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Is England’s World Cup entitlement unique, or common in other countries?

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WhenTheDustSettles · 11/06/2026 08:10

Do other countries have the same sense of entitlement to winning the World Cup as we do? All this 30, now 60, years of hurt thing, all the comments about how useless England are, that's gone on for as long as I can remember, how rubbish the managers are etc.

I've never researched it but we can't be the only country to have only won one, or zero World Cups.

Is it unique to England? Or our supporters, I doubt the team has the same sense of entitlement.

OP posts:
DeftGoldHedgehog · 11/06/2026 11:50

In everyday conversation, "entitlement" often describes a personality trait. A sense of entitlement is the belief that you are owed certain privileges, respect, or material things, regardless of whether you have earned them.

I don't think most fans have a sense of privilege or an over developed sense that respect is owed @WhenTheDustSettles apart from perhaps the Reform, Tommy Robinson types who I would completely distance myself from anyway.

High expectations given recent tournament performances and quality of players, sure.

Much higher than say, 15 years ago when we were at best embarrassing and absolutely rife with club rivalry and poor leadership. I couldn't cheer for England while the likes of John Terry played for them and had no expectations, and the tabloids were absolutely disgraceful and mental, following players and their families around constantly. In fact I preferred if they got knocked out early so I could just relax and enjoy the tournament.

But since 2017 it has been much better and I hope Tuchel can build on the excellent foundation laid by Southgate. I have hopes and expectations but no entitlement whatsoever.

Everanewbie · 11/06/2026 11:52

Why are so many people missing the point of the "its coming home" lyric in Three Lions?

The lyric was about England hosting Euro 96. England was the birthplace of football. While undeniably not its most successful exponents, the birthplace has a fair claim of being the home. It wasn't an presumption that England would win the tournament.

No one seems to question Scotland and specifically St Andrews as being the home of golf. Nor should there be. No one calls that arrogant.

I don't think there is an entitlement. There is a frustration that despite knocking on the door and being in the top 3 or 4 nations for most of that now 60 years of hurt, England hasn't gotten over the line. I think the feeling of arrogance comes more from inferiority complexes from other home nations.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 11/06/2026 12:15

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 11/06/2026 10:47

I think the “football’s coming home” is supposed to be slightly tongue in cheek, it’s just the fans don’t get it.

But it was written for Euro 96 that was in England, so in that sense it came to this country in terms of the tournament being here.

Interestingly, it used to be widely accepted in the UK that football was invented in Italy, it was just that having the first railway network allowed us to have the first league and therefore standardised rules.

I’d read somewhere that football started on these shores with either Vikings or Anglo Saxons, or both - playing a game with the heads of their slain enemies!

Made sense to me, but then I’ve never been much of a footie fan.

sashagabadon · 11/06/2026 12:20

To be fair the Brits have invented quite a lot of modern day sports. Football, cricket, rugby , snooker , darts, formula one. Probably more! We don’t sing our own praises enough imo
(other countries have invented other sports too disclaimer)

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 11/06/2026 13:08

It’s the media. They overhype it in the run up to the competitions. Football commentators “always” mention 1966, and even in matches England is not playing in they “always” refer to players as the “insert any English Premier League team” player, always bring it back to England. That grates in the other UK nations. Then they turn on the tram when they don’t win. I think the ordinary England fan simply supports their team.

LuckyHazelFox · 11/06/2026 13:10

giemepeace · 11/06/2026 08:20

No this is not common in other countries! I think this behaviour is about more than football…

That didn't take long.

Starseeking · 11/06/2026 13:38

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 11/06/2026 11:41

I had a row with one of my then teen DNs during the 2018 world cup when the song had blasted back into the charts as they tried to claim it was a song "their generations" had discovered.

Considering I bought that song on cassette single from good old Wollies years before they were even born, I took exception to their possessiveness.

But I now can't believe that song is 30 or that I am now so old!

Released in 1996 😱😱😱

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:24

Enko · 11/06/2026 08:31

I grew up in Scandinavia and no that entitlement. - And I actually think thats a good word for it - is not there. There is hope and wishes and wanting the team to do great but not the "home" I find sportsmanship often lacks in the UK to me thats shown by the reputation British football fans carry abroad.

Ive always disliked the song as the idea a trophy being able to have a "home" annoys me. I recall a song done in my birth country when I was a child for a world cup where the lyric went something like "we will win and get the trophy with us home" aka they would go home with the trophy not the trophy coming home. (they didnt win but were still greeted as heros on return)

However I also fully expect to be told Im wrong and I just dont get Britishness or humour. As heavens forbid someone has a different view to the.majority. I do understand its a song. That doesn't mean I have to like it or that I think everyone thinks thst. It just means that I think its inappropriate and my view is that there is entitlement.

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Do you really not see the irony and humour in it at all? You really think we all take it that seriously? Honestly some comments on here. It’s a football match. It’s meant to be fun.

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:26

Didimum · 11/06/2026 08:45

I get what you’re saying about ‘entitlement’, OP. I think it goes further than optimism, and strays into ‘it’s ours for the taking’. And the continual theme of how ‘deserving’ England are – despite frequently playing quite crap football in international competition.

Since modern football originated in England, I’m sure that’s part of it.

There’s this very odd sense that the fans literally embody the football team. Which is the case in league football as well. I think it’s can get pretty unhealthy really. And annoying.

It’s a shame most of the games are at terrible times for GMT this time.

I’m starting to wonder if some of the people on here have actually read the words to the song. It’s so funny how literal people can be.

queenofcustard · 11/06/2026 14:29

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:24

Do you really not see the irony and humour in it at all? You really think we all take it that seriously? Honestly some comments on here. It’s a football match. It’s meant to be fun.

I know! imagine taking song lyrics that seriously and getting so annoyed by them and thinking they represent the entire UK.

By that rationale, I think Abba's song winner takes it all is extremely bloody rude. It means that all of Sweden thinks if you lose, you deserve to have nothing at all and are considered "small". Rude.

Didimum · 11/06/2026 14:31

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:26

I’m starting to wonder if some of the people on here have actually read the words to the song. It’s so funny how literal people can be.

I'm not talking about the song.

sittingonabeach · 11/06/2026 14:34

Anyone want to critique Vindaloo

Itsasecretnow · 11/06/2026 14:35

I voted yabu. But mainly because of this; “…30, now 60”!! I did not need that sudden shock to the system today! Yeah, I know how old I am but it’s 30 years . All of a sudden 😱

(eta: also, just because I think you are)

TheVeryThing · 11/06/2026 14:36

PrincessOfPreschool · 11/06/2026 11:30

@TheVeryThingI've drawn France in our family sweepstake

You're in with a good chance, I'd say. Ds1 was very happy to get France.

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:37

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 11/06/2026 10:32

We're going to lose
We're going to lose
We're going... we're going to lose

Let's be honest, folks
Don't get above our station
60 years we've failed
To win it for our nation

We know that we're rubbish, we've no hope
It's such a stupid tro-o-o-ope: to be thinking
We could win; put that thought in the bi-i-i-n!
There's no way, we can't play
As well as Bra-zil...

Let's not waste our time
Stay at home complaining
That we'll never win
And it's always raining...........

Superb!!!! That made me laugh out loud too! I am quite shocked by some of the comments on here. Some of you are so NEGATIVE!!! It’s an exciting tournament. Enjoy it! Support your team(s). I for one will also be supporting Scotland. I hate that insular parochial hate that Scotland have of ‘anyone but England’. It’s so petty. I would love it if one of the home nations were to win! Any sport.

Everanewbie · 11/06/2026 14:41

sittingonabeach · 11/06/2026 14:34

Anyone want to critique Vindaloo

I'll have a go. The song and music video is an attempt to ridicule white working class male football fans by a group of media luvvies who think that they are above all that.

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:46

queenofcustard · 11/06/2026 14:29

I know! imagine taking song lyrics that seriously and getting so annoyed by them and thinking they represent the entire UK.

By that rationale, I think Abba's song winner takes it all is extremely bloody rude. It means that all of Sweden thinks if you lose, you deserve to have nothing at all and are considered "small". Rude.

Good point @queenofcustard . How RUDE indeed!!!

You should hear some of the football chants in the stands. They can be hilarious. Would make some people here fall over with shock and pain !

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:48

Didimum · 11/06/2026 14:31

I'm not talking about the song.

Ok I missed your point then as this entire thread has been about this song. Sorry what is your point then? That England fans think they are more entitled to win the World Cup than any other nation? I don’t get your point.

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:50

sittingonabeach · 11/06/2026 14:34

Anyone want to critique Vindaloo

Here we go!!! Vindaloo.

How entitled English people are to associate their football team with a dish from another nation. 😆

Kalimero · 11/06/2026 14:54

What a ridiculous post. There's no entitlement in English fans hoping to win eventually. Try going to Brazil or Argentina and see how their football fans expectations pitch against English ones. The English are just hoping, knowing deep down their hopes will get crushed so they're having fun with it all

Didimum · 11/06/2026 14:55

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:48

Ok I missed your point then as this entire thread has been about this song. Sorry what is your point then? That England fans think they are more entitled to win the World Cup than any other nation? I don’t get your point.

I'm replying to OP, not to you. The OP only mentioned the song in passing as part of a longer post.

Yes, I do think England fans, when looking at the culture as a whole, tend to have a sense of entitlement to winning international tournaments. You don't have to 'get it' – it's subjective.

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:56

Didimum · 11/06/2026 14:55

I'm replying to OP, not to you. The OP only mentioned the song in passing as part of a longer post.

Yes, I do think England fans, when looking at the culture as a whole, tend to have a sense of entitlement to winning international tournaments. You don't have to 'get it' – it's subjective.

Right-y ho!!! Enjoy the next few weeks then 😂

(and you were LITERALLY replying to my post!)

Didimum · 11/06/2026 15:01

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 14:56

Right-y ho!!! Enjoy the next few weeks then 😂

(and you were LITERALLY replying to my post!)

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No, I didn't. My post tagged no-one and wasn't in reply to anyone. I just addressed OP within the text. Looks like you're thinking of someone else.

Ndd1356387 · 11/06/2026 15:02

Oh dear. Some people are going to have a MISERABLE next few weeks. How to make something joyous so opinionated.

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 11/06/2026 15:06

Oh well, for a bit of miserable humour.

England are 7/1 to win the World Cup. That means if you wager £10………….you lose £10. 🤪