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To think that Starmer must regret taking the knee for George Floyd?

167 replies

Sausagenbacon · Yesterday 08:03

Surely public figures must realise that making empty performative gestures will come back to haunt them at some point?

OP posts:
EasternStandard · Yesterday 09:36

Urgentbiscuitrequired · Yesterday 09:29

This is funny, you're having a go at me telling me I'm assuming posts on here are bot posts - which I didn't say by the way, it is just well known that they are used a lot everywhere.Then you assumed that I'm far left and read the guardian and sneered at that. You are wrong on all of that. I just don't engage in this shit, just trying to get people to remember that Starmer kneeling for a minute or so is a non-event to most people. Starmer would not be described as left wing by the left, I'm pretty sure, either. Maybe not jump to conclusions so quickly from one post? That it why the world is in a mess and so easily manipulated as it is.

Have your opinion - we all have different ones and im not trying to stop that - what I'm saying is that most people don't care. About yours, or even mine. People can't expect everything to fit into their own way of thinking in life. That's completely narcissistic.

I’m not sure you’re right on that, Henry’s death is a major event and the image of Rayner and Starmer taking the knee quickly exposes a weakness.

It’s easy to see online and for cut through it’s high.

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:36

Urgentbiscuitrequired · Yesterday 09:35

You sound like you need a break.

Her statements don’t even make sense.

”George Floyd had an unsavoury background, it doesn’t mean he should be murdered by the police, but it has to be considered that it happened”

Um okay?

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 09:37

TheTealHiker · Yesterday 09:32

That's true.

My DH has a visceral hatred of Starmer, so he's voting Monster Raving Loony, based on the principle that there isn't a sane one among them...🙂

My OH is the same about Starmer.it makes good piss taking material over dinner. I'm getting my 🍿 ready for the local election. I don't care who wins the seat. If its Burnham, starmer is gone. If its Kenyon, it's only a matter of time before Labour are toast. A big wake up call is coming.

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:37

EasternStandard · Yesterday 09:36

I’m not sure you’re right on that, Henry’s death is a major event and the image of Rayner and Starmer taking the knee quickly exposes a weakness.

It’s easy to see online and for cut through it’s high.

What weakness?

Is saying that systematic racism in the police force isn’t acceptable, weakness?

Dollymylove · Yesterday 09:39

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:34

He’s acknowledged the death long before America got involved?

But unlike those on the right, Starmer has respected Henry’s families wishes to be able to grieve without his death becoming a political issue.

What, by making them walk up Downing street in full view of the whole world? Why couldn't have visited them at their home?

RedTagAlan · Yesterday 09:39

Ginnyweasleyswand · Yesterday 09:31

George Floyd was murdered by a police officer when he shouldn't have been. Of course that's awful. As is ANY murder or wrongful death at the hands of the State.

But it's very far away. Loads of Iranians have also been killed by their government recently. I bet there are thousands of wrongful deaths in the US that are equally abhorrent. The only difference is the publicity that it was accorded.

It's not coherent to apply that one death in the USA to policies which shape actions of public institutions in the UK which is a totally different situation. It'd be as if Putin went all weird about one murder in the US and reorganised the Russian army because of it. Or Xi Jinping. They'd look ridiculous. As does Starmer.

Except of course BLM was about the system being against non white people. And Britain has a system and non white people. That is why the UK had BLM protests.

So anyone taking the knee was doing so to acknowledge that the UK has issues too. Not ridiculous at all.

Shakeoffyourchains · Yesterday 09:39

TheTealHiker · Yesterday 09:27

Oh dear, where that lot come from ?

And I'm not sure which "you lot" you refer to? 🤔

Apologies, assumed it was pretty obvious but for clarity "you lot" in this context = right whingers.

Bluehouse14 · Yesterday 09:39

ExtraOnions · Yesterday 08:24

I think that taking a stand against a Police Force using excessive force, and killing sometime in the process of doing that, is no bad thing.

Acknowledging institutional racism is no bad thing.

Being anti-racist is no bad thing.

Recognising White Privilege, and, Male privilege are no bad things.

The only people who seem to get upset about these things are those who have spent centuries enjoying that privilege, and don’t like other people getting a slice of the pie.

Absolutely agree!

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Yesterday 09:39

This is so ridiculous. No individual lives for centuries (and obviously especially not a young man like Henry Nowak, RIP, failed by this system) and in fact 'white privilege' is in fact only rich white privilege. There are plenty of white people - a larger number than those who had any kind of privilege - who were in the workhouses when Britain had an empire. Dying of TB and other horrible diseases, Extremely high child mortality. They were not any better off than poor people in other countries and died, in their thousands, in extremely nasty conditions

Do you even know what white privilege is? As t sounds like you don't have the first clue.
It's nothing to do with "how well off" people are, how many diseases we may have or whether have been in a workhouse or not.
It means I can go and walk down the street knowing I won't get either verbally attacked or physically just because of the colour of my skin.
Without even opening my mouth, and minding my own business.
That's pretty privileged in my eyes.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 09:40

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:37

What weakness?

Is saying that systematic racism in the police force isn’t acceptable, weakness?

The same weakness that our PM acknowledges we face the most worrying times yet still won't cut the welfare budget. Defence needs more money but Starmer is too weak and doesn't have enough support to stand up to his back benchers.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 09:40

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:37

What weakness?

Is saying that systematic racism in the police force isn’t acceptable, weakness?

Lack of consistency and highly likely to do empty gestures. Lammy for a start has rowed back now, social contagion for a US issue, pretty much what I agreed with in @Ginnyweasleyswandposts

That image now doesn’t work for them.

giemepeace · Yesterday 09:40

I think the issue with gestures like taking the knee, is that it’s only meaningful if we believe the gesturer is genuinely moved and trying to find a way to express that. Unfortunately in a culture where virtue signalling has become rife - we can often feel when people are doing these gestures in a politically or socially performative way without meaningfully caring about the cause. We can’t really know the minds of others but we are now so used to being skeptical of those in power and distrusting their motivations.

I don’t think it was wrong at the time to try and find a way to show that he stood with black people around the world who have been systematically, institutionally oppressed. I do think he’s insipid and will do and say what he thinks will make him popular. I think he should regret being or appearing to be that kind of character, more than any gesture.

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:40

Dollymylove · Yesterday 09:39

What, by making them walk up Downing street in full view of the whole world? Why couldn't have visited them at their home?

Presumably they agreed, he didn’t “make” them.

Farage had a “private” meeting with them, supposedly, and he then contravened their wishes.

If he had met them at home, you’d be saying that he’s disrespected them by keeping them hidden, he should be meeting them at Downing Street to show respect etc etc.

Violetparis · Yesterday 09:40

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:34

How is it relevant?

You’re essentially saying that if you’ve got a criminal background you should accept that the police can murder you.

He was violent and abusive towards women, he didn't deserve to be murdered but he didn't deserve to be treated like a martyr either.

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:40

Dollymylove · Yesterday 09:39

What, by making them walk up Downing street in full view of the whole world? Why couldn't have visited them at their home?

Presumably they agreed, he didn’t “make” them.

Farage had a “private” meeting with them, supposedly, and he then contravened their wishes.

If he had met them at home, you’d be saying that he’s disrespected them by keeping them hidden, he should be meeting them at Downing Street to show respect etc etc.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 09:41

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Yesterday 09:39

This is so ridiculous. No individual lives for centuries (and obviously especially not a young man like Henry Nowak, RIP, failed by this system) and in fact 'white privilege' is in fact only rich white privilege. There are plenty of white people - a larger number than those who had any kind of privilege - who were in the workhouses when Britain had an empire. Dying of TB and other horrible diseases, Extremely high child mortality. They were not any better off than poor people in other countries and died, in their thousands, in extremely nasty conditions

Do you even know what white privilege is? As t sounds like you don't have the first clue.
It's nothing to do with "how well off" people are, how many diseases we may have or whether have been in a workhouse or not.
It means I can go and walk down the street knowing I won't get either verbally attacked or physically just because of the colour of my skin.
Without even opening my mouth, and minding my own business.
That's pretty privileged in my eyes.

You've got a low bar for privilege then.

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:41

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 09:40

The same weakness that our PM acknowledges we face the most worrying times yet still won't cut the welfare budget. Defence needs more money but Starmer is too weak and doesn't have enough support to stand up to his back benchers.

They tried. They cut the WFA for wealthy pensioners and the right revolted.

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:41

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 09:40

The same weakness that our PM acknowledges we face the most worrying times yet still won't cut the welfare budget. Defence needs more money but Starmer is too weak and doesn't have enough support to stand up to his back benchers.

They tried. They cut the WFA for wealthy pensioners and the right revolted.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 09:42

ilikeachallenge · Yesterday 09:41

They tried. They cut the WFA for wealthy pensioners and the right revolted.

..and the rest of the welfare allocation?

EasternStandard · Yesterday 09:42

Shakeoffyourchains · Yesterday 09:39

Apologies, assumed it was pretty obvious but for clarity "you lot" in this context = right whingers.

Tbf this says more about people who can’t comment without that last part.

charliehungerford · Yesterday 09:44

Ginnyweasleyswand · Yesterday 08:54

This is so ridiculous. No individual lives for centuries (and obviously especially not a young man like Henry Nowak, RIP, failed by this system) and in fact 'white privilege' is in fact only rich white privilege. There are plenty of white people - a larger number than those who had any kind of privilege - who were in the workhouses when Britain had an empire. Dying of TB and other horrible diseases, Extremely high child mortality. They were not any better off than poor people in other countries and died, in their thousands, in extremely nasty conditions. That's the majority experience of the majority of white people in this country for all of time. The idea these people, as a group, had any kind of privilege is laughable.

'Anti-racism' is the new racism. It divides and does not unite, it gives the elite (the same as the wealthy landowners and gentry of previous times) the power to decide who is 'worthy' and who is not, basically. They've just flipped it around as to who gets the knee on the neck or the back, basically. So they can pretend they're good people.

Kemi Badenoch gets it right, and I'm sure she's experience real racism in her life. But she doesn't use it to get one over on everyone else, all the people who just happen to have a different skin colour to her but aren't in fact racist. She shows far more willingness to show respect to all, give regard based on behaviour not any group identity, and embrace difference than Starmer who blows with the wind.

Henry Nowak's murderer knew exactly what to say to deflect blame. He'd obviously done it before. The family were still doing it in court. It has obviously been a successful tactic for a long time. Whilst what they did was despicable (and what the son did was murder) it's the fault of the police, politicians, and government institutions that this obvious attempt to avoid accountability worked and lead to situation that may have resulted in the avoidable death of a young man.

It may have worked over the longer term if Henry hadn't died because it's a bit difficult to argue you're the victim when the person you're claiming has oppressed you is dead.

Edited

An excellent post. I agree with every word you have written.

GeneralPeter · Yesterday 09:45

HRTQueen · Yesterday 09:34

Absolutely agree

Plenty of black people from left, right and centre opposed BLM. From Thomas Sowell to Cornell West. 81% of black Americans polled in 2020 wanted the same or more policing, per Gallup.

Thinking only self-interested whites opposed BLM’s aims and methods is like thinking all white Brits support the EDL. Easy to do if you are across the pond and badly misinformed.

www.washingtonexaminer.com/news/2587680/gallup-poll-81-of-black-people-want-police-to-stay-in-their-neighborhoods/

Daygloboo · Yesterday 09:49

ExtraOnions · Yesterday 08:24

I think that taking a stand against a Police Force using excessive force, and killing sometime in the process of doing that, is no bad thing.

Acknowledging institutional racism is no bad thing.

Being anti-racist is no bad thing.

Recognising White Privilege, and, Male privilege are no bad things.

The only people who seem to get upset about these things are those who have spent centuries enjoying that privilege, and don’t like other people getting a slice of the pie.

Well said.

Pearlstillsinging · Yesterday 09:49

RedTagAlan · Yesterday 08:55

Quote : "...calling for police defunding (which predictably led to a big rise in murders where it was tried, mostly of black people). "

Where was defunding tried that led to a big increase in murders ?

I can't recall seeing this anywhere.

In the USA.
PP are conflating what happened in America, with protests here which mainly involved pushing over statues.
I assume OP meant that KS' taking the knee means that JD Vance felt it appropriate to make ill-informed comments on HN's murder.

TheFairyCaravan · Yesterday 09:50

Shakeoffyourchains · Yesterday 09:18

Speaking of performative gestures, where is Farage's address to the nation to call for pure cold rage, and the ordinary people who've had enough's "protest" over the brutal and unprovoked murder of Mohammed Algasim by Chas Corrigan?

He was silent when John Ashby was convicted of the racially aggravated rape and assault of a Sikh woman too.

And we all had to be calm and “not allow the tragic murder of a young woman turn into attacks on men and the police” after Sarah Everard was raped and murdered by a police officer.

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