stick they're given when they lose. Gareth Southgate got them further than anyone ever had in decades and the team was still derided along with Gareth himself.

Er, no they weren’t!

SpudGunToo · Today 08:57

Enko · Today 08:31

I grew up in Scandinavia and no that entitlement. - And I actually think thats a good word for it - is not there. There is hope and wishes and wanting the team to do great but not the "home" I find sportsmanship often lacks in the UK to me thats shown by the reputation British football fans carry abroad.

Ive always disliked the song as the idea a trophy being able to have a "home" annoys me. I recall a song done in my birth country when I was a child for a world cup where the lyric went something like "we will win and get the trophy with us home" aka they would go home with the trophy not the trophy coming home. (they didnt win but were still greeted as heros on return)

However I also fully expect to be told Im wrong and I just dont get Britishness or humour. As heavens forbid someone has a different view to the.majority. I do understand its a song. That doesn't mean I have to like it or that I think everyone thinks thst. It just means that I think its inappropriate and my view is that there is entitlement.

Edited

Edited

It’s “home” as England is where football originated.

Thefe are probably Seedes who feel the same about the great world sports that come from there and feel the same when billions of people’s emotions hang on the Rinkball final or the sledge hockey World Cup.

BMW58 · Today 08:59

SpudGunToo · Today 08:50

It’s generally a left-wing thing. It goes along with their need to explain how there’s not really any English cuisine, or culture, or language and to claim that everything good was built by immigrants.

It’s the sort of sneering disdain that George Orwell was thinking of when he wrote

”In intention, at any rate, the English intelligentsia are Europeanized. They take their cookery from Paris and their opinions from Moscow. In the general patriotism of the country they form a sort of island of dissident thought. England is perhaps the only great country whose intellectuals are ashamed of their own nationality. In left-wing circles it is always felt that there is something slightly disgraceful in being an Englishman and that it is a duty to snigger at every English institution, from horse racing to suet puddings. It is a strange fact, but it is unquestionably true that almost any English intellectual would feel more ashamed of standing to attention during ‘God save the King’ than of stealing from a poor box. All through the critical years many left-wingers were chipping away at English morale, trying to spread an outlook that was sometimes squashily pacifist, sometimes violently pro-Russian, but always anti-British.”

George Orwell was absolutely spot on and NOTHING has changed! You read it on here all the time (the Left sneering)

BMW58 · Today 09:00

WhenTheDustSettles · Today 08:41

It's not so much the optimism but the stick they're given when they lose. Gareth Southgate got them further than anyone ever had in decades and the team was still derided along with Gareth himself.

Recollections may vary....

Whatafustercluck · Today 09:00

I actually think entitlement is quite accurate. And it's entitlement born primarily of the fact that we gave the world football, yet can see the irony that we've won the WC just once, a very long time ago!

Dh said to me the other night "I think it's our time" and I'm afraid I just laughed. We've been here sooooooo many times!

Always enjoy watching the Tartan Army, too. They know how to have a good party and are the epitome of "it's the taking part that counts"! I'll be cheering Scotland on, too.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · Today 09:02

We English are very self-depracating, and it's always a bit of a mickey take. Of course we all want to win it but we know we probably won't. It's the hope that kills you.

JacketPotatoFoodOfTheGods · Today 09:03

Watch Dear England OP!

Enko · Today 09:04

WheretheFishesareFrightening · Today 08:43

I thought it was about the sport coming home, not the trophy. Football was invented and officially created (codified by the FA as a professional sport) in England, so England is the home of football.

I'm aware thats the intention however that is my issue and why I agree with op its entitlement. A sport can have a place its invented this doesnt mean that is its "home"

You dont see Norway claiming slalom as being home in Norway or the Danes claiming handball is home in Denmark. Both countries are passionate about their sports but equally are welcoming others to participate without the view that they somehow have more of a claim.

Also we dont see it with Rugby yet rugby was also invented here. I deliberately used rugby here as I think its the best comparison with engagement we could also say badminton, netball, cricket, tennis, darts or boxing all invented in England yet its only football thats coming home.....

Edited spelling

AnonymityAnonymity · Today 09:05

Well i didn't even know England had a World Cup song!

I've just been basking in the fact Scotland are going to be there and steeling myself for the inevitable disappointment to come.

I would say I'm one of those horrible " anyone but England " people if it weren't for the fact there is a whole list of nations i don't want to win it, for a variety of reasons. The USA, France, Brazil to name three.

I would love there to be a miracle and if Scotland can't win it somebody like Haiti winning it would be absolutely wonderful given the poverty, injustice and oppression their country has suffered and is suffering. As that's an impossibility I'll settle for Mexico winning and I would truly celebrate that.

sittingonabeach · Today 09:05

Doesn’t the home bit also refer to the fact that England were playing at home too (just like when they won the World Cup)

Imdunfer · Today 09:06

We did invent the game.

3luckystars · Today 09:11

I’m in Ireland and I don’t speak for everyone but for myself, we know we are not going to win and but absolutely delighted to be there and having then craic. If we win any matches it’s amazing. There are no expectations.

If we actually won the World Cup it would be a huge surprise and the country would likely close for a week, the likes of the celebrations would be like nothing ever experienced before on earth, and it would likely change the world. It would be declared a miracle.

But I think with England you actually could win, and really believe you could win, and then are disappointed if you don’t win. I don’t think you can enjoy it as much as countries that haven’t much chance at winning.

MalteserGeezee · Today 09:12

There is zero sense of entitlement, that's sort of the point -- England might have "invented" the game, but it doesn't own it, it never did. The "coming home" stuff is tongue in cheek sarcasm, the triumph of optimism over experience. We know we're not the best team, although we've had a better run over the last 8 years or so in major tournaments than we usually do.

Swipe left for the next trending thread