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AIBU to keep my two-year-old at nursery when displaying increasing aggressive behaviour?

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ThePoisedOpalBird · 27/05/2026 18:18

I'm partly posting here as it gets more replies and also because i'm not sure whats best.

I have a lovely 2 year old who has been put on a ABC review due to aggressive behaviour. So far he has been on it a week and it seems to have got worse! He has had around 12 incidents in the space of a week ranging from pushing kids down to trying to hit with items or just straight out smacking them in the face. So far nursery have not identified a single trigger!

He is casually walking up to these kids seemingly happy and then hurting them. There is no overwhelming crying or other kids taking his toys etc. He just seems to walk up to them, hurt them, smile and now runs away from his teachers (I assume as he now knows they are going to remove him from the situation and do a different activity with him.

I'm at a loss of how nursery are going to tackle this when there is seemingly no cause? Could he just be bored?

I guess my aibu is do I let nursery continue to try and work this out and hopefully he doesn't end up being kicked out. Or would it be more reasonable to remove him and keep him at home?

Any advice greatly appreciated!

OP posts:
Floppyearedlab · 28/05/2026 09:30

ScarlettSarah · 28/05/2026 07:23

Mother of 4, here. I'm afraid this doesn't sound like regular 2 year old behaviour (even with adjusting to a baby sibling) and you would do well to stop downplaying it. He doesn't sound 'lovely', to be quite honest with you. His behaviour sounds disturbing. Please pull him out of nursery for the sake of the other children - it simply isn't fair on them to be attacked physically every day like this. If I was another parent there, I'd be livid.

You also need to readjust your attitude around your baby needing you. Your older baby also needs you - he is still very little. Breastfeeding is not the be all and end all, and if it's disrupting family life to this extent, it's time to consider a bottle. For the sake of your older child, who is crying out for your attention.

I do feel for you - it must be very tough doing it alone six days a week.

This is probably the most sensible poster on here.

sparrowhawkhere · 28/05/2026 09:52

I can’t find the post that said not to worry about your son not attending nursery before school as she did never did and was fine. Life was very different, those not attending anything before school would have most likely gone to playgroups, mum’s and toys, been with family children etc. It is unusual if a child joins without attending a setting or regularly going to groups. I think you need some more support from nursery. Without being patronising to them, their experience will vary, you might have inexperienced staff or have staff with a lot on their plate already, I think you need further support from the senco. Biting to this extent is a real concern. It’s not your fault but I would have been very upset if my nursery child had come home bitten.

Dont accept there is nothing to worry about, push for some support.

Besafeeatcake · 28/05/2026 11:58

Bookbears · 28/05/2026 07:07

Decided to read the rest of the comments before I leave the thread as it’s making me so angry, and pleased to have finally seen that someone with common sense has commented.

My son nearly died at nursery because of a child like this. He shouldn’t be there full stop! You are right that this is not normal, no matter how much the OP tries to convince herself it is and everyone else commenting saying it’s perfectly normal is only enabling her further. Absolutely developmentally normal for a 2 year to hit or bite someone a couple of times (although mine never did) and learn from their mistake, but not to this extent. I just feel for all the other kids going into nursery today scared they are going to be attacked by this child - and it absolutely will be happening. Kids crying not wanting their parents to leave, kids sitting by themselves scared to go near him, it’s absolutely awful!

How unbelievably awful for you and I hope you kid is okay. I agree I think it’s actually like watching a car crash waiting to happen. Why is every other kid the Guinea pig for this behaviour waiting to happen? 12 incidents a day?!?! That’s crazy. It’s the callous behaviour after being all sweetness and light that scares me. There is a bigger issue going on here which the OP won’t see as the nursery are trying to be positive.

Besafeeatcake · 28/05/2026 12:02

ThePoisedOpalBird · 28/05/2026 00:54

I have no issues with play fighting with my son. I did it with my dad when I was younger. Being thrown onto the sofa and spun around was alwayd great fun. BUT if it is causing an issue I will look for other ways to meet his needs.

Nursery are the ones saying how lovely he is. How sweet he is with the other kids hugging, kissing, checking if they are okay when they are sad, playing with them. Yes it is a concern he is seeking to push and shove but I am not sure he really understands that he is hurting them.

To start with there is nobody else to hold the baby between feeds as it is just me and the boys most of the time. Baby also feeds often every hour sometimes every 2. I have been told by GP, HV and lactation consultant that this is 100% correct and I should not be witholding the breast even if its just he needs comfort.

Your denial is scary OP.

Wow a lactation consultant, GP and HV. What part of the country do you live in with all of these people advising you regularly for a three month old baby. Because my GP referred me to HV and comfort sucking isn’t necessary. Of course don’t deny your baby milk. But every hour is comfort sucking and not necessary.

VickyEadie · 28/05/2026 12:11

Laurmolonlabe · 27/05/2026 22:36

I understand your worries, but this level of socialisation before school is a relatively new thing- I didn't go to school until I was 5 and I never went to nursery, and most of my friends didn't either- we were fine.
You need to build his communication skills at home, you can't expect others to do it for you.

This. I'm in my late 60s now but absolutely nobody had been to nursery (there weren't any) when I started school two months before my fifth birthday and it was just me with my 3 years older brother and Mum and then just with Mum when older brother started school. And you went full on to school - first day, all day and all week, etc!

We did have very small amounts of socialisation with friends/family's children, but it wasn't regular.

VickyEadie · 28/05/2026 12:14

sparrowhawkhere · 28/05/2026 09:52

I can’t find the post that said not to worry about your son not attending nursery before school as she did never did and was fine. Life was very different, those not attending anything before school would have most likely gone to playgroups, mum’s and toys, been with family children etc. It is unusual if a child joins without attending a setting or regularly going to groups. I think you need some more support from nursery. Without being patronising to them, their experience will vary, you might have inexperienced staff or have staff with a lot on their plate already, I think you need further support from the senco. Biting to this extent is a real concern. It’s not your fault but I would have been very upset if my nursery child had come home bitten.

Dont accept there is nothing to worry about, push for some support.

Nope - there were no playgroups, "Mums and toys" and so on when I was a small child from 1958 onwards. You're right, it was different times - most mothers didn't work until well after their children started school - but it was mostly mums and children at home together, all the time, until the child started school aged nearly 5.

Most mothers were incredibly strict with their children, mind...

Balloonhearts · 28/05/2026 12:37

I would introduce bottles personally and express milk. That way you know exactly how much baby is actually getting, feeding every hour suggests not much. That way your partner can hold/feed the baby more and you're not forced to neglect your 2 year old.

At the moment he is getting no attention and I know it's hard, I have 4 close in age, but you can't neglect the older child and expect him not to develop behaviour problems. He's gone from all your attention to none, there is zero time where its just you and him. Of course he is jealous and lashing out.

Your partner needs to be pulling his weight when he is home, why are you completely solo parenting all week? Does he not take the baby when he gets home to give you a break? He needs to, it's a piss take to expect you to do it all.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 28/05/2026 14:46

@VickyEadie I agree. No such thing as a playgroup unti around 67 where we lived. Younger sister went but me and middle sister did nothing. Yr saw numerous dc crying and as a summer born I had one term before y1. It wasn’t great and mums taught reading and maths because we missed out on so much. Yes, mums were stricter and no one had a baby attached all day! All that housework and shopping and cooking to do! How did babies ever survive?

Abracadabra12345 · 28/05/2026 15:16

I think there has even great advice offered here and OP thank you for being brave enough to post on an AIBU. I hope you have been able to glean some good ideas and support

Just to say that “no” can be triggering - I used to use the word” Stop” (and hand gesture) instead.

Abracadabra12345 · 28/05/2026 15:31

G1ngerbread · 28/05/2026 08:28

Please ignore posters being cruel and implying your child is a psychopath in the making. No, it’s not typical behaviour, hence the ABC, but it’s also not wildly out of the ordinary in a nursery setting.
It does sound like there’s an element of sensors seeking behaviour, especially as you describe him as physical. The nursery could try providing enough activities for him to get what he needs from a sensory point of view.
It is highly unlikely they would ever ask you to leave, and I wouldn’t really advise it unless he seems to be struggling all of the time (ignore people saying he should be removed for the ‘safety’ of others. Believe me, he won’t be the only one hitting).

If for example you was to place a ball, Teddy, cup and spoon on the table and say “pass me the cup and ball please” would he be able to do that, with no other prompting or repetition? Or a Teddy, doll, brush and sponge and “can you wash the baby?”

Just quoting this post because I agree with all that has been said. Sounds like someone who has personal experience!

To quote this:

If for example you was to place a ball, Teddy, cup and spoon on the table and say “pass me the cup and ball please” would he be able to do that, with no other prompting or repetition? Or a Teddy, doll, brush and sponge and “can you wash the baby?

I used to work my way through this with a small group of children who had delayed speech. So we’d start with a cup; name it, play with it. No other objects. Then a ball. Hold it. Name it. Encourage chid to name it: “It’s a b..” so they finish the name.

Once they are secure in the names, ask them to give you the cup. If it’s wrong just hold out hand, place their hand on the cup to pass to you and say “Cup!” And continue, very slowly adding/ swapping with other items. No prompting or gesturing.

So you can test your son’s understanding step by step. Does he understand the word? Can he pass the correct item? Then add action words “ drink from cup” “ wash teddy”. Can he do that?

Its also a fun. way to spend 1:1 time with you and takes minutes.

i used to keep mine in a special bag and the moment my children saw it they’d drop whatever they did and come running!

Motherbear44 · 28/05/2026 15:40

ThePoisedOpalBird · 27/05/2026 20:08

So far time of day varies. Mainly in morning but some afternoons. Hes having 2 portions of breakfast at home plus fruit and then snack in the morning at nursery and lunch before 12 so I don't think he is hungry.

100% not constipated. He has had 3 good poops todays.

So far they haven't found a trigger. Nobody seems to be taking his toys and he isnt getting frustrated playing. Apparently it is a very happy attitude as he approaches other children and a happy attitude when he hurts them.

Is he trying to get toys from other children? He doesn’t know how to ask and so pushes and grabs?

If this is the case I would teach him ( by demonstrating and practicing with LEGO etc). As a speech and language therapist I always teach requesting with my palm up and an outstretched hand. Palm up makes grabbing more difficult. There always is a trigger. Behavior is never random. When nursery has identified it then you and they will be better placed to adapt it.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 28/05/2026 16:42

@G1ngerbread Do you always blow up what people say to ludicrous levels? It’s obvious to anyone who has dealt with dc that all this training doesn’t work for all. Saying no or stop - who cares?! Just don’t injure other dc! Of course nurseries ask aggressive dc to leave. They don’t want other parents going. I’m obviously aware this is the nuclear option but it happens. They are commercial organisations after all and other parents want dc to be safe. If he continues to hurt dc and smile afterwards, his empathy isn’t great.

G1ngerbread · 28/05/2026 17:14

Besafeeatcake · 28/05/2026 12:02

Your denial is scary OP.

Wow a lactation consultant, GP and HV. What part of the country do you live in with all of these people advising you regularly for a three month old baby. Because my GP referred me to HV and comfort sucking isn’t necessary. Of course don’t deny your baby milk. But every hour is comfort sucking and not necessary.

You are wrong. HV will absolutely advise to let the baby latch either for comfort or food whenever they want. They would never advise not to let a 3 month old comfort feed.

It is also really not strange to have a GP and HV. Lactation consultant will be private I imagine.

G1ngerbread · 28/05/2026 17:16

Besafeeatcake · 28/05/2026 11:58

How unbelievably awful for you and I hope you kid is okay. I agree I think it’s actually like watching a car crash waiting to happen. Why is every other kid the Guinea pig for this behaviour waiting to happen? 12 incidents a day?!?! That’s crazy. It’s the callous behaviour after being all sweetness and light that scares me. There is a bigger issue going on here which the OP won’t see as the nursery are trying to be positive.

2 year olds are not callous or scary. I’ve worked with children in various capacities and roles, and this is really not rare behaviour. It’s not typical, but there is no need to clutch pearls. It very much sounds like either sensory seeking behaviour, or a child with either communication, or social communication difficulties. I am not saying it is fair or right for the other children but people here are overreacting massively.

Floppyearedlab · 28/05/2026 18:08

Balloonhearts · 28/05/2026 12:37

I would introduce bottles personally and express milk. That way you know exactly how much baby is actually getting, feeding every hour suggests not much. That way your partner can hold/feed the baby more and you're not forced to neglect your 2 year old.

At the moment he is getting no attention and I know it's hard, I have 4 close in age, but you can't neglect the older child and expect him not to develop behaviour problems. He's gone from all your attention to none, there is zero time where its just you and him. Of course he is jealous and lashing out.

Your partner needs to be pulling his weight when he is home, why are you completely solo parenting all week? Does he not take the baby when he gets home to give you a break? He needs to, it's a piss take to expect you to do it all.

She doesn't need 'a break', she needs to wake up and remember she has 2 children, not 1, and that her older but still very young child's needs are currently being severely neglected.
Totally agree with your first paragraph though.

Skybluepinky · 28/05/2026 18:35

Biting and hitting people at home, sounds like you need to speak to GP to see if any parenting classes are available before nursery tell you they can no longer have them as they are a danger to others.

ThePoisedOpalBird · 28/05/2026 19:13

Skybluepinky · 28/05/2026 18:35

Biting and hitting people at home, sounds like you need to speak to GP to see if any parenting classes are available before nursery tell you they can no longer have them as they are a danger to others.

He vary rarely hits and bites at home. He has bitten twice in the last 2 weeks and that is the first time he has bitten since he was around 1. He again hits very infrequently at home and it always has a very obvious trigger such as the baby screaming or a tantrum which given the big change in his life with the baby and being a just turned 2 year old is very normal so no I don't think I need parenting classes thank you.

Our main issue is hitting and pushing at nursery not at home.

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italianmountains · 28/05/2026 19:19

My 2 year old granddaughter was one of the victims of such a child. Being bitten, hit or kicked by another 2 year old, seemingly out of the blue and also whilst smiling. As in your case a trigger was not identified but he had far more one to one positive attention both to try and avoid such situations, and indeed afterwards. While the other victims received far less, even when injured and upset. Some of the other children left the nursery. But when my granddaughter, repeating what the nursery staff said, "oh X doesn't mean it, he is just upset by something" and this had the result in making my granddaughter feel guilty for being bitten ect as she witnessed X being aggressive towards her. This once happened when the children were being collected and her parents witnessed first hand how all the attention was given to the biter and not the victim, So it was time to taker her out also.

I should say I am an foster carer now and care for children who have complex needs and behavioural issues, so this is no way supposed to condemn the child or the OP, believe me some of those I care for have done much worse. But I do believe there has to be some sort of punishment, because removing the child can offer appear to be a reward for them rather than a punishment. And those that have been bitten or kicked receive less attention as everything is focused on the child who has hurt them (and after all the staff cannot be everywhere). Hope that makes sense.

ThePoisedOpalBird · 28/05/2026 19:24

Floppyearedlab · 28/05/2026 18:08

She doesn't need 'a break', she needs to wake up and remember she has 2 children, not 1, and that her older but still very young child's needs are currently being severely neglected.
Totally agree with your first paragraph though.

You are 100% correct I don't need a break. I have no issues being the main parent.

Politely however bog off with the comments regarding giving a bottle. I'm not exactly sure what that is meant to achieve as he would 1 still be taking breast milk and 2 would still want to feed to sleep on the breast and be held whilst he sleeps and 3 I would still be the one feeding him so doesn't exactly free up time.

He is 3 months old. He is literally just coming out of the 4th trimester. We will continue to practice everyday putting him down for short periods but I will not allow him to scream to the point he is sick it is just cruel.

And quite frankly I have taken them both to the zoo today on a very warm day, I have had to hold the baby all day but there was not one incident of hitting, bitting or anything even with other children in the playground or the whole evening at home with his brother. So he isn't out of control, he isnt neglected, whilst he would love more 1:1 time he is quite capable of having a nice time and being good even if hes not the centre of attention.

As I have mentioned nursery are having a far bigger issue than we are at home which is why I am struggling to support them.

OP posts:
ThePoisedOpalBird · 28/05/2026 19:27

italianmountains · 28/05/2026 19:19

My 2 year old granddaughter was one of the victims of such a child. Being bitten, hit or kicked by another 2 year old, seemingly out of the blue and also whilst smiling. As in your case a trigger was not identified but he had far more one to one positive attention both to try and avoid such situations, and indeed afterwards. While the other victims received far less, even when injured and upset. Some of the other children left the nursery. But when my granddaughter, repeating what the nursery staff said, "oh X doesn't mean it, he is just upset by something" and this had the result in making my granddaughter feel guilty for being bitten ect as she witnessed X being aggressive towards her. This once happened when the children were being collected and her parents witnessed first hand how all the attention was given to the biter and not the victim, So it was time to taker her out also.

I should say I am an foster carer now and care for children who have complex needs and behavioural issues, so this is no way supposed to condemn the child or the OP, believe me some of those I care for have done much worse. But I do believe there has to be some sort of punishment, because removing the child can offer appear to be a reward for them rather than a punishment. And those that have been bitten or kicked receive less attention as everything is focused on the child who has hurt them (and after all the staff cannot be everywhere). Hope that makes sense.

I have to admit the first day they did the ABC I think there was only 2 incidents. This then because 7 on the second day (although it was 33 degrees and they were stuck in a small room) and then 4 on the third day.

So I am wondering if he has realised that pushing etc gets him more attention or a new activity

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MaddestGranny · 28/05/2026 20:17

ThePoisedOpalBird · 28/05/2026 00:15

Well baby does often feed every hour or so. I feed fully on demand. He also sleeps on me and next to me and feeds to sleep and wont be put down into bouncers, swings or cots so no it isnt super easy to just leave him. But I will try taking my toddler to the park around the corner on his dads day off next week that way if my partner cant settle him or he needs a feed sooner he can get to me easily. In a few months it will be easier to leave him for an hour or so.

Of course I correct him! He is actually generally very good with other kids. We went to a big soft play party yesterday and he was the youngest there and played beautifully for an hour and a half.

We correct him when he throws toys (I don't have an issue with him dumping out toys at home as thats how he plays) but he isnt allowed to just throw toys around he gets told No and the toy gets removed or we leave the place we are playing at. He gets told no biting. But he finds the word no funny. So I can tell him No until I am blue in the face but it has no impact on him.

If you have any suggestions on how to make him actually respect the word no please feel free.

But besides removing toys when he throws them, saying no and leaving places when he hurts people. I don't really know what to do. The consequences for a 2 year old are very limited!

He gets told off if he bites grandad and he just laughs and my dad is scary when he says no but my toddler doesn't really care.

Very young children don't really understand the "no" or "less" or "minus" concept. In a way, they interpret both yes&no and more&less as YES and MORE.

That is, as far as their language acquisition is concerned, they don't really yet have an "off button" (there is evidence on this / experimental research based on Piagetian developmental principles). It's why positive reinforcement (praise) is more effective than negative reinforcement (which still provides some attention and, to the attention-hungry child, is much better than nothing).
You could try being very sad when he acts inappropriately. Downturned mouth and sad eyes (over acting) and in v sad & lowkey voice saying things like: "X makes mummy very sad when X hurts grandad/ bites Y/ pushes Z" ... & on repeat ... "mummy is very very sad when X does rough things to A.N.Other" ... and "Daddy gets sad, too. Don't you Daddy? When X is rough? When X hurts somebody?" Daddy also overacts in agreement: "Yes, Daddy is very very sad when that happens". Et cetera.
When Nursery Staff report his behaviour to you, be "more in sorrow than in anger". Look at the staff, NOT at your son, when they are telling you. Freeze him out a bit (cruel to be kind). Apologise to them, assure that you'll be further discussing "the unwanted behaviour" at home with your DH. Support the staff with your speech and actions - so that DS sees this.
Meanwhile, EVERY TIME you catch him being kind and gentle, over act the praise and joy. Ladle it on with a trowel. It won't go amiss.
ANY attention is better than NO attention. Makes sure you put the message that you want in with the TYPE of attention he gets.
"Catch Him Being Good" and Praise Him, even better, Touch And Praise - i.e. touch him gently on the cheek or rub his arm or back and say "well done" or "good boy", etc. You and your DH need to make very very sure he is getting at least as much (postive) attention as the new baby.
Good luck.

ThePoisedOpalBird · 28/05/2026 20:25

MaddestGranny · 28/05/2026 20:17

Very young children don't really understand the "no" or "less" or "minus" concept. In a way, they interpret both yes&no and more&less as YES and MORE.

That is, as far as their language acquisition is concerned, they don't really yet have an "off button" (there is evidence on this / experimental research based on Piagetian developmental principles). It's why positive reinforcement (praise) is more effective than negative reinforcement (which still provides some attention and, to the attention-hungry child, is much better than nothing).
You could try being very sad when he acts inappropriately. Downturned mouth and sad eyes (over acting) and in v sad & lowkey voice saying things like: "X makes mummy very sad when X hurts grandad/ bites Y/ pushes Z" ... & on repeat ... "mummy is very very sad when X does rough things to A.N.Other" ... and "Daddy gets sad, too. Don't you Daddy? When X is rough? When X hurts somebody?" Daddy also overacts in agreement: "Yes, Daddy is very very sad when that happens". Et cetera.
When Nursery Staff report his behaviour to you, be "more in sorrow than in anger". Look at the staff, NOT at your son, when they are telling you. Freeze him out a bit (cruel to be kind). Apologise to them, assure that you'll be further discussing "the unwanted behaviour" at home with your DH. Support the staff with your speech and actions - so that DS sees this.
Meanwhile, EVERY TIME you catch him being kind and gentle, over act the praise and joy. Ladle it on with a trowel. It won't go amiss.
ANY attention is better than NO attention. Makes sure you put the message that you want in with the TYPE of attention he gets.
"Catch Him Being Good" and Praise Him, even better, Touch And Praise - i.e. touch him gently on the cheek or rub his arm or back and say "well done" or "good boy", etc. You and your DH need to make very very sure he is getting at least as much (postive) attention as the new baby.
Good luck.

Thank you so much for this! Super helpful.

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CaptainMyCaptain · 28/05/2026 20:26

ThePoisedOpalBird · 27/05/2026 18:49

Sorry what are marathon signs?

It's Makaton not marathon.

BertieBotts · 28/05/2026 20:30

More incidents on a day they were cooped up indoors doesn't sound surprising. It sounded when you were saying it's gone from 2 incidents to 7 that this was a general pattern of things increasing over a few weeks, not just one day to the next.

Young children often smile or laugh when they are doing something they know is naughty - it does not mean they are getting some kind of perverse kick out of it. It means they are testing a boundary. This is completely normal. He might need a clearer response signalling that the behaviour is unacceptable - redirection might be inadvertantly rewarding as others have said. They would do better to look for patterns in his behaviour/body language before an incident (this might be easier to observe on CCTV recordings if they have it) so they can redirect before the incident happens, and/or to generally increase supervision when he is near other children indoors, or try to ensure he is constantly occupied so that he doesn't get bored.

Some of the responses on this thread are quite frankly bonkers. It's common for children to go through a hitting/pushing/biting phase, especially when they have just gained a baby sibling, and the reaction doesn't need to be pulling them out of childcare. The parent should take it seriously and try to address it if it occurs at home, as well as looking at any developmental concerns, and stay in communication with the nursery (which OP is doing all of). If the child with challenging behaviour seems to be extremely distressed by the environment, then it might be worth looking at reducing time or removing them from said environment, but it doesn't sound like they are at that point yet.

I completely understand for the parent of the child who was injured that it can be triggering to read about these things, but children of this age do get physical with each other and nurseries need policies to safeguard children from it. Gaining a concussion from such an incident is horrific and must have been awful to experience, however I imagine this is very rare to the point it must have had an element of bad luck. You cannot eliminate all risk at nursery, and toddlers hitting or pushing each other doesn't usually cause concussion.

I don't think that physical play with toddlers like throwing them around, tickling etc counts as "play fighting" and it has lots of benefits apparently, in any case I certainly would not stop a form of play which he enjoys and engages with, as positive supportive relationships with adults who love him are incredibly important for young children. I think some wording by OP is being taken out of context by other posters and exaggerated, although of course this might be my interpretation.

I did look at the ASQ for 27 months and am a bit confused about saying DC meets all the criteria for communication if he will not follow directions, as four of the six questions are related to following simple directions, the other two are using pronouns correctly and putting 3-4 words together, which I am not sure if DC is doing (you said he has started putting words together "sometimes"). But even if he was doing both of those things consistently (not "sometimes") the points for those two questions do not take him out of the dark shaded area, which indicates further investigation is likely to be needed.

The lack of any other collaborative play is extremely unusual - have you done an M-CHAT questionnaire? That might be one to discuss with the health visitor as some of the questions can be a bit ambiguous, but the versions for HCPs have much more specific clarifications with examples.

CaptainMyCaptain · 28/05/2026 20:42

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I don't actually think it's what you need though.